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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Guys,
It's his birthday this week and I am looking for idea's to give him a nice night of fun.
Ultimately I would like to have a female join us for a night of MFF but I am open to other suggestions.
So, we'd love to hear from F's or MF's that would be interested 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Guys,
It's his birthday this week and I am looking for idea's to give him a nice night of fun.
Ultimately I would like to have a female join us for a night of MFF but I am open to other suggestions.
So, we'd love to hear from F's or MF's that would be interested
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For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible (I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone) The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x  |
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For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible.
(I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone)
The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x "
A huge percentage of them are here for the EGO BOOST and the attention they wouldn't get elsewhere....
If a guy posted similar post to yours he'd be ripped apart, so well done on voicing your opinion!! |
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My opinion on this, I don't like when this celebrations come along and you want straight away to get them "the gift", I certainly don't like to show up to a place feeling like someone hired me for their entertainment, I won't meet a couple without me getting to know them well and make sure the girl is bisexual (in my case as bisexual too) and won't be just us the girls pleasing him and the awkward moment when the girl won't even kiss you.
I wish you Good luck,but if you want a easy, fast girl to be the present for hubby here won't be easy to find it... |
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"My opinion on this, I don't like when this celebrations come along and you want straight away to get them "the gift", I certainly don't like to show up to a place feeling like someone hired me for their entertainment, I won't meet a couple without me getting to know them well and make sure the girl is bisexual (in my case as bisexual too) and won't be just us the girls pleasing him and the awkward moment when the girl won't even kiss you.
I wish you Good luck,but if you want a easy, fast girl to be the present for hubby here won't be easy to find it..."
I don't think your "the gift" or "the entertainment" Get over yourself! I think for anyone on fab looking for a single female it's almost impossible! For couples who have been trying to find that single girl it's frustrating because the single girl has this self important stuck up attitude, not all, but the majority (obviously from the 100s of mails they recieve) and so it can be disheartening trying to chat to them! When our significant others birthdays are coming up you think let's try fulfil that fantasy again. You get excited bacause maybe you can fulfil the fantasy and make it a memorable birthday! If it's just a regular Saturday do you think you're the "weekend entertainment " also? Is there a specific time or day where requesting a single girl isn't insulting to you? So it's not that you're "the gift" It just so happens that it's his bday and you're available and into meeting the said couple
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For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible.
(I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone)
The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x
A huge percentage of them are here for the EGO BOOST and the attention they wouldn't get elsewhere....
If a guy posted similar post to yours he'd be ripped apart, so well done on voicing your opinion!!"
Thanks , I'm not trying to be rude , I'm just saying how I find it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
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No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship! |
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship!"
I think you have it all wrong, in my opinion,because it's a sex site doesn't mean I won't look for someone that makes me feel special.
I'm in an open marriage and for some people that knows me they have it clear Im into secondary relationships (some can call or poly) which I'm allowed to look wherever I want and I'm honest and upfront about it, here it's the thing the way each person swing or use this site its their business, if you don't like it move on and do your thing.
So there is not such a thing as black and white in the swinging world.
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship!"
I think Cass means that connection with a couple and the chemistry involved. Shes not looking for a relationship when shes already very married to her lovely hubby. Hes around here too somewhere |
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship!
I think Cass means that connection with a couple and the chemistry involved. Shes not looking for a relationship when shes already very married to her lovely hubby. Hes around here too somewhere"
Well I wouldnt know that because she seems to have us blocked off some reason
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship!
I think you have it all wrong, in my opinion,because it's a sex site doesn't mean I won't look for someone that makes me feel special.
I'm in an open marriage and for some people that knows me they have it clear Im into secondary relationships (some can call or poly) which I'm allowed to look wherever I want and I'm honest and upfront about it, here it's the thing the way each person swing or use this site its their business, if you don't like it move on and do your thing.
So there is not such a thing as black and white in the swinging world.
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And that's your perogative and as you said if you don't like it move on. The girl was saying she's looking for a female for her partners birthday, you didn't like it you're clearly not interested but you gave your opinion (a negative one at that)
I'm not trying to upset you or cause conflict ,just saying how I and many many others see it on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship!
I think Cass means that connection with a couple and the chemistry involved. Shes not looking for a relationship when shes already very married to her lovely hubby. Hes around here too somewhere
Well I wouldnt know that because she seems to have us blocked off some reason
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I read your profile and was not for me, I block people I won't meet that way we don't waste of our time.  happy fabbing |
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"As I said... The couple will have to dedicate time to get to know me first,maybe I and "few" other girls feel important and special , why not??
