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By *eb66 OP Man
over a year ago
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I'm very interested to know why a lot of women demand face pis when most people on this site need discretion .
Just check the verifications .
I seen a thread tonight for a meet and greet that wants fav pics .
Why |
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I asked somebody this before and they told that if you are a single guy just go ahead and do it,
if it ever comes back to you and somebody is asking why your on the site,
just say you were looking for sex. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Because they can  and guys pander to their demands
And no I won't till I am comfortable with who I am chatting to just because I am a guy doesn't mean I have to disclose my identity any faster than a woman or cpl
We are also entitled to discretion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very interested to know why a lot of women demand face pis when most people on this site need discretion .
Just check the verifications .
I seen a thread tonight for a meet and greet that wants fav pics .
Why "
Because we can 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very interested to know why a lot of women demand face pis when most people on this site need discretion .
Just check the verifications .
I seen a thread tonight for a meet and greet that wants fav pics .
Why
Because we can
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very interested to know why a lot of women demand face pis when most people on this site need discretion .
Just check the verifications .
I seen a thread tonight for a meet and greet that wants fav pics .
Why "
For parties it varies from email, phone or face pic details...personally I am always nervous about giving out these details unless to regular organisers. Looking at verifications isn't proof on here that a person is genuine sometimes as proven |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one"
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit "
Both for me, incase one blows off? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off? "
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it "
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up "
Did she have a matching pony tail stuck in her ass |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up "
I tried to load one up with a dragon head and got told that it isn't me in the pic  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up
I tried to load one up with a dragon head and got told that it isn't me in the pic "
U should have shown them up three dragon head |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up "
Cmere geordie I even wore me Sunday best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up
Cmere geordie I even wore me Sunday best "
you nutter! How the hell did that get approved |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Very rare I'd ask for one - only if I'm meeting them somewhere busy to find them easier
It's not a dealbreaker for me - by the time I've decided to meet I've already been attracted to the personality so I don't really care about the mug. I also hate sending my own face pic so don't ask for one
I'd agree with u there geordie stimulate the mind and the body follows
Plus I carry two paper bags in my riding kit
Both for me, incase one blows off?
One each if ur falls off sure u be looking away from me anyway, unless we in front of a mirror
Think I'll try upload a paper bag face pic just for the craic next one that asks for it in the second mail they get it
There was a single girl on here had a pic of herself wearing a horse head mask she used to send when asked for a face pic - cracked me up
Cmere geordie I even wore me Sunday best
you nutter! How the hell did that get approved
Always best upload dodgy pics this time of night "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very interested to know why a lot of women demand face pis when most people on this site need discretion .
Just check the verifications .
I seen a thread tonight for a meet and greet that wants fav pics .
Why "
Because looking at verifications isn't going to tell me if there's a physical attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant, CJ!
Big improvement  
Isn't it excellent - i want one!
And an m&s bag - no expense spared
 great shot, cj! And I love the curtains surprised though that there's no mouth slot  "
Let's just enjoy the peace & quiet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant do face pics...u just have to take my word for it when i say im a big ride lol"
And they are all innocent in prison
Face pic doesn't guarantee that. Don't really send out face pic's... We either connect or we don't
Plus if one vagina carries weight around here...then we are sorted lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it "
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol"
They all say that!
Oh wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually the answer is because they think they can. Unfortunately some people on here get deluded. The deluded males who convince themselves that women really really really want to see a picture of their penis along with a "wanna fuk "
And deluded women who think that because 50 muppets send them "wanna fuk " messages that proves they are gods gift and can demand anything the like. Such as a face pic.
Thankfully in the middle of the deluded folk there are genuine people who actually want a real connection. Not very many mind
But a few.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol
They all say that!
Oh wait "
Anyone missing some rings  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol
They all say that!
Oh wait
Anyone missing some rings "
Oi leave my ring out of it there's enough strap on ordered this last month
Plus they don't make paper bags big enough to cover my arse |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol
They all say that!
Oh wait
Anyone missing some rings
Oi leave my ring out of it there's enough strap on ordered this last month
Plus they don't make paper bags big enough to cover my arse "
Ah go on try lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol
They all say that!
