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"Good morning beautiful fabbers, fairly new to this site but not the play world,i wanted to pick yer brains so to speak! I seen on another thread some had up would only coffee verifications put people off?? Most people said they would be wary , i seem to be the one who only wants the coffee ( i wont just play just for the sake of it)as i said its not a question was just wondering has anyone else been in my position? Happy monday guys? " Sometimes when you meet someone, the attraction isn't there. I've had coffee dates with ladies that I didn't fancy and remained good friends with. Same goes for the ladies that I've met that haven't fancied me. It's nice to be able to meet someone and have a chat and a laugh and not have to shag their brains out. Leave them a verification if you wish and write what you wish. This reading between the lines is bullshit if I'm honest. I've seen it somewhere about the reading between the lines and I've clicked their profile and read their verifications and read between the lines on theirs. | |||
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"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details "  | |||
"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details " This | |||
"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details " This | |||
"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details " | |||
"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details
"Im actually delighted to see that a lot of us will do a coffee date before any play happens ??????? | |||
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"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details
Im actually delighted to see that a lot of us will do a coffee date before any play happens ???????
"Always coffee or a drink first and veri that, wheather we play or not is no one's buisness. Later I have seen some requesting play veris which confuses me what happens with one lady or cpl may not happen with another so why the need for detailed play veris | |||
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"Depends.... only if the coffee is the fancy type and not the cheap filtered kind. " we all know you like the fancy stuff! ;-) | |||
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"Depends.... only if the coffee is the fancy type and not the cheap filtered kind. we all know you like the fancy stuff! ;-)" Lol wagon. I go for a Double Ristretto Venti Half-Soy Nonfat Decaf Organic Chocolate Brownie Iced Vanilla Double-Shot Gingerbread Frappuccino Extra Hot With Foam Whipped Cream Upside Down Double Blended, One Sweet'N Low and One Nutrasweet and Ice. The ice cubes have to be from the Alps. | |||
"Coffee meets have this scene bollixed...I don't reply to a form, but there's an element on here that love to drag fellas for miles to make a fool out of them, with no play ever going to happen. It's all emanating for a certain crowd Leeside, on here and elsewhere all the time. Meet and Greets are another waste of time, full of 'click's'. It's a swing site, not dating, not social media...it's purpose is..make contact on here, exchange the relevant details, agree to meet up, play and that's it until the next time, if again. Looking at these verifications that say - Coffee Meet, Saw him at a party, great to talk to...all bullshit. Verifications are meant for when the leg is over on that other person. Bring back the old Swing scene, none of this crap was there, bar a very small few, now it's rampant. " Did you not have your coffee this morning? You seem kinda cranky  | |||
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" ...just because two people meet for coffee and don't play doesn't mean anything other then they are not a match for each others current desires... " It doesn't mean that at all  | |||
"Coffee meets have this scene bollixed...I don't reply to a form, but there's an element on here that love to drag fellas for miles to make a fool out of them, with no play ever going to happen. It's all emanating for a certain crowd Leeside, on here and elsewhere all the time. Meet and Greets are another waste of time, full of 'click's'. It's a swing site, not dating, not social media...it's purpose is..make contact on here, exchange the relevant details, agree to meet up, play and that's it until the next time, if again. Looking at these verifications that say - Coffee Meet, Saw him at a party, great to talk to...all bullshit. Verifications are meant for when the leg is over on that other person. Bring back the old Swing scene, none of this crap was there, bar a very small few, now it's rampant. " 'It's a swing site, not dating, not social media' is a very sweeping statement and nowhere are such rules laid out. The site is simply a platform tor folks to meet, in whatever capacity they wish.....ok it is labelled 'Fabswingers' but sure what's in a label?? | |||
"I will always have a social coffee/tea/whatever before i plan a play meet. I don't meet with out it as i need and want the chemistry with someone or i have no interest in playing. If i veri someone for a coffee meet (especially if i have no intention of playing) I dont tend to double veri if and when i play with them. For me veris are about the person being who they said they were and turning up. i dont want gorey details " | |||
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"A verie is too prove if your a genuine person...not how she sucked like a dyson how the lady had the sweetness pussy ever... Leave the intimate details out please. "Which lady is that? I want to meet her!  | |||
"A verie is too prove if your a genuine person...not how she sucked like a dyson how the lady had the sweetness pussy ever... Leave the intimate details out please.
Which lady is that? I want to meet her! "lol you already did  | |||
"A verie is too prove if your a genuine person...not how she sucked like a dyson how the lady had the sweetness pussy ever... Leave the intimate details out please.
Which lady is that? I want to meet her! lol you already did "Hahaha... Duurty bitch!  | |||
same as few guys are mine.
