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over a year ago
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I think you being able to accommodate is a huge plus for a potential fbuddy so you'll probably find it easy getting regular fun.
However what you expect from that FB is the real thing to think about.
You can't get emotional about him. This is a swing site and no matter how regular you may meet he will still be likely to play with others when the opportunity arises.
So you can't expect loyalty but you can ask for honesty. Always best to be upfront and pragmatic about this fun.
Best of luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone got any tips on what to look for from a partner when ya want a reg fuck buddy.
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Someone local?
Honesty trust someone you can talk to as well as fuck..
Perhaps there's no magic formula and trying to tick boxes of requirements is not the way to approach it...
Good luck with your search...
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"Anyone got any tips on what to look for from a partner when ya want a reg fuck buddy.
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As long as there's basic chemistry, attraction and you both get along...
Also, if you're both into similar things or open minded about trying new things can make for an interesting partnership too   |
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"I think you being able to accommodate is a huge plus for a potential fbuddy so you'll probably find it easy getting regular fun.
However what you expect from that FB is the real thing to think about.
You can't get emotional about him. This is a swing site and no matter how regular you may meet he will still be likely to play with others when the opportunity
arises.
So you can't expect loyalty but you can ask for honesty. Always best to be upfront and pragmatic about this fun.
Best of luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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You both need to be comfortable with it and know that it's no more than just pure sex and no emotional attachment. There has to be some physical attraction for you both and it's not going to suit both of you when either one wants to meet up and you have to accept that. |
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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago
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I'd say you have to build a form or relationship, where you are relaxed and truth each other. Be honest with each other and are attracted or click!
It's a bit like a relationship but willing to fuck other people!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh i know i can keep a safe distance..... i just find the guys arent honest on here and would love to see what people find as red flags on here"
Nope there not hunnie ..trust your own judgment |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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As it is a sexual arrangement most important is that you click in the bedroom, that you enjoy each other mutually and maybe push each other's boundaries. So it's not something you can look out for in that sense, it either happens or it won't. |
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"I think you being able to accommodate is a huge plus for a potential fbuddy so you'll probably find it easy getting regular fun.
However what you expect from that FB is the real thing to think about.
You can't get emotional about him. This is a swing site and no matter how regular you may meet he will still be likely to play with others when the opportunity arises.
So you can't expect loyalty but you can ask for honesty. Always best to be upfront and pragmatic about this fun.
Best of luck
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Couldnt have said it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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...You can't get emotional about him. This is a swing site and no matter how regular you may meet he will still be likely to play with others when the opportunity arises...
Best of luck
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This. |
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"I think you being able to accommodate is a huge plus for a potential fbuddy so you'll probably find it easy getting regular fun.
However what you expect from that FB is the real thing to think about.
You can't get emotional about him. This is a swing site and no matter how regular you may meet he will still be likely to play with others when the opportunity arises.
So you can't expect loyalty but you can ask for honesty. Always best to be upfront and pragmatic about this fun.
Best of luck
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This totally! Very good advice. Tho I think most people struggle with honesty on here. They say what they think people will want to hear rather than the truth. Then they can't understand why we get pissed off when we uncover the lies they have said. Just be honest from the start no matter what the situation at least then people can make an informed choice.That goes for male and female FB's. |
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"I've been looking age's and as the song go's I still haven't found what I'm looking for  "
I don't do fuckbuddies or friends with benefits , I think they are a terrible idea , a person is either all in and with me or they are not. I never really got the half in half out of a relationship thing ? I know it's often the thing that people on here look for but just not for me .
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"I've been looking age's and as the song go's I still haven't found what I'm looking for
I don't do fuckbuddies or friends with benefits , I think they are a terrible idea , a person is either all in and with me or they are not. I never really got the half in half out of a relationship thing ? I know it's often the thing that people on here look for but just not for me .
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That's because a lot of people already have a significant other & are not looking for "all in". |
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"As it is a sexual arrangement most important is that you click in the bedroom, that you enjoy each other mutually and maybe push each other's boundaries. So it's not something you can look out for in that sense, it either happens or it won't. "
Best answer so far. Leave it at this, drop emotions that last longer than 5mins and enjoy.
If you're getting longing emotionally afterwards, remember that as far as he/she is concerned, it's just sex. If they come back to you with more, deal appropriately but always remember, the initial contact was just for physical fun, from their perspective.
Happy out and all out ?? |
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Best of luck with this. I find it's the kind of thing I do prefer.
Once you can keep your emotions under control you'll be fine. I think no matter what, there is some attachment created between two people that orgasm together. Sure women release oxytocin on orgasm which is a bonding hormone!
There are some honest guys on here that aren't playing games and are only too delighted to find a lovely lady to share their fantasies and free time with. |
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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago
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I personally don't think friend with benefits would work because people have different opinions and feelings at how it happens and its inevitable expectations are not the same,and this leads to jealousy from one party,and that leads to emotional pain  |
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