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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, messaging a couple tonight to come meet at theirs. Swap face pics and all . Grand. Ask me to to drive to theirs, and then give them a number to confirm house number. As soon as I send number I'm blocked.
Turns out, I missed one digit of the phone number. Am I at fault or am I just getting in touch with shifty people?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could be that you were the latest in a line of people who they feel have let them down. And when they seen that you gave them a wrong number they flipped out and blocked you. Or they could be time wasters. Perhaps the truth is somewhere in the middle. Maybe they got cold feet. Everyone is allowed to change their mind at any point. They could have changed their minds and blocked you to avoid drama. It's a shitty thing to do but it does happen
You deal with this like an adult though. You just move on. Naming and shaming will get you a ban and it also kicks off a cycle of drama.
It's unfortunate that you didn't get your good night out but it could have been worse. There are stories of people being given dodgy addresses and driving 2 hours to find out that they were just being jerked about.
Hopefully you can get lucky next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster
Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made
And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??
If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure."
Is? They both fell through... |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.
Is? They both fell through..."
....beside that it isn't relevant. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.
Is? They both fell through..."
Has high expectations, you got to give him that. Frigid with the digits by the sound of it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster
Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made
And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??
If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week "
He said shifty, not shitty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster
Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made
And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??
If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week
He said shifty, not shitty "
Well Shifty then just to keep people happy  |
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?"
I have had multiple meets in one day and I would guess so have many others on the site so it's not beyond the bounds of possibility that the OP could have got more than one meet in on any given night. |
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
I have had multiple meets in one day and I would guess so have many others on the site so it's not beyond the bounds of possibility that the OP could have got more than one meet in on any given night."
Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure."
As the saying goes don't hate the player hate the game  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
I have had multiple meets in one day and I would guess so have many others on the site so it's not beyond the bounds of possibility that the OP could have got more than one meet in on any given night.
Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind "
Sometimes a second or third meet is needed... |
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
I have had multiple meets in one day and I would guess so have many others on the site so it's not beyond the bounds of possibility that the OP could have got more than one meet in on any given night.
Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind
Sometimes a second or third meet is needed..."
Yep, one after the other all on the same day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster
Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made
And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??
If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week
He said shifty, not shitty
Well Shifty then just to keep people happy "
Nah, just for accuracy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.
Is? They both fell through...
Has high expectations, you got to give him that. Frigid with the digits by the sound of it though."
Brrrrr! Cold fingers, no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit "
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well . "
If it was someone I was interested to meet I'd some benefit of doubt first, question things rather than assuming and I'd probably notice a digit is missing.
Instablock is an over the top reaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .
If it was someone I was interested to meet I'd some benefit of doubt first, question things rather than assuming and I'd probably notice a digit is missing.
Instablock is an over the top reaction "
Then I guess I'm just a lot more cynical then you |
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well . "
To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.
I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .
To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.
I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter? "
Mmh I don't know maybe I've just been around to long . Any sign of someone being a messer which I would class this as , and I'm done might be harsh to some but I can understand why the couple blocked him . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Michael go way out of that with your common sense
Block him then kill his family
Well killing his family might be a bit of an over reaction "
Mafia code.. Family, friends and dogs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Michael go way out of that with your common sense
Block him then kill his family
Well killing his family might be a bit of an over reaction
Mafia code.. Family, friends and dogs "
Don't forget the horses head |
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .
To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.
I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter?
Mmh I don't know maybe I've just been around to long . Any sign of someone being a messer which I would class this as , and I'm done might be harsh to some but I can understand why the couple blocked him . "
I just think I'm capable of making the odd mistake myself so I'm happy to give others the benefit of the doubt to start with. Fair enough if people are perfect and don't tolerate the slightest mistake from anyone else but Jeez... It's harsh unless there's already some suspicion in the air. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure."
Haha I wish lol, no, one was set up a couple of days ago and they pulled out last minute, then the other was impromptu |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.
Or maybe just learn to relax a bit
Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?
If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .
Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .
To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.
I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter?
Mmh I don't know maybe I've just been around to long . Any sign of someone being a messer which I would class this as , and I'm done might be harsh to some but I can understand why the couple blocked him .
I just think I'm capable of making the odd mistake myself so I'm happy to give others the benefit of the doubt to start with. Fair enough if people are perfect and don't tolerate the slightest mistake from anyone else but Jeez... It's harsh unless there's already some suspicion in the air. "
I never said I was perfect, OP asked for opinions , I gave mine just because it isn't the same as yours does not mean it is wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, messaging a couple tonight to come meet at theirs. Swap face pics and all . Grand. Ask me to to drive to theirs, and then give them a number to confirm house number. As soon as I send number I'm blocked.
Turns out, I missed one digit of the phone number. Am I at fault or am I just getting in touch with shifty people?
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Name and shame. All that will happen is you'll get a forum ban...big shit. At least we'll all know who the timewasters are and you'll feel a lot better too. Go for it |
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"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?
I have had multiple meets in one day and I would guess so have many others on the site so it's not beyond the bounds of possibility that the OP could have got more than one meet in on any given night.
Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind "
seeing as I would be the one giving rather than receiving sloppy seconds don't really come into play but I know some females that have had meet after meet over a weekend and it probably ran into sloppy twentyseconds |
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"It's Shane that I really feel sorry for. He did nothing wrong 
#justiceforshane"
was waiting for someone to pick up on that thought someone would mistake it for a name and shame But not to worry sure Rick did away with him. |
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