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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does this happen to any cpls when a message comes in and is only directed to one of us saying how are you lar and with xxx at the end of message as if they knew us I not insecure but i find this abit much when i pulled them up on it saying the message should be addressed to both of us i was told I am awful person. Any advice
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got a few yesterday like that. And one guy who called me darling.
Pet names ... In an introduction. "
Its not nice i was going to leave it but had to pull them up on it |
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Always get these addressed to one of us and rarely the other. Even guys gals and cpls insisting on knowing who they are chatting to. For Francis can be quite annoying and also for Carmel a bit like a stuck record.... Same old same old. It's nearly like people feel they can divide and conquer lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always get these addressed to one of us and rarely the other. Even guys gals and cpls insisting on knowing who they are chatting to. For Francis can be quite annoying and also for Carmel a bit like a stuck record.... Same old same old. It's nearly like people feel they can divide and conquer lol"
Jusy because im curious,if you were sending a message and only 1 of ye were there would you say hi its ... or ..... or even if ye are chatting back and forth and one of ye isn't there would you let the other know that its ... or ...
Does that make sense lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always get these addressed to one of us and rarely the other. Even guys gals and cpls insisting on knowing who they are chatting to. For Francis can be quite annoying and also for Carmel a bit like a stuck record.... Same old same old. It's nearly like people feel they can divide and conquer lol
Jusy because im curious,if you were sending a message and only 1 of ye were there would you say hi its ... or ..... or even if ye are chatting back and forth and one of ye isn't there would you let the other know that its ... or ...
Does that make sense lol "
I am as bad as any people we have spoken about on this thread. I always assume that people know they are talking to the male half of the couple because I chat on the forum and have been told I talk about my wife too much. Mrs A signs her name, I never think of it.
So sorry everyone.
And hey guys is good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Andy here, I have lots saying something like you have an awesome ass, I responded telling them thank you but I'm not gay "
Lar here. I usually respond to single guys (pre filter days) who message herself in a way that doesn't indicate who's writing. Drag it along for a bit then offer a photo and meet. They jump at the chance so they get a cock photo followed by the question are you top or bottom. The chat goes tumble after that. |
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It's not the best thing ever but it's also not worth getting worked up over either.Worse shit going on round here than that  at least you aren't getting messages saying that a person is actively waiting for you to say something so they can get you kicked off the forums because they think they will get a sympathy fuck off some doll they only know on forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always get these addressed to one of us and rarely the other. Even guys gals and cpls insisting on knowing who they are chatting to. For Francis can be quite annoying and also for Carmel a bit like a stuck record.... Same old same old. It's nearly like people feel they can divide and conquer lol
Jusy because im curious,if you were sending a message and only 1 of ye were there would you say hi its ... or ..... or even if ye are chatting back and forth and one of ye isn't there would you let the other know that its ... or ...
Does that make sense lol
I am as bad as any people we have spoken about on this thread. I always assume that people know they are talking to the male half of the couple because I chat on the forum and have been told I talk about my wife too much. Mrs A signs her name, I never think of it.
So sorry everyone.
And hey guys is good. "
Ah thank you...Mr A  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If nothing else, at least they are upfront about what they are after and you know what you're getting into. It'd be worse if you were chatting for ages ,then when arranging a meet, finding out they only wanted to meet your partner. |
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"It's not the best thing ever but it's also not worth getting worked up over either.Worse shit going on round here than that at least you aren't getting messages saying that a person is actively waiting for you to say something so they can get you kicked off the forums because they think they will get a sympathy fuck off some doll they only know on forums "
Are you serious??? Someone said this to you?????
Jesus they must have wanted to play very bad  |
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"It's not the best thing ever but it's also not worth getting worked up over either.Worse shit going on round here than that at least you aren't getting messages saying that a person is actively waiting for you to say something so they can get you kicked off the forums because they think they will get a sympathy fuck off some doll they only know on forums
Are you serious??? Someone said this to you?????
Jesus they must have wanted to play very bad "
Oh I got that message in my inbox haha not just me but another person I know from fab but hey the dude is just a wannabe white knight he's all talk |
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"Always get these addressed to one of us and rarely the other. Even guys gals and cpls insisting on knowing who they are chatting to. For Francis can be quite annoying and also for Carmel a bit like a stuck record.... Same old same old. It's nearly like people feel they can divide and conquer lol
Jusy because im curious,if you were sending a message and only 1 of ye were there would you say hi its ... or ..... or even if ye are chatting back and forth and one of ye isn't there would you let the other know that its ... or ...
