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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been chatting to a girl for a few days now and then I ask for a face pic. While I asked I added my own pic.
5 mins later I'm blocked.
For the love and honour of jaysus what's wrong with some people. I'm no Tom cruise but would a simple not my type just do.
This is not the first time it has happend and to be honest it pisses me off.
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A woman said she taught I was hot when we exchanged face pics, I seen her to. I went to reply and I was blocked weird!! |
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Dude there are some right arses on here and not in the good spankable way quite a few get a lil kick out of behaving like cretins,just chalk it up to a lucky escape that she didn't get you arranging a meet and not turning up like some do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been chatting to a girl for a few days now and then I ask for a face pic. While I asked I added my own pic.
5 mins later I'm blocked.
For the love and honour of jaysus what's wrong with some people. I'm no Tom cruise but would a simple not my type just do.
This is not the first time it has happend and to be honest it pisses me off.
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These people dont even deserve your effort and energy spent in getting angry!
Focus on the positive side, and be thankful of those people who are still respectful and bother to give you at least a negative answer. 
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd sooner be told. Bit shitty to say the least "
Unfortunately the problem with a lot of guys (and probably gals too) is that when they've been told 'no you're not my type' they've become abusive so after a few times its easier just to block. Although most of the time I do say they're not my type before blocking |
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"I'd sooner be told. Bit shitty to say the least
Unfortunately the problem with a lot of guys (and probably gals too) is that when they've been told 'no you're not my type' they've become abusive so after a few times its easier just to block. Although most of the time I do say they're not my type before blocking"
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"Have been chatting to a girl for a few days now and then I ask for a face pic. While I asked I added my own pic.
5 mins later I'm blocked.
For the love and honour of jaysus what's wrong with some people. I'm no Tom cruise but would a simple not my type just do.
This is not the first time it has happend and to be honest it pisses me off.
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Don't dwell on it it's a reflection of who they are and not of you....simply no back bone. Regardless of whatever excuse people want to make manners cost nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a swinger requires you to have a tough skin. The first thing you need to learn is how to take rejection.
I agree that it's rude.
But I know why people block to avoid potential confrontation too.
All you can do is move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry this happened but maybe she has received abuse previously and has toughened to a stance that is rude but just couldn't face/handle doing it any other way. Will never know I guess, stick at it and happier fabbing next time
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"Have been chatting to a girl for a few days now and then I ask for a face pic. While I asked I added my own pic.
5 mins later I'm blocked.
For the love and honour of jaysus what's wrong with some people. I'm no Tom cruise but would a simple not my type just do.
This is not the first time it has happend and to be honest it pisses me off.
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Welcome to my world big fella! Happens to a lot of guys (or maybe just me ) and yes, it stings like the bitch who did it to you... but you'll get over it and under another lady before you even know it.
As the cheeky Christy says "Ride on"  |
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Have to say op this has happened to me several times too. In my opinion it is totally bad manners. Interesting to see ladies responses to your thread. There just isnt any excuse in my opinion. If someone is good enough to send a face pic a polite sorry not interested would be suffice but blocking is just ignorant and ill mannered.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I think a polite 'no thanks' would be the least and can be expected. To drop manners altogether with the excuse of having experienced verbal abuse before is just lousy. Girls and ladies have some balls and reply with style. |
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"I think a polite 'no thanks' would be the least and can be expected. To drop manners altogether with the excuse of having experienced verbal abuse before is just lousy. Girls and ladies have some balls and reply with style. "
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"Ignore... Just people with no manners some people have no manners just move on she was prob an ugly brute anyway
There's no need for name calling, it's showing no manners and style either. was tounge in cheek get down of your hobby horse and go into the bush hotel and get yourself a wee coffee and a slice of carrot cake  "
Charming, u'l do well on fab
As for op, I'm afraid to say just cause u sent face pic doesn't mean she has to send hers, it's not tit4tat. When I chat to a guy here I like to go at my own pace so if they send friend request or want face pic before I'm ready then that's me done with them. I somewhat agree that a reply stating why they are no longer interested would be politer but as others have said, that can lead onto abuse or just more unwarranted messages so I can see why a block is just more convenient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have been chatting to a girl for a few days now and then I ask for a face pic. While I asked I added my own pic.
5 mins later I'm blocked.
For the love and honour of jaysus what's wrong with some people. I'm no Tom cruise but would a simple not my type just do.
This is not the first time it has happend and to be honest it pisses me off.
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It's frustrating when it happens, but be smarter about it will lessen time wasted.
Understandable see want or need to vent about their frustrations, but leave it at that and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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will add a moan then exit stage left...... yes theres a lot (all sexes)on here who do need to listen to what mummy told them about manners.
If you not interested please just say. I get that I'm not going to be everyones cup of tea (yes some of you do have something wrong with you,,,, i mean, whats not to love??? )
By all means block me after a "no thanks" if you never want to hear from me or see me again but to be honest, i'll have noted the response and will never darken your doorstep again!!
grumble grumble grumble, you young whippersnappers,,, pass me my slippers.... in my day ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ignore... Just people with no manners some people have no manners just move on she was prob an ugly brute anyway
There's no need for name calling, it's showing no manners and style either. was tounge in cheek get down of your hobby horse and go into the bush hotel and get yourself a wee coffee and a slice of carrot cake
Charming, u'l do well on fab
As for op, I'm afraid to say just cause u sent face pic doesn't mean she has to send hers, it's not tit4tat. When I chat to a guy here I like to go at my own pace so if they send friend request or want face pic before I'm ready then that's me done with them. I somewhat agree that a reply stating why they are no longer interested would be politer but as others have said, that can lead onto abuse or just more unwarranted messages so I can see why a block is just more convenient. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we exchange pics and I'm not attracted to them I at least have the decency to say "you're not my type" and I'll block you just so won't waste his time or mine again |
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"something I always wonder. when u say "you're not my type", do you actually have a type?
Well it's nicer than saying "I don't find you attractive""
that's exactly what I mean. do u mean your not attracted to them physically or that u only go for a certain type |
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The crux of the matter is that on here some people think their piss is perfume and their shites marmalade they get tons of messages and think they are then gods gift where in reality 95% of them (I may have made that figure up) you would walk past on the street without so much as a second glance. So if some peeps do that to you best thing is to ignore them and move on dude. |
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"The crux of the matter is that on here some people think their piss is perfume and their shites marmalade they get tons of messages and think they are then gods gift where in reality 95% of them (I may have made that figure up) you would walk past on the street without so much as a second glance. So if some peeps do that to you best thing is to ignore them and move on dude. "
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