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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.
For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today. |
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"So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.
For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today. "
Man, have I got a story. So a younger polish girl asked me out after we'd met in the pub, I was into her and she was a solid looking and fairly funny young one. We meet up and go down to the local beach for a nice stroll and a load of polish Bois pull up and start berating her in polish so I lead her off and just walk on with her and she starts crying explains it was her ex, apologises and practically runs off. We're chatting since the weekend still, will probably see her next weekend but wow it was an odd one. Felt really bad for her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage |
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By *dam010Man
over a year ago
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"Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage "
What's 'the iron circle' mean? |
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Was in a nightclub two years ago and met a old client I'd known through work. While everyone was drinking their asses off, she couldn't believe this one guy was sober . So, she asked for a lift home, had ourselves a snog and then I asked her out
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"Probably when they still did slow sets at discos
Been than long "
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Ahh the days of drinking for dutch courage then either getting off the dance floor or looking around when the slow set came on. Great, great times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Years ago, can't even remember fully. He turned me down, I've never had the confidence to do that again. "
Same here, never again
I'm too old and bold now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage
What's 'the iron circle' mean?"
The iron circle...basically, when you go to chat up a girl in a club or bar who happens to be with her mates, you're not just trying to chat her up, it's all her mates you're trying to chat up because if one or more doesn't take to you, that's it, chance gone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time I asked anyone out was my ex and don't think I'll be asking anyone else. Think beauty is there to hide the abusive behaviour in some women. Not confident enough just yet to even think about asking anyone out on a date |
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By *dam010Man
over a year ago
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"Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage
What's 'the iron circle' mean?
The iron circle...basically, when you go to chat up a girl in a club or bar who happens to be with her mates, you're not just trying to chat her up, it's all her mates you're trying to chat up because if one or more doesn't take to you, that's it, chance gone!"
Ah yeah know exactly what you mean now. I wouldn't bother approaching a group of Irish girls, far too shy and cliquey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a club around Christmas
Went over to the guy
Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??
He rolled his eyes and walked away
I wasn't d*unk
I was sober
I am soo bad at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a club around Christmas
Went over to the guy
Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??
He rolled his eyes and walked away
I wasn't d*unk
I was sober
I am soo bad at it "
No way!! People are made lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a club around Christmas
Went over to the guy
Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??
He rolled his eyes and walked away
I wasn't d*unk
I was sober
I am soo bad at it "
That's a bitch. Not sure why unless he was already expecting someone and it might have looked bad for him. Don't let that put you off....I'd say it was nothing to do with you. |
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By *dam010Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"In a club around Christmas
Went over to the guy
Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??
He rolled his eyes and walked away
I wasn't d*unk
I was sober
I am soo bad at it "
Being around Christmas time he probably wrongly thought you were d*unk or it was a wind up |
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"In a club around Christmas
Went over to the guy
Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??
He rolled his eyes and walked away
I wasn't d*unk
I was sober
I am soo bad at it
Being around Christmas time he probably wrongly thought you were d*unk or it was a wind up" He probably had been just let down by someone so wasn't in the mood but even so he should have said yes or no to you not just walk away and say nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must say, kudos to ye ladies that tried. Not enough of that craic goin. Maybe if more tried, they might see what lads have to go through, and might go a little easier on them. |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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"So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.
For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today. "
38 years ago,it was Mrs P & stil married today |
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Its a little funny seeing the women get shot down once and never try again. You'd never manage as guys, getting shot down only once on a night out requires some great luck!
No's arent the worst thing in the world, missing out on something awesome on the otherhand... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't remember ever asking a girl out directly as in do u want to go out with me but during conversations I might say I am going out Fri night if ud like to come along."
Smooth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Years ago, can't even remember fully. He turned me down, I've never had the confidence to do that again.
Same here, never again
I'm too old and bold now "
Bold is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.
For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today.
38 years ago,it was Mrs P & stil married today "
Snap
Although for us it's 17 years ago since I got asked(sorry commanded) to go on our first date |
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