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What's the Use of the Wink option?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is there shy point in using the "Wink" option? From what I've read the girls don't like receiving em, and if you're pals with someone you'll like or message them. And if you get a wink, if you mail the person who winks will they reply? It's all a bit mad Ted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When we get a wink we take it to mean "I'm a desperate guy pretending to be a couple and I'm fantasizing about you jumping on me anyway...", if we get a message from a couple we take it to mean that we got a message from a couple. Winks are useless, we don't even seem to get notified of them consistently. Lots of other things this site needs more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tend to find that a lot of women use it to show interest? At least I would take it as a sign to message if there was a mutual attraction...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nah, it's wank.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bulk delete, never look at them unless we sign up for a winky game

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Bulk delete, never look at them unless we sign up for a winky game

Madame B"

Ohhhhh explain the winking game Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bulk delete, never look at them unless we sign up for a winky game

Madame B

Ohhhhh explain the winking game Madame B"

Someone puts up a thread about winking, you say if you are in and if someone winks at you and you wink back, they send a message...Gets people chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't bother with winks. I much prefer the direct approach

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just bulk delete Ted

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By *BelfastGuyMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I've replied to peoples winks and never hear back. What's that about?

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

Sorry I had something in my eye

I use it to show interest in some ones profile that I don't exactly fit their preference u never know rules are made to be broken

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Someone puts up a thread about winking, you say if you are in and if someone winks at you and you wink back, they send a message...Gets people chatting. "

We always hoped, somewhat naively, that putting up a profile would get people chatting to us.. what's a couple got to do get fucked 'round here?!

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By *xplicitlyricsMan  over a year ago

south dublin

Yeah I find a fair few girls will wink rather than message first. Its a low stakes way of getting to see if theres any interest.

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By *eon SaintsCouple  over a year ago

Citywest


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great! "

This is exactly how we use it. We like you we wink, if you like us wink/msg in return and away we go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've replied to peoples winks and never hear back. What's that about?"

Dunno, I've done the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Someone puts up a thread about winking, you say if you are in and if someone winks at you and you wink back, they send a message...Gets people chatting.

We always hoped, somewhat naively, that putting up a profile would get people chatting to us.. what's a couple got to do get fucked 'round here?! "

Hence we only use that option for a game. It's frustrating when you get messages from people who have obviously not read it.

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah I find a fair few girls will wink rather than message first. Its a low stakes way of getting to see if theres any interest."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great!

This is exactly how we use it. We like you we wink, if you like us wink/msg in return and away we go "

Ideal really, isn't it?!

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By *itty14Couple  over a year ago

kilkenny


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great!

This is exactly how we use it. We like you we wink, if you like us wink/msg in return and away we go "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We ignore them.

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By *leasureOrbitCouple  over a year ago

city centre

We generally ignore winks unless we're very attracted to / interested in the pics of whoever sent it.....we're very shallow

However, we usually reply to mails, even if there's not a strong initial attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If someone tempts me then I wink back

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By *orning Sex GuyMan  over a year ago

Cavan


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great! "

Your dead right BoldGirl, great way to send an expression of interest, wish people would use it more.

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By *eon SaintsCouple  over a year ago

Citywest


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great!

This is exactly how we use it. We like you we wink, if you like us wink/msg in return and away we go

Ideal really, isn't it?! "

We find it works anyway. Saves messaging unnecessarily- we would tend to put a bit of effort into our messages so it was getting frustrating when they would unanswered. so at least this way if they don't wink back then message received and we haven't wasted much time

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By *tanonieMan  over a year ago

killorglin


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great!

This is exactly how we use it. We like you we wink, if you like us wink/msg in return and away we go

Ideal really, isn't it?!

We find it works anyway. Saves messaging unnecessarily- we would tend to put a bit of effort into our messages so it was getting frustrating when they would unanswered. so at least this way if they don't wink back then message received and we haven't wasted much time "

Too true

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By *addy36Man  over a year ago

Mayo


"

Someone puts up a thread about winking, you say if you are in and if someone winks at you and you wink back, they send a message...Gets people chatting.

We always hoped, somewhat naively, that putting up a profile would get people chatting to us.. what's a couple got to do get fucked 'round here?! "

Allow single guys to contact you and you'll get rode sideways

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If someone tempts me then I wink back "

So spill the beans red, who's tempting you

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I just bulk delete Ted "

You love to do everything in Bulk Pria . Hope you're keeping well gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a winker just to gauge interest then follow up with a mail

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm guilty of winking from time to time. It's a good way of guaging interest.

If the person winks/mails back, great!

This is exactly how we use it. We like you we wink, if you like us wink/msg in return and away we go

Ideal really, isn't it?!

We find it works anyway. Saves messaging unnecessarily- we would tend to put a bit of effort into our messages so it was getting frustrating when they would unanswered. so at least this way if they don't wink back then message received and we haven't wasted much time "

I like your style!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am a Winker here....I think its a nice simple way of showing interest in someone's profile...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Saves time on typing messages if you have big fingers and small keyboard

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just bulk delete Ted "

Those winks were just resting in my account, Dougal

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I like winks

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By *BelfastGuyMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"I like winks "

Spelt that wrnog.

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By *BelfastGuyMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"I like winks "

I would wink you all day if I could.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like winks "

Me too, I've had wink 'success' this week

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Having filters on I only get winks from those I have already engaged with. I like others on the thread, will wink at a sexy guy, lady or couple if I see them as a potential meet and wait and see

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't bother with winks. I much prefer the direct approach "

This

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'm a serial Winker. Some of you ladies may have noticed. For me it's showing interest, particularly where the lady is averse to smokers, as I'm mostly a vaper nowadays.

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