Oh wait
Anyone missing some rings
Oi leave my ring out of it there's enough strap on ordered this last month
Plus they don't make paper bags big enough to cover my arse
Ah go on try lol"
Jayus another on starting to get paranoid now keep looking behind me as I walk down the street |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol
They all say that!
Oh wait
Anyone missing some rings
Oi leave my ring out of it there's enough strap on ordered this last month
Plus they don't make paper bags big enough to cover my arse
Ah go on try lol
Jayus another on starting to get paranoid now keep looking behind me as I walk down the street "
I promise I don't have a strap on I might pinch though |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Cj's just got fabbed lets get cj on the hot pics
Just flipped him the finger
Careful where you put that finger he might enjoy it
I was like the warden doing a clean sweep inspection... No joy to be had lol
They all say that!
Oh wait
Anyone missing some rings
Oi leave my ring out of it there's enough strap on ordered this last month
Plus they don't make paper bags big enough to cover my arse
Ah go on try lol
Jayus another on starting to get paranoid now keep looking behind me as I walk down the street
I promise I don't have a strap on I might pinch though "
Pinch away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would anyone actually meet someone without knowing what they look like ??
Quick cam at very least think a lot of guys expectations of a swingers site are from porn mags rather than real life ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People can demand what they like, you have free choice.
Personally I wouldn't pitch up "blind" to a social meet, and I wouldn't expect anyone else to either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would anyone actually meet someone without knowing what they look like ??
Quick cam at very least think a lot of guys expectations of a swingers site are from porn mags rather than real life !"
You don't look at the mantle when you're poking the fire.lol |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Would anyone actually meet someone without knowing what they look like ??
Quick cam at very least think a lot of guys expectations of a swingers site are from porn mags rather than real life !"
Yes some people do meet without a face pic. I did it three times, twice it went well and once I went home but not because I didn't like his mug.
Usually I do swap face pics but I drag that bit out until I know the person a good bit through messaging. |
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"Would anyone actually meet someone without knowing what they look like ??
Quick cam at very least think a lot of guys expectations of a swingers site are from porn mags rather than real life !"
We have been on the site about 7 years n never once sent a face pic,never will.as you can see from our verifications summary we do ok.
But then we do say on our profile we don't send so it's up to the other person if they want to take things further.
As I said in a previous post,no one is forced to send pics or do anything they don't want to do. |
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I ask for a face pic, I'm not here to make a deep meaningful connection I already have that! I'm here to have fun with guys that I find attractive nothing more. I will however send one in return. It says on our profile that a face pic will be expected so if you don't feel comfortable then it's very easy not to contact. |
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Its a bit different if the other person sends their face pic and asks for yours in return. At least then youre on equal footing.
But demanding face pics or no reply on a first message (although everyone can set whatever standards they like) is foolish. It encourages that bit of wrecklessness and indiscretion that left Hotbod81 embarrassed in front of his friends and neighbours.
If you cant invest the effort of 1 message to send your face pic first (if its so essential) then I dont know why anyones foolish enough to send their face pic to any random person. Might as well just put your face on your profile and save some effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't ask for a face pic as we don't give out ours and if someone sends one, we thank them and explain we don't throw ours out there lightly. This is why we love the parties...you get to meet people in person in a larger setting but again face pic is only part of it. |
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I get suspect when people keep asking for face pis
And they in our friends list
And already had face pics of us about 3 times or now especially messaging each other loads then arrange a meet up and they pull out
Then a cussing me of been a man
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I ask for a face pic, I'm not here to make a deep meaningful connection I already have that! I'm here to have fun with guys that I find attractive nothing more. I will however send one in return. It says on our profile that a face pic will be expected so if you don't feel comfortable then it's very easy not to contact."
I'm not here to make 'a deep meaningful connection' either. It all depends what stimulates you, some people are more visual than others. I need a naughty smart mind connection, good looks are a nice addition but don't do that much for me. |
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Women ask because they can and men will send.I personally find them pointless I have met women who say I look different than picture and my personality doesn't come through on the picture and I think 5 minutes over a coffee can tell everything you need to know anyway. |
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