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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Post sex banter can be brilliant with the right people, social side of fab makes a huge difference.
Having said that some don't like interaction after. Think it depends on the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be  "
Especially when you take him breakfast in the spare room...
"Over easy did you say?"  |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be
Especially when you take him breakfast in the spare room...
"Over easy did you say?" "
Ummmm, Bread toasted on Both Sides.... Lol
Ummmmmm |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "
Stay till all are satisfied and wore out. If they want you to go, they would say, Pull The Door After After You. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's the OP's fault!!
It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!! "
So that's where we have been going wrong!! Suppose if he kept his clothes on he could be away wen quicker zip up while he's heading out the door |
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"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "
job done, out the door. don't see a problem |
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"It's the OP's fault!!
It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!!
So that's where we have been going wrong!! Suppose if he kept his clothes on he could be away wen quicker zip up while he's heading out the door "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it's about communicating what u both want b4 meet.
I know some don't like to hang around ..... Someone might jump outta the wardrobe he he "
Don't worry I won't fuck you |
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"It's the OP's fault!!
It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!!
So that's where we have been going wrong!! Suppose if he kept his clothes on he could be away wen quicker zip up while he's heading out the door "
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Just when guy is cumming your hubby should go to the door and get ready to open it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "
If they're doing that they're obviously not putting enough energy into the meet or they'd be out of breath and needing a breather too  |
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"Maybe it's about communicating what u both want b4 meet.
I know some don't like to hang around ..... Someone might jump outta the wardrobe he he
Don't worry I won't fuck you "
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My view is you've just shared a bed with someone so it's just common respect that you should all sit down and have a drink or at least a chat with them afterwards even for a little while...
Also, getting dressed and walking a woman to her car or texting the next day shows some class too...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think joining a couple can be a strange dynamic. You could feel a little bit like a third wheel, depending on how the couple interact with each other in your company. And then after the event, there might be a danger of staying too long, so some might bolt a bit too soon, rather than overstay the welcome.
I stress that no couple I've ever met have made me feel like that, but I'd imagine it could easily happen in some cases. |
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By *unne66Man
over a year ago
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"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "
Of course it is not too much to expect but unfortunately at times there is more than just the question of common decency to consider. For some people Fabs and everything that happens on here is part of a sex addiction. So when they meet up with someone and have sex their addiction has been fulfilled and they just want to leave as quickly as possible.......or they may have just remembered that they left their keys in the car and the engine running |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "
Looking at your pictures, I definitely wouldn't be leaving, unless I was asked to.
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