No one is saying youre ot important or special, of course you are! But this is a site for swinging, it's to fulfil sexual desires/fantasies, it's not for dating! And of course the majority of people on here don't just meet on a whim (I wont) but it's not a relationship site! I don't want to date the girl we want to play with, meet for coffee this week , go for drinks the next week, I don't wanna talk for months before she potentially says yes.
Which is why the majority of fabbers feel the same way about single females! It's too much work! Why be on a sex site of you're looking for someone to make you feel special, if you wants hearts and flowers , you're looking for a relationship!
I think you have it all wrong, in my opinion,because it's a sex site doesn't mean I won't look for someone that makes me feel special.
I'm in an open marriage and for some people that knows me they have it clear Im into secondary relationships (some can call or poly) which I'm allowed to look wherever I want and I'm honest and upfront about it, here it's the thing the way each person swing or use this site its their business, if you don't like it move on and do your thing.
So there is not such a thing as black and white in the swinging world.
And that's your perogative and as you said if you don't like it move on. The girl was saying she's looking for a female for her partners birthday, you didn't like it you're clearly not interested but you gave your opinion (a negative one at that)
I'm not trying to upset you or cause conflict ,just saying how I and many many others see it on fab"
You didn't upset me at all, I just explained how I see it.
I gave my opinion to the op, and wished good luck.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"My opinion on this, I don't like when this celebrations come along and you want straight away to get them "the gift", I certainly don't like to show up to a place feeling like someone hired me for their entertainment, I won't meet a couple without me getting to know them well and make sure the girl is bisexual (in my case as bisexual too) and won't be just us the girls pleasing him and the awkward moment when the girl won't even kiss you.
I wish you Good luck,but if you want a easy, fast girl to be the present for hubby here won't be easy to find it...
I don't think your "the gift" or "the entertainment" Get over yourself! I think for anyone on fab looking for a single female it's almost impossible! For couples who have been trying to find that single girl it's frustrating because the single girl has this self important stuck up attitude, not all, but the majority (obviously from the 100s of mails they recieve) and so it can be disheartening trying to chat to them! When our significant others birthdays are coming up you think let's try fulfil that fantasy again. You get excited bacause maybe you can fulfil the fantasy and make it a memorable birthday! If it's just a regular Saturday do you think you're the "weekend entertainment " also? Is there a specific time or day where requesting a single girl isn't insulting to you? So it's not that you're "the gift" It just so happens that it's his bday and you're available and into meeting the said couple
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There's a fine line between wanting to meet someone because there's mutual sexual attraction and being an add on to fulfil someone's fantasy. The event or the day of the week doesn't really matter but in context might reflect the attitude towards a meet.
There's simply far less single women on here than men or couples and only a percentage of those meet couples. So yes I can imagine it's not easy find one. But calling them stuck up etc surely won't help.
Swinging doesn't exclude taking your time to look for the right person/couple that tickles your naughty mind and attracts you physically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My opinion on this, I don't like when this celebrations come along and you want straight away to get them "the gift", I certainly don't like to show up to a place feeling like someone hired me for their entertainment, I won't meet a couple without me getting to know them well and make sure the girl is bisexual (in my case as bisexual too) and won't be just us the girls pleasing him and the awkward moment when the girl won't even kiss you.
I wish you Good luck,but if you want a easy, fast girl to be the present for hubby here won't be easy to find it...
I don't think your "the gift" or "the entertainment" Get over yourself! I think for anyone on fab looking for a single female it's almost impossible! For couples who have been trying to find that single girl it's frustrating because the single girl has this self important stuck up attitude, not all, but the majority (obviously from the 100s of mails they recieve) and so it can be disheartening trying to chat to them! When our significant others birthdays are coming up you think let's try fulfil that fantasy again. You get excited bacause maybe you can fulfil the fantasy and make it a memorable birthday! If it's just a regular Saturday do you think you're the "weekend entertainment " also? Is there a specific time or day where requesting a single girl isn't insulting to you? So it's not that you're "the gift" It just so happens that it's his bday and you're available and into meeting the said couple
There's a fine line between wanting to meet someone because there's mutual sexual attraction and being an add on to fulfil someone's fantasy. The event or the day of the week doesn't really matter but in context might reflect the attitude towards a meet.
There's simply far less single women on here than men or couples and only a percentage of those meet couples. So yes I can imagine it's not easy find one. But calling them stuck up etc surely won't help.
Swinging doesn't exclude taking your time to look for the right person/couple that tickles your naughty mind and attracts you physically."
I never said it does, I said I'm not going to send months chatting to someone before they potentially agree to meet.
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"Hi Guys,
It's his birthday this week and I am looking for idea's to give him a nice night of fun.
Ultimately I would like to have a female join us for a night of MFF but I am open to other suggestions.
