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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've just read a thread about how many messages ladies delete on a daily basis and any lady I meet has told me it's an unbelievable amount.
So to help the genuine non Copy and paste brigade.
LADIES PLEASE :
Tell us what intrigues you and would help a guy STAND OUT !! |
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I suppose it comes down to what each individual is looking for. We delete a mass of messeges each day, many are just the "any Pics" variety but we do try to reply to most. Some people want to go into days of chats and make friends, others (like us) will just meet when we can and interact little inbetween. To stand out just be polite, no text speak and then you are already above many of the guys that messege us! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go back to the thread and read it again. By applying a set of filters the influx is very manageable.
As for standing out: there's no elegant fits all recipe. Be yourself. "
I agree Totally you need to be yourself. My main point is not how you manage an influx but to get advice for guys on how to grab a ladies attention. In my experience all ladies are very different so would nice to maybe share ?
What catches your eye ?? Pic ? Headline etc. ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I suppose it comes down to what each individual is looking for. We delete a mass of messeges each day, many are just the "any Pics" variety but we do try to reply to most. Some people want to go into days of chats and make friends, others (like us) will just meet when we can and interact little inbetween. To stand out just be polite, no text speak and then you are already above many of the guys that messege us! "
Interesting and very polite of you to make the effort. I'm similar if I can feel a connection I'll look to chat and/or meet for coffee. Manners cost nothing as they say and seems like you respond to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's hit or miss I'm afraid. Some reply, some don't, some just give a one worded reply after you've read their profile and tried to get a couple of paragraphs together for them. If their getting endless fuck me now mails and yours happens to be in the middle of them, you are screwed. Then you can be mailing for a few hours and because they haven't paid, they haven't a clue what you wrote to them originally and it just gets deleted. There's no hard and fast rule my friend, just try and be an original minnow in the massive sea of sharks. It will come good for you in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's hit or miss I'm afraid. Some reply, some don't, some just give a one worded reply after you've read their profile and tried to get a couple of paragraphs together for them. If their getting endless fuck me now mails and yours happens to be in the middle of them, you are screwed. Then you can be mailing for a few hours and because they haven't paid, they haven't a clue what you wrote to them originally and it just gets deleted. There's no hard and fast rule my friend, just try
and be an original minnow in the massive sea of sharks. It will come good for you in the end."
Thanks for the heads up and advice I'm fine really I actually teach how to stand out and be influential in my line of work. I'm really talking on behalf of the guys that are genuine and maybe don't know what they are doing wrong. I agree with all your points totally correct. |
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For me a witty or funny first message gets me interested. And I don't like when they send a facepic in the first message and expect one back when there has been no conversation whatsoever. Anyone who can hold a normal conversation without jumping straight to talking about sex within the first few messages is also a plus.  |
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"For me a witty or funny first message gets me interested. And I don't like when they send a facepic in the first message and expect one back when there has been no conversation whatsoever. Anyone who can hold a normal conversation without jumping straight to talking about sex within the first few messages is also a plus. "
Witty headline or message ?? |
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"For me a witty or funny first message gets me interested. And I don't like when they send a facepic in the first message and expect one back when there has been no conversation whatsoever. Anyone who can hold a normal conversation without jumping straight to talking about sex within the first few messages is also a plus.
Witty headline or message ?? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me a witty or funny first message gets me interested. And I don't like when they send a facepic in the first message and expect one back when there has been no conversation whatsoever. Anyone who can hold a normal conversation without jumping straight to talking about sex within the first few messages is also a plus.
Witty headline or message ??
