I'd be mightily pissed off!! I give people the benefit of the doubt in a lot of circumstances but it all depends on the reason... 30 mins before would have to be seriously exceptional circumstance as to why! Unless you've had a serious emergency then I can't see why 30 mins before you would cancel. Especially the effort us girls have to go to!! |
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"I'd be mightily pissed off!! I give people the benefit of the doubt in a lot of circumstances but it all depends on the reason... 30 mins before would have to be seriously exceptional circumstance as to why! Unless you've had a serious emergency then I can't see why 30 mins before you would cancel. Especially the effort us girls have to go to!! "
Feel the same ... I make the effort, my time is precious so I expect the same courtesy ... |
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"I'd be mightily pissed off!! I give people the benefit of the doubt in a lot of circumstances but it all depends on the reason... 30 mins before would have to be seriously exceptional circumstance as to why! Unless you've had a serious emergency then I can't see why 30 mins before you would cancel. Especially the effort us girls have to go to!!
Feel the same ... I make the effort, my time is precious so I expect the same courtesy ... "
Ya I'm like that.. he said d meet was at 11 and if he tout I was der waiting he wud have txt earlier... Told him he Shud have txt earlier regardless den he went on to say dat he only realised he wudnt have d car 10 min before he txt... Is dat not like 2 different excuses dat contradict each other?? |
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"I'd be mightily pissed off!! I give people the benefit of the doubt in a lot of circumstances but it all depends on the reason... 30 mins before would have to be seriously exceptional circumstance as to why! Unless you've had a serious emergency then I can't see why 30 mins before you would cancel. Especially the effort us girls have to go to!!
Feel the same ... I make the effort, my time is precious so I expect the same courtesy ...
Ya I'm like that.. he said d meet was at 11 and if he tout I was der waiting he wud have txt earlier... Told him he Shud have txt earlier regardless den he went on to say dat he only realised he wudnt have d car 10 min before he txt... Is dat not like 2 different excuses dat contradict each other??"
He bottled it |
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Emergencies can happen. Things can pop up.
But I know for us, our meets are important. We know exactly when our next meet is. We know to have babysitters planned. We make family decisions based on our meet so we don't double book our time.
We would certainly know on the day of a meet if we had transport or not. |
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"Emergencies can happen. Things can pop up.
But I know for us, our meets are important. We know exactly when our next meet is. We know to have babysitters planned. We make family decisions based on our meet so we don't double book our time.
We would certainly know on the day of a meet if we had transport or not. "
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
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if the ambulance stopped I can picture you climbing into the back to grind one out ... since he's there ... |
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
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 pretty much...
Had a no show no text till late at night on the day of the meet ... no show... |
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
if the ambulance stopped I can picture you climbing into the back to grind one out ... since he's there ..."
What was it Tom Cruise had to say?
"Show me the stump!"  |
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Bad form..similar happened to me last week..you get disillusioned..
Its like they go for the chase and want to see if your interested..then boom.
Vanish
But the good ones more than make up for it  |
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
oh candy I'm weak   "
smiles are better by miles. |
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
if the ambulance stopped I can picture you climbing into the back to grind one out ... since he's there ...
What was it Tom Cruise had to say?
"Show me the stump!" "
he wanted to see the stump
you have uses FOR the stump |
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
pretty much...
Had a no show no text till late at night on the day of the meet ... no show... "
Happens all the time to guys on here.
Whichever way it is there are few reasons to waste someone's time by doing so.
It says much about how you value another's time if your prepared to treat another person with such a lack of respect.
But then it's fab people do all sorts of strange things and it's their loss of they behave to others like that. |
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"30 mins before! I'd expect the ambulance to stop outside the hotel so I could see the leg that fell off.
if the ambulance stopped I can picture you climbing into the back to grind one out ... since he's there ...
What was it Tom Cruise had to say?
"Show me the stump!" "
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I'd someone not even cancel a meet.. they were in contact, told me they'd a blow out.. could be delayed..then just disappeared.. not been online in a week and no messages, not answering phone..
I dont know if he's dead or not..
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"I'd someone not even cancel a meet.. they were in contact, told me they'd a blow out.. could be delayed..then just disappeared.. not been online in a week and no messages, not answering phone..
I dont know if he's dead or not..
