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Bedroom talk or just rude
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do people think when a guy messages looking to "fuck a slut" , is it just me or is this rude and disrespectful? I get why we're all here but I am sick of guys thinking its ok to speak like this!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok thanks so much, so I'm not over reacting or being too sensitive. 
I think someone should make sure you even want to speak to them first and make sure you're comfortable with them and what everyone's looking for before assuming you're his "slut".
Wasn't a nice message to see first thing this morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think that some guys on here think that because it's a sex site they can talk to females without any respect. ...
Yes us ladies here maybe abit more free spirited, but it doesn't mean we are going to fuck anyone that's offering. ..
Im as choosey about my sexual partners on fab in the same way I am in my normal life .....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely agree there is a disrespect and disregard of women on this site and I agree porn has been an influence they can't tell the difference between reality and fantasy! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
I think it's down right rude however op you shouldn't take that personally or seriously. Just laugh it off and answer something like 'beep, beep wrong number' & block.
Those guys disqualify themselves with three words. |
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"What do people think when a guy messages looking to "fuck a slut" , is it just me or is this rude and disrespectful? I get why we're all here but I am sick of guys thinking its ok to speak like this!
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I think some guys on here think they have the right to speak to women that way simply because of why we're here. No matter what we're here for we deserve to be spoken to and treated with respect.
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By *cilWoman
over a year ago
Wexford |
I think men and women use the term differently.
Some men use slut as a compliment, in that they like how openly sexual a woman is in bed. Whereas most women see the term as an insult.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think calling a woman a slut at any time is rude and disrespectful. I couldn't imagine myself saying to a woman "Take it hard you dirty slut". It just doesn't sound right and I don't think it would induce her to 'take it hard' either.
I think any man that sends a mail to a lady that says suck me, fuck me or any other derogatory term in it, only goes to show what would come down the line later on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men and women use the term differently.
Some men use slut as a compliment, in that they like how openly sexual a woman is in bed. Whereas most women see the term as an insult.
Bang on the money
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think in the middle Of The act it's acceptable (sometimes) but as a chat up line it's a bit much
Unless this is how ladies on fan like to be chatted up.... If so I need to change my Schtick.. |
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"Ok thanks so much, so I'm not over reacting or being too sensitive.
I think someone should make sure you even want to speak to them first and make sure you're comfortable with them and what everyone's looking for before assuming you're his "slut".
Wasn't a nice message to see first thing this morning "
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By *cilWoman
over a year ago
Wexford |
"I think men and women use the term differently.
Some men use slut as a compliment, in that they like how openly sexual a woman is in bed. Whereas most women see the term as an insult.
Bang on the money
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Notes only though, coins might be uncomfortable |
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A lot of guys look at your profile or should I say glance at it and think they know you. Names/pet name should be used in context definitely not in a first message. Total disrespect. Some pics posted on here lately don't help. Just sayin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you've gone to the trouble of putting an actual name on your profile then you should be called by that.
If your username is sluttycunt and your name is slutty underneath then that's fair game.
You can only go buy what people say they are called. Whether that be an initial or a bogus first name. Anyone notice there's loads of Dave's here 
Sending a random message saying hi you filthy slut would get deleted and if the person kept up the stupidity then a block.
Pet names seem to annoy me more though. Hun, sweetie, babe and all that sugar coated nonsense. 
Just call me sexy  |
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I think there's a time and place for filthy talk. Same as in any nightclub, you wouldn't approach a woman with "Fancy a fuck luv?" or if you did, you better be skilled at dodging a drink 
I think a better approach is a normal or cheeky opener, chat for a little bit, then escalate to proper filthy talk. Maybe then ask for directions
Hey, a guy can dream can't he?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a time and a place for filthy talk, but it's not in a first message, and for me personally it's not in any message. It's a personal and 'in person' thing.
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First off maners maners then respect respect and then talk nicely . There should be no need to mention sex since we're all here for the same reason. When I'm chatting up ladies I never mention sex no need to . |
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Only one person would get away with calling me that and he knows he wouldnt get away with it in public. I agree pet names in first messages are so off putting that i know i just glance over them or delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a time and a place. If its with someone you know it can be fun.
If its in a message from a stranger, it's rude.
Too many boys seem to think that porn is reality and they over use this sort of language because they think that's how real men behave. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is a time and a place. If its with someone you know it can be fun.
If its in a message from a stranger, it's rude.
Too many boys seem to think that porn is reality and they over use this sort of language because they think that's how real men behave. "
Absolutely, in the bedroom with my partner is a completely different story, an opener for a concersatipn starter is completely different.
I think the porn thing is spot on, some guys can't differentiate between a porn movie and real life. Those guys might be single for quite some time  |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
Enniskillen |
"Ok thanks so much, so I'm not over reacting or being too sensitive.
I think someone should make sure you even want to speak to them first and make sure you're comfortable with them and what everyone's looking for before assuming you're his "slut".
Wasn't a nice message to see first thing this morning "
They wouldn't go up to a woman in a bar and come out with that as an opening line (I hope). Bit of respect goes a long way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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HB loves acting and being Slutty especially at parties, enjoys (in the right context) being called one too.
But we both despise crude oneline messages, "wanna Fuck slut" etc, etc.
Instant block, |
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