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over a year ago
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Online is a limited experience. People can lie, pretend to be younger, taller, boobier ...
But at a social or meet and greet, you make real connections. You get to communicate fully.
It's like comparing masturbation with sex. Masturbation can give you great pleasure but it's not as fulfilling as sex
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Swinging is not just Wamb bam for lots it has a whole social side to it which some enjoy. I supose in the origins it was a house party where people met up had a laugh and a chat threw the keys in a bowl and that's how it started
In our modern more out going selection process we attend parties and make out own selections see if there's a connection on all sides and the sex happens
Taking it a step futher we can meet on line lots of prospective partners but can u imagine all the parties ud have to go to to see if those that catch ur eye online are what u think they are
Whereas at a meet and greet u can do multiple socials all at the one time and place making a mental note of who ud like to take to the next level and those who are nothing like the mental picture u have build plus they are great craic ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Often wondered why do people need to run to a meet&greet?.
Expressing my thoughts here."
Because - surprise surprise - people lie on Fab about all sorts of things.
Meeting in a social context soon demonstrates who's honest and who isn't ! Although you tend to find the fantasists run a mile from a social meeting as they fear behind found out lol
Another reason - some folk who seem to meet your preferences are dull as dishwater when you actually meet them. A social allows the contact to end pleasantly over a pint or a coffee as opposed to an excruciating end game where you rack your brains for a nice way to extricate yourself from their banality ....
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