Message"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like when someone reads our profile and address whatever stood out to them in the message. If they're funny even better, Mr fuddy however isn't as fussy, he likes when they have a vagina and pulse   |
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I woke up at 4am this morning and couldn't get back to sleep so I logged on. Basic search revealed 4 women and 64 men online at the time. That's odds of 16 to 1 which is pretty dismal. However, most social events, kinky and non kinky I have noticed the odds fairly even. That means most of the guys online here are in my opinion a waste of space and that's why it's quite a challenge for the ladies to wade through them.  |
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"I woke up at 4am this morning and couldn't get back to sleep so I logged on. Basic search revealed 4 women and 64 men online at the time. That's odds of 16 to 1 which is pretty dismal. However, most social events, kinky and non kinky I have noticed the odds fairly even. That means most of the guys online here are in my opinion a waste of space and that's why it's quite a challenge for the ladies to wade through them. "
Exactly .... guys will drop out at last minute from socials. Yet they go on about not getting meets! |
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"I like when someone reads our profile and address whatever stood out to them in the message. If they're funny even better, Mr fuddy however isn't as fussy, he likes when they have a vagina and pulse "
Ha ha Men will be men that said a Vagina and pulse are pretty fundamental ???? |
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"I woke up at 4am this morning and couldn't get back to sleep so I logged on. Basic search revealed 4 women and 64 men online at the time. That's odds of 16 to 1 which is pretty dismal. However, most social events, kinky and non kinky I have noticed the odds fairly even. That means most of the guys online here are in my opinion a waste of space and that's why it's quite a challenge for the ladies to wade through them. "
That explains the back log off mails and the copy and paste brigade partially explained |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, very nice of you to ask on behalf of those guys that cannot figure it out by themselves. However, I stand on the side of the survival of the fittest. Joining the site does not guarantee you a free ride and if an adult man cannot figure it out by himself how to make others interested in him, he's simply not worth the interest he's trying to gain.
I know it's harsh what I say but I think if you are looking to help those genuine lads, they should be allowed to fail, fail and fail again and learn in the process by themselves. |
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"OP, very nice of you to ask on behalf of those guys that cannot figure it out by themselves. However, I stand on the side of the survival of the fittest. Joining the site does not guarantee you a free ride and if an adult man cannot figure it out by himself how to make others interested in him, he's simply not worth the interest he's trying to gain.
I know it's harsh what I say but I think if you are looking to help those genuine lads, they should be allowed to fail, fail and fail again and learn in the process by themselves."
What a load of Bull. |
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"What a load of Bull."
That's exactly the problem man. You cannot even write more than a very short sentence to explain what you mean by calling bullshit on what I said.
I really do hope that when you message people here, you put more effort in it, as otherwise you'll be part of why some people here are speaking badly about single lads.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a load of Bull.
That's exactly the problem man. You cannot even write more than a very short sentence to explain what you mean by calling bullshit on what I said.
I really do hope that when you message people here, you put more effort in it, as otherwise you'll be part of why some people here are speaking badly about single lads.
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spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just read a thread about how many messages ladies delete on a daily basis and any lady I meet has told me it's an unbelievable amount.
So to help the genuine non Copy and paste brigade.
LADIES PLEASE :
Tell us what intrigues you and would help a guy STAND OUT !! "
A Big Cock  (HB) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a load of Bull.
That's exactly the problem man. You cannot even write more than a very short sentence to explain what you mean by calling bullshit on what I said.
I really do hope that when you message people here, you put more effort in it, as otherwise you'll be part of why some people here are speaking badly about single lads.
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Its a sex site lad not life and death situation.Never heard of anyone dying from lack of sex.people like you take things far to serious lad.
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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if they all tell you and everyone starts doing the same then you will be doing the right things but still not standing out.
Just be yourself. if its ment to be it will but it wont happen on its own. You have to work at it, put the effort in and if you get a few brakes you might get lucky.
But you might not and handling rejection is something everyone has to learn in here.
Just remember to stand out for all the right reasons and not for the wrong ones.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It really depends. For me one guys copy and paste job gets me in a quirky way and another could say similar and get deleted. It really depends on my mood. And if your face pic is attractive or not to me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yea handling rejection comes with the territory here.
Telling you lads to getting knocked back by loads of girls aint healthy either just a word of warning.
Just be careful ya dont turn into a cockhead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just read a thread about how many messages ladies delete on a daily basis and any lady I meet has told me it's an unbelievable amount.
So to help the genuine non Copy and paste brigade.
LADIES PLEASE :
Tell us what intrigues you and would help a guy STAND OUT !!
A Big Cock (HB)"
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If you put yourself in a woman's shoes (not literally ) and you're getting 100 messages a day mostly of cock pics with "wanna f#@k?" or "Hi hun" in most of them...
How would you feel?
Now, consider what type of pic and opener might entice or intrigue a little?
Be genuine, a little funny and don't take it too seriously and you'll have no problems getting meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It really depends. For me one guys copy and paste job gets me in a quirky way and another could say similar and get deleted. It really depends on my mood. And if your face pic is attractive or not to me.. "
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"I've just read a thread about how many messages ladies delete on a daily basis and any lady I meet has told me it's an unbelievable amount.
So to help the genuine non Copy and paste brigade.
LADIES PLEASE :
Tell us what intrigues you and would help a guy STAND OUT !!
A Big Cock (HB)
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