Detailed verifications put me off a bit as some are either way over the top in compliments or way over the top in detail.
I don't really care what happens in the room between the two of you (or 3 or more lol) just that you are genuine.
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"Coffee first no point in wasting each other's time. How many times has it ended in play straight away anyway?? " Depends where & what time the coffee was....hotels do nice coffees. | |||
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"Thanks for the reply x Oh i also do a coffee meet as like you need to have some want to play with then,im sure il find that fabber who il want to not coffee with lol I just didnt want it to put people of me...x" Good forum.. I think it's nice to veri someone after a coffee.. especially if ye both got on well.. chemistry is important! | |||
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"Good morning beautiful fabbers, fairly new to this site but not the play world,i wanted to pick yer brains so to speak! I seen on another thread some had up would only coffee verifications put people off?? Most people said they would be wary , i seem to be the one who only wants the coffee ( i wont just play just for the sake of it)as i said its not a question was just wondering has anyone else been in my position? Happy monday guys? " The right time and place for all things OP - I'm in the same boat as yourself, but I don't think there is anything odd about it. A good meet takes time to arrange, and it's always better with some chemistry in my opinion. We all have busy lives too, and as great as a sex meet is, it isn't everything. The pair of us obviously enjoy the social aspect too. | |||
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"I meet for a coffee to see if there is chemistry with the other person. I would NEVER go straight to play. (Did it once and what a disaster) As for dragging guys miles to "make a fool out of them" that poster obviously has expectations of sex from the meet. I always make myself clear that it's a social only. I also deter lads from driving half way across the country but some still want to. " ....I would | |||
"I meet for a coffee to see if there is chemistry with the other person. I would NEVER go straight to play. (Did it once and what a disaster) As for dragging guys miles to "make a fool out of them" that poster obviously has expectations of sex from the meet. I always make myself clear that it's a social only. I also deter lads from driving half way across the country but some still want to. "  | |||
"I meet for a coffee to see if there is chemistry with the other person. I would NEVER go straight to play. (Did it once and what a disaster) As for dragging guys miles to "make a fool out of them" that poster obviously has expectations of sex from the meet. I always make myself clear that it's a social only. I also deter lads from driving half way across the country but some still want to. ....I would "Me too! | |||
"I meet for a coffee to see if there is chemistry with the other person. I would NEVER go straight to play. (Did it once and what a disaster) As for dragging guys miles to "make a fool out of them" that poster obviously has expectations of sex from the meet. I always make myself clear that it's a social only. I also deter lads from driving half way across the country but some still want to. " | |||
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"Well guys I'm supposed to have a social today but he seems to be gone in to hiding... sigh.. not sure if I should go to the agreed place or not.. although.. he hasn't sent me a face pic so no idea who to look out for either way! " You're better of spoiling yourself with a nice treat, Ginger . He'll never turn up. | |||
"Well guys I'm supposed to have a social today but he seems to be gone in to hiding... sigh.. not sure if I should go to the agreed place or not.. although.. he hasn't sent me a face pic so no idea who to look out for either way! " Who would be silly enough to stand you up Ginger? Be mad to! | |||
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"Well guys I'm supposed to have a social today but he seems to be gone in to hiding... sigh.. not sure if I should go to the agreed place or not.. although.. he hasn't sent me a face pic so no idea who to look out for either way! " Well thats his loss if he has gone into hiding, plenty more fish in the sea, oh wait thats another site 
Im sure the many many posters below me on this thread will help a girl out | |||
Not even a pack on the cheek...lol | |||
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"I enjoy the pub meets more... Or the m&g's, my favourites.... It's probably due to my shyness. Whilst Apple's prefers the parties...when you meet as a couple it's very hard to find another couple you both fancy/like....at least at a party or club you can move on to the next couple... As a single, in a former life here... all but one of my coffee meets turned into a play date....the other shook my hand at the end of our coffee meet...#deflated....
Not even a pack on the cheek...lol"Ollie - you can't be everyone's cup of tea, though truth be told you do tick the boxes for the majority I'd think. And besides, you have the lovely Apples to appease that now, would that we were all so lucky! | |||
"I enjoy the pub meets more... Or the m&g's, my favourites.... It's probably due to my shyness. Whilst Apple's prefers the parties...when you meet as a couple it's very hard to find another couple you both fancy/like....at least at a party or club you can move on to the next couple... As a single, in a former life here... all but one of my coffee meets turned into a play date....the other shook my hand at the end of our coffee meet...#deflated....
Not even a pack on the cheek...lol
Ollie - you can't be everyone's cup of tea, though truth be told you do tick the boxes for the majority I'd think. And besides, you have the lovely Apples to appease that now, would that we were all so lucky!"Did Apples make you write that? Blush | |||
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