So, we'd love to hear from F's or MF's that would be interested
For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible (I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone) The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x "
"Lending his wife to you" ??
What is she - a chattel?
I know that's not what you meant - but unfortunately some here seem to actually believe this to be fair game.
Not cool at all
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Guys,
It's his birthday this week and I am looking for idea's to give him a nice night of fun.
Ultimately I would like to have a female join us for a night of MFF but I am open to other suggestions.
So, we'd love to hear from F's or MF's that would be interested
For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible (I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone) The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x
"Lending his wife to you" ??
What is she - a chattel?
I know that's not what you meant - but unfortunately some here seem to actually believe this to be fair game.
Not cool at all
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Yes! We have had alot of offers from bith the male and female of the couple offering to "lend" their partner! It's how it's been worded to us, so if that's how people choose to word things that's not my business or yours. I'm sure they don't actually think of their partner as a chattel!
How we choose to talk in the bedroom isn't necessarily how we talk outside of it
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"Hi Guys,
It's his birthday this week and I am looking for idea's to give him a nice night of fun.
Ultimately I would like to have a female join us for a night of MFF but I am open to other suggestions.
So, we'd love to hear from F's or MF's that would be interested
For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible (I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone) The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x
"Lending his wife to you" ??
What is she - a chattel?
I know that's not what you meant - but unfortunately some here seem to actually believe this to be fair game.
Not cool at all
Yes! We have had alot of offers from bith the male and female of the couple offering to "lend" their partner! It's how it's been worded to us, so if that's how people choose to word things that's not my business or yours. I'm sure they don't actually think of their partner as a chattel!
How we choose to talk in the bedroom isn't necessarily how we talk outside of it
Don't be so sensitive "
Thanks but I don't think I'll be either availing of a "lend" not offering a "lend" any time soon - and anyone using such language or implying such an arrangement will soon find themselves in the cold.
As you say though - each to their own. Just not something I would countenance.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Guys,
It's his birthday this week and I am looking for idea's to give him a nice night of fun.
Ultimately I would like to have a female join us for a night of MFF but I am open to other suggestions.
So, we'd love to hear from F's or MF's that would be interested
For Mr Fuddys birthday 3 years ago I said I'd get another girl to join us, that only happened on Saturday! Single girls on here are impossible (I personally think the majority of them are on here for an ego boost and never actually plan on meeting anyone) The ones that do meet are hard work, my advice would be to find a couple, maybe one that will play apart, the hubby doesn't mind lending his wife to you for some fun. Couples are alot more easy going than single girls
Best of luck with your search, I hope you both have filthy fun celebrations x
"Lending his wife to you" ??
What is she - a chattel?
I know that's not what you meant - but unfortunately some here seem to actually believe this to be fair game.
Not cool at all
Yes! We have had alot of offers from bith the male and female of the couple offering to "lend" their partner! It's how it's been worded to us, so if that's how people choose to word things that's not my business or yours. I'm sure they don't actually think of their partner as a chattel!
How we choose to talk in the bedroom isn't necessarily how we talk outside of it
Don't be so sensitive
Thanks but I don't think I'll be either availing of a "lend" not offering a "lend" any time soon - and anyone using such language or implying such an arrangement will soon find themselves in the cold.
As you say though - each to their own. Just not something I would countenance.
Mr 2-4 "
That's your choice.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Hey Guys,
Thanks for all the replies, To be honest we have been trying to make something happen over the last while and we haven't had time, His birthday just happens to be when we are both free. Don't look too much into the treat thing (perhaps I phrased the inital thread poorly)
Certainly it wouldn't be all about pleasuring him, in fact a bigger present would be for him to finally see me in contact with another girl!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey Guys,
Thanks for all the replies, To be honest we have been trying to make something happen over the last while and we haven't had time, His birthday just happens to be when we are both free. Don't look too much into the treat thing (perhaps I phrased the inital thread poorly)
Certainly it wouldn't be all about pleasuring him, in fact a bigger present would be for him to finally see me in contact with another girl!
Thanks for the feedback though guys!"
most it's hard to find a single girl here that is single fs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are aware of this now. Our biggest struggle on here is finding couples where we are both into the couple?
Have any of you guys noticed the same?"
no cos I'm a single girl it's easy 4 me to get meets |
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
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"We are aware of this now. Our biggest struggle on here is finding couples where we are both into the couple?
Have any of you guys noticed the same?"
That's a very difficult one . You have to match 4 individuals, almost impossible . Better to go into a Club where both spouses go on a prowl of their own,
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"We are aware of this now. Our biggest struggle on here is finding couples where we are both into the couple?
Have any of you guys noticed the same?"
Yes we have nearly impossible for everyone to connect...party's or clubs suite us best we also meet alone from time to time...works best for us |
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