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Why is it so hard for guy over 50 to chat to and meet ladies on fab
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I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
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Why would you bring up a coffee meet in the first message????
You have drawn attention to your profile which says your 47 not over 50.
Socials are really the best way to meet people. I've had meets from socials that I didn't like their profiles or the way they messaged. Get yourself out there to your next local M&G I'm sure you will be pleasantly surprised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer "
Fab is for appearing on , not just looking at.
Participate , on all the platforms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not much effort put into your profile. And now you've come out to say you are over 50 but profile says 47. Not helping your situation at all.
Having been on fab a while you should know by now how it works. No ??
Good luck...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be either really honest or a plonker for not lying but i tell my real age, dont send fake pics and dont lie about my status.
Maybe im toooo honest, but for me the end game is to actully have some actual fun and if i rock up after sending a different pic or 10 years younger well we may have a problem lol
I do get tho its harder for single men but put the work in... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you bring up a coffee meet in the first message????
You have drawn attention to your profile which says your 47 not over 50.
Socials are really the best way to meet people. I've had meets from socials that I didn't like their profiles or the way they messaged. Get yourself out there to your next local M&G I'm sure you will be pleasantly surprised"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer
Fab is for appearing on , not just looking at.
Participate , on all the platforms. "
What he said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer
Fab is for appearing on , not just looking at.
Participate , on all the platforms.
What he said "
Yeah to get on with fab the best way I found is to be honest. Have a laugh on the forums in chat. Get along to m&gs. I've been to a few the last time I was here always a laugh. |
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"Have done ok here for the past year or two.Have had made good friends and lots of fun.It's what you pun in the dictAtes what you get out."
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I don't mind putting it in so long as I can get it out!!  |
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My disciples
The more you put into your online profile the better off you will be
Be that meet n greets (possibly the best way to get yourself noticed
Enjoying and contributing to the forums- Always good way for people to know your not an escaped mental patient or psychopath
Being respectful (this can be a tricky one ...especially on the forums but you can do it)
Making yourself stand out
Believe it or not the women here don't drop their knickers at the drop of a hat for anybody. They are people too and need to be enticed . Make yourself stand out
Don't send dick pics unless asked
Especially in the first message
This is the gospel according to Connie |
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You just gotta put some time into your profile and work off your strengths. I mean:
You've life experience
You come across as articulate
You seem like a gent
You're also verified so all you have to do now is enhance the numbers |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"47/50
5'6"
Cannot accommodate
1 picture
Looking for ff couples
Can't see what the problem is  "
I don't really see why you have to bash him for his height or that he doesn't accommodate.
Also beside ff couples he's looking for female. We all have our preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"47/50
5'6"
Cannot accommodate
1 picture
Looking for ff couples
Can't see what the problem is "
Those without sin should cast the 1st stone, back of the queue for you so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong "
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss"
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her.."
I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..
I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time. "
Arrogance might be the better word than piss taking. Other than that I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..
I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time. "
I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..
I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.
I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited "
It wasn't taking the piss. ..
Merely pointing out the facts.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither
was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..
I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.
I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited "
Ok you may not have meant it like that, I apologise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You too persha36
Oh oh what did i do wrong
Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss
I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..
I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.
I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited "
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I put up a question to see if there's something I might be doing wrong and as on the forum it takes a life of its own thank you for some of the good advice I will put more pic on my profile and info but to the people who took the piss I looking for help now to be slagged off |
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