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"I guess it really depends on the reason for cancelling.For they short notice in my opinion if has to be a valued reason and not just the goldfish dying.  "
Goldfish for some are integral members of the family.
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"I'd someone not even cancel a meet.. they were in contact, told me they'd a blow out.. could be delayed..then just disappeared.. not been online in a week and no messages, not answering phone..
I dont know if he's dead or not..
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I had the same this weekend.
He definitely will be dead when i get my hands on him |
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"Things do happen last minute and all depends on what reasons were given if valid or not.
I would prob just block'em and move on "
Well he said if he knew I was der waiting he wud have txt earlier.. I said he Shud have txt regardless.. and he went on to say he only found out 10 min before he txt me dat he wudnt have d car.. 2 contradicting excuses  |
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over a year ago
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"Things do happen last minute and all depends on what reasons were given if valid or not.
I would prob just block'em and move on
Well he said if he knew I was der waiting he wud have txt earlier.. I said he Shud have txt regardless.. and he went on to say he only found out 10 min before he txt me dat he wudnt have d car.. 2 contradicting excuses "
No car holyshit what a terrible reason to cancel.
Maybe I got carjacked and they locked me in the boot I am using the last of my phone battery to let you know and beg for forgiveness.
Ps. Please call the police if you can thanks Might be ok |
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"Things do happen last minute and all depends on what reasons were given if valid or not.
I would prob just block'em and move on
Well he said if he knew I was der waiting he wud have txt earlier.. I said he Shud have txt regardless.. and he went on to say he only found out 10 min before he txt me dat he wudnt have d car.. 2 contradicting excuses
No car holyshit what a terrible reason to cancel.
Maybe I got carjacked and they locked me in the boot I am using the last of my phone battery to let you know and beg for forgiveness.
Ps. Please call the police if you can thanks Might be ok"
If u can't be bothered to read the full post, then don't reply.. keep ur smart comments to urself.. |
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over a year ago
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"Jus wondering wats yer views on cancelling a meet..is 30 min before enough time to cancel a meet (when ur already there waiting) or am I being a bit harsh on him?? "
I did read above and just said it was a terrible excuse to cancel and made fun of his excuse. Sorry you think I was smart towards you |
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"Jus wondering wats yer views on cancelling a meet..is 30 min before enough time to cancel a meet (when ur already there waiting) or am I being a bit harsh on him??
I did read above and just said it was a terrible excuse to cancel and made fun of his excuse. Sorry you think I was smart towards you "
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"Jus wondering wats yer views on cancelling a meet..is 30 min before enough time to cancel a meet (when ur already there waiting) or am I being a bit harsh on him??
I did read above and just said it was a terrible excuse to cancel and made fun of his excuse. Sorry you think I was smart towards you "
For a second I thought that you were the meet
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"Jus wondering wats yer views on cancelling a meet..is 30 min before enough time to cancel a meet (when ur already there waiting) or am I being a bit harsh on him??
I did read above and just said it was a terrible excuse to cancel and made fun of his excuse. Sorry you think I was smart towards you
Sorry my apologies x"
You may not think so right now and his behaviour is indefensible...
But maybe you caught a break... |
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"Jus wondering wats yer views on cancelling a meet..is 30 min before enough time to cancel a meet (when ur already there waiting) or am I being a bit harsh on him??
I did read above and just said it was a terrible excuse to cancel and made fun of his excuse. Sorry you think I was smart towards you
For a second I thought that you were the meet
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Thirty minutes notice to cancel isn't enough if you've just changed your mind, but if it's an emergency there's no time too short. Sometimes life just gets in the way, and if you don't want to take the person's word for it, don't, but I've had to change plans last minute before and I'm glad I was believed so I'd always give the benefit of the doubt where possible. |
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over a year ago
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"Jus wondering wats yer views on cancelling a meet..is 30 min before enough time to cancel a meet (when ur already there waiting) or am I being a bit harsh on him??
I did read above and just said it was a terrible excuse to cancel and made fun of his excuse. Sorry you think I was smart towards you
For a second I thought that you were the meet
actually so did I "
Nope and nope I never cancel too hard to get a meet to waste it |
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I had ladies chatting for days just chicken out and disappear on me . Had this one went to meet her 3 times I must have been mad . Cos she was just a total messer . Would not give phone no . If your meeting someone I think you need a phone no . Some guys give us nice gents a bad name not showing up . |
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