Well iv been on this site litte while now talk to some lovely people but lately the site is really making me question my looks I always send a pic with my first message just so people know who there talking to an that I'm genuine but I'm getting knocked back so much it's really starting to knock the confidence back |
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"Well iv been on this site litte while now talk to some lovely people but lately the site is really making me question my looks I always send a pic with my first message just so people know who there talking to an that I'm genuine but I'm getting knocked back so much it's really starting to knock the confidence back "
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Myself, I wouldn't send a pic with a first message as feel it's giving away too much about yourself too soon.
You should value your ability to chat for a bit first, then if you feel there's chemistry ask for a pic swap. I understand with 100 daily mails, some women just want a face pic with the very first message and that's their choice. Still would prefer a quick natter to see if both are on same sexy page then take it from there  |
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"Well iv been on this site litte while now talk to some lovely people but lately the site is really making me question my looks I always send a pic with my first message just so people know who there talking to an that I'm genuine but I'm getting knocked back so much it's really starting to knock the confidence back "
U didn't send me a pic    |
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"Well iv been on this site litte while now talk to some lovely people but lately the site is really making me question my looks I always send a pic with my first message just so people know who there talking to an that I'm genuine but I'm getting knocked back so much it's really starting to knock the confidence back
U didn't send me a pic "
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You were different from the others... he wanted to surprise you at your front door  |
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"Well iv been on this site litte while now talk to some lovely people but lately the site is really making me question my looks I always send a pic with my first message just so people know who there talking to an that I'm genuine but I'm getting knocked back so much it's really starting to knock the confidence back
U didn't send me a pic
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You were different from the others... he wanted to surprise you at your front door "
Obviously the only explanation  |
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"Well iv been on this site litte while now talk to some lovely people but lately the site is really making me question my looks I always send a pic with my first message just so people know who there talking to an that I'm genuine but I'm getting knocked back so much it's really starting to knock the confidence back "
if your not above average mate on here most women will knock u back. it's a simple and unfortunate truth
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Personally I don't like when men send a face pic in the first message as I then feel under pressure to send one back even though we haven't even had a conversation. Have a chat first, see if you get on before sending face pics. |
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"Personally I don't like when men send a face pic in the first message as I then feel under pressure to send one back even though we haven't even had a conversation. Have a chat first, see if you get on before sending face pics."
The lady speaks a lot of sense |
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"Personally I don't like when men send a face pic in the first message as I then feel under pressure to send one back even though we haven't even had a conversation. Have a chat first, see if you get on before sending face pics."
reason I like a face pic early is u see if there is attraction there. if you chat for a few weeks and no physical attraction it just won't happen.To me it just seems a waste of time. just my view
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"Personally I don't like when men send a face pic in the first message as I then feel under pressure to send one back even though we haven't even had a conversation. Have a chat first, see if you get on before sending face pics.reason I like a face pic early is u see if there is attraction there. if you chat for a few weeks and no physical attraction it just won't happen.To me it just seems a waste of time. just my view "
Ya that's fair enough but I'm talking about men who send a facepic with the very first message, before we have talked. I only exchange face pics after getting to know them for a bit and if there's a possibility of meeting because Cork is a small place and I like my privacy, I dont expect a face pic either unless I would send one myself |
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"Personally I don't like when men send a face pic in the first message as I then feel under pressure to send one back even though we haven't even had a conversation. Have a chat first, see if you get on before sending face pics.reason I like a face pic early is u see if there is attraction there. if you chat for a few weeks and no physical attraction it just won't happen.To me it just seems a waste of time. just my view
Ya that's fair enough but I'm talking about men who send a facepic with the very first message, before we have talked. I only exchange face pics after getting to know them for a bit and if there's a possibility of meeting because Cork is a small place and I like my privacy, I dont expect a face pic either unless I would send one myself"
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"Personally I don't like when men send a face pic in the first message as I then feel under pressure to send one back even though we haven't even had a conversation. Have a chat first, see if you get on before sending face pics."
god never feel under pressure to send one back unless you have both agreed to after a few messages have been exchanged.
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