Does that make sense lol "
Yes it makes sense. It depends on the first message I guess eg it's tone and content etc. If it's are you free tonight to meet babe we won't reply with who it is. However if it's a couple saying hi its John here how are you then we probably would reply with who it was our end if we felt it was kosher. However from experience when they hear it's Carmel the conversation quickly accelerates to are u free/do u want to meet whereas that never happens if we say it's Francis lol. We are a couple here and yes meet separately too but first few messages respect is the key. If it's Francis and a message comes in for Carmel and guy is sound and we have chatted before we will say something like Carmels not here but I'll pass on your message. Also if someone says hi guys we will reply likewise. |
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I feel your pain. I'm tired of all the mail I get from all the nymphomaniacs on here addressing me like a slab of meat. I'm a person too with feelings and stuff guys and girls not just a piece of meat for you to use and abuse for your own pleasure! Iff only lol. But seriously yeah it's a bit rude to direct messages to one part of a couple. If that's the way people put themselves across in a mail it doesn't bode well for how they would act on a meet. All about consideration and everyone having an equal amount of fun especially in threeways. |
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"Andy here, I have lots saying something like you have an awesome ass, I responded telling them thank you but I'm not gay
Lar here. I usually respond to single guys (pre filter days) who message herself in a way that doesn't indicate who's writing. Drag it along for a bit then offer a photo and meet. They jump at the chance so they get a cock photo followed by the question are you top or bottom. The chat goes tumble after that. "
Ha I'd call your bluff on this in the hope she would tag along and sure even if she didn't it could still turn out fun  |
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"I feel your pain. I'm tired of all the mail I get from all the nymphomaniacs on here addressing me like a slab of meat. I'm a person too with feelings and stuff guys and girls not just a piece of meat for you to use and abuse for your own pleasure! Iff only lol. But seriously yeah it's a bit rude to direct messages to one part of a couple. If that's the way people put themselves across in a mail it doesn't bode well for how they would act on a meet. All about consideration and everyone having an equal amount of fun especially in threeways. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I got a few messages from a "couple" recently...
Loads of "I's" not a single "we" was sent in any message...
When I mentioned this I was told I was a person (('they'd))
"We" would not like to have fun with I was too much of a smart arse....
It was the only "we" I received....
It is on both sides of the proverbial fence if you ask me..
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I got a few messages from a "couple" recently...
Loads of "I's" not a single "we" was sent in any message...
When I mentioned this I was told I was a person (('they'd))
"We" would not like to have fun with I was too much of a smart arse....
It was the only "we" I received....
It is on both sides of the proverbial fence if you ask me..
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May I add that most message you get from couples aren't signed so you don't even know who's addressing you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a few messages from a "couple" recently...
Loads of "I's" not a single "we" was sent in any message...
When I mentioned this I was told I was a person (('they'd))
"We" would not like to have fun with I was too much of a smart arse....
It was the only "we" I received....
It is on both sides of the proverbial fence if you ask me..
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"Does this happen to any cpls when a message comes in and is only directed to one of us saying how are you lar and with xxx at the end of message as if they knew us I not insecure but i find this abit much when i pulled them up on it saying the message should be addressed to both of us i was told I am awful person. Any advice
sorry my rant is over lol"
Absolutely agree with you here, this is a big pet peeve for us.
I find it completely disrespectful when the message is completely aimed at just one person. |
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"Always get these addressed to one of us and rarely the other. Even guys gals and cpls insisting on knowing who they are chatting to. For Francis can be quite annoying and also for Carmel a bit like a stuck record.... Same old same old. It's nearly like people feel they can divide and conquer lol
Jusy because im curious,if you were sending a message and only 1 of ye were there would you say hi its ... or ..... or even if ye are chatting back and forth and one of ye isn't there would you let the other know that its ... or ...
Does that make sense lol "
Makes perfect sense, when we reply, it's normally me Mr who is doing it. I'd say mr chattin- her reading or sign off with mr, I have been guilty of forgetting on the odd occasion, but I'd clarify as soon as I realised. |
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"If nothing else, at least they are upfront about what they are after and you know what you're getting into. It'd be worse if you were chatting for ages ,then when arranging a meet, finding out they only wanted to meet your partner."
Ah come on, every straight guy who messages a couple is only interested in the female, the Kink is the 3way, he'd be more than happy if I wasn't there, that being said, I have no problem with this, it's human nature, but when you message a couple who state they don't play separately, have the manners to address both..
P.s not talking about you, just in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a few messages from a "couple" recently...
Loads of "I's" not a single "we" was sent in any message...
When I mentioned this I was told I was a person (('they'd))
"We" would not like to have fun with I was too much of a smart arse....
It was the only "we" I received....
It is on both sides of the proverbial fence if you ask me..
May I add that most message you get from couples aren't signed so you don't even know who's addressing you. "
Exactly!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well its polite if a person says hi Jesse and James or hi Keara and damo, but if that wouldn't be enough to push me over the edge...compared to huge piles of laundry and rug rats destroying my house its not enough to make me lose my gorde!
Then we both read messages, if we both want to chat to person I send a message and then both of us will read messages, I answer and damo will answer if he has something to contribute.I'm the one who decides if we will take it anywhere do i do most of the chat..I also am the talker....just look at length of answer here |
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