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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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"Woukd it be easier to post the names of the guys for the girls to vote on. I think everyone who's interested has said there in so far?"
all the women and myself are in a kik group and they are going through the forum looking at names |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very interested in going live in kildare but attend most party's in Dublin can travel, not verified so thats a pity do you reveal the Kik name as I have that and can prove that I'm genuine?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you attend parties you should have verifications dont think you will get far without them  "
You'd need verifications for a body like that i attend as a date so iv never needed them, but to be fair you wouldn't be in one of the one I attend you have to be fit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you attend parties you should have verifications dont think you will get far without them
You'd need verifications for a body like that i attend as a date so iv never needed them, but to be fair you wouldn't be in one of the one I attend you have to be fit "
Not a v nice thing to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you attend parties you should have verifications dont think you will get far without them
You'd need verifications for a body like that i attend as a date so iv never needed them, but to be fair you wouldn't be in one of the one I attend you have to be fit "
obviously your so called date never bothered to verify you. I'm not surprised with your attatude. |
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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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"If you attend parties you should have verifications dont think you will get far without them
You'd need verifications for a body like that i attend as a date so iv never needed them, but to be fair you wouldn't be in one of the one I attend you have to be fit "
it's safe to say you won't be invited to the party you are not verified and you are here only a week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is space for 10 more guys.
you have to be recently verified the women are picking the guys they want at the party. the location is in Dublin "
Have 3 recent verifications by well established fabbers only a newbie and attempting to show I'm keen to join the fun and I think this would be the party to showcase myself, I'm considerate and very giving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you attend parties you should have verifications dont think you will get far without them
You'd need verifications for a body like that i attend as a date so iv never needed them, but to be fair you wouldn't be in one of the one I attend you have to be fit "
casanova :') |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi new to the world of fab and getting used to the forums and how to reply so apologies if a post pops up more than once would love the opportunity to prove myself worthy and this party would be ideal to be recognised and I could also showcase myself too keep me in mind please when deciding thank you |
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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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no more names being taken as the girls have about 20 names to fill 8 spaces. anyone picked will be messaged by tomorrow at the latest.
thanks for all the interest there will be another very soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?  "
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business"
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no? "
You don't always get the guest list for parties. It's up to you whether or not to ask for an invite. Usually I'd know the host/hostess and trust their good judgement in choosing their guests |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no?
You don't always get the guest list for parties. It's up to you whether or not to ask for an invite. Usually I'd know the host/hostess and trust their good judgement in choosing their guests "
Yeah I suppose that's true I'd probably do that too if I knew the host/hostess.
Bit different here though.. with the amount of lads saying "in" they couldn't all know the OP's judgement lol..
Not making a big thing of it I just thought it was an interesting and kind of funny observation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no?
You don't always get the guest list for parties. It's up to you whether or not to ask for an invite. Usually I'd know the host/hostess and trust their good judgement in choosing their guests
Yeah I suppose that's true I'd probably do that too if I knew the host/hostess.
Bit different here though.. with the amount of lads saying "in" they couldn't all know the OP's judgement lol..
Not making a big thing of it I just thought it was an interesting and kind of funny observation "
But didnt u put ur name in but u werent verified in recent months . So u werent to worried when u put ur name in the pot if memory service me right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no? "
I agree with you We always like to know who's attending a party before hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" 'pick me' bullshit - fook dat! half u women on here would be lucky for me to even look at ya! "
Well thats ensured you won't ever be in the frame again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here? "
I've only just seen what you wrote - and I totally agree with you.
If it were the other way round I'm pretty sure all the ladies would ask who the men were. Well, at least I hope they would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But Loncav you must remember that a lot of guys have the "Any port in a storm" mentality.
Not to say that the male guests attending this party fall into that category. The OP is well known and well verified as a m&g & party host. We attended one of his M&G's last year and it was very well coordinated. One of the better M&G's we've attended.
Without doubt the ladies attending this party will be some of the sexiest ladies on the site. Good luck with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But Loncav you must remember that a lot of guys have the "Any port in a storm" mentality.
Not to say that the male guests attending this party fall into that category. The OP is well known and well verified as a m&g & party host. We attended one of his M&G's last year and it was very well coordinated. One of the better M&G's we've attended.
Without doubt the ladies attending this party will be some of the sexiest ladies on the site. Good luck with it. "
I think they'll have a great night |
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
I've only just seen what you wrote - and I totally agree with you.
If it were the other way round I'm pretty sure all the ladies would ask who the men were. Well, at least I hope they would"
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If a guy asked he probably wouldn't be told! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
I've only just seen what you wrote - and I totally agree with you.
If it were the other way round I'm pretty sure all the ladies would ask who the men were. Well, at least I hope they would
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If a guy asked he probably wouldn't be told!"
and probably wouldn't care! |
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
I've only just seen what you wrote - and I totally agree with you.
If it were the other way round I'm pretty sure all the ladies would ask who the men were. Well, at least I hope they would
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If a guy asked he probably wouldn't be told!
and probably wouldn't care!"
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Not all! |
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"Off course it matters you still have to fancy who you fucking.. would you have sex with someone your not into, I definitely won't...
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... and for that reason, I'm out! "
Fair play to you some of us guys still have some standards.. definitely not going to be just picked get a grip I couldn't be bothered and I hope the guys on the site stand up for them selfs too. |
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"Off course it matters you still have to fancy who you fucking.. would you have sex with someone your not into, I definitely won't...
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... and for that reason, I'm out!
Fair play to you some of us guys still have some standards.. definitely not going to be just picked get a grip I couldn't be bothered and I hope the guys on the site stand up for them selfs too."
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It's not jut that... What if one got picked by someone they didn't fancy and then declined?
Or if one went through with it and there was no spark??
One would get gossiped about "in private" kik groups etc etc etc...
There will be plenty of applicants anyway! |
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"Off course it matters you still have to fancy who you fucking.. would you have sex with someone your not into, I definitely won't...
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... and for that reason, I'm out!
Fair play to you some of us guys still have some standards.. definitely not going to be just picked get a grip I couldn't be bothered and I hope the guys on the site stand up for them selfs too.
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It's not jut that... What if one got picked by someone they didn't fancy and then declined?
Or if one went through with it and there was no spark??
One would get gossiped about "in private" kik groups etc etc etc...
There will be plenty of applicants anyway!"
would that bother you me I couldn't care less I say it as I see it if I didn't fancy someone I wouldn't regardless what the nite was it so wrong with the way guys are treated on the site fuck it move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Off course it matters you still have to fancy who you fucking.. would you have sex with someone your not into, I definitely won't...
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... and for that reason, I'm out!
Fair play to you some of us guys still have some standards.. definitely not going to be just picked get a grip I couldn't be bothered and I hope the guys on the site stand up for them selfs too."
Didnt u put ur name down too on the other thread . Correct me if im wrong  |
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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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To clear up some confusion.
I started a thread a few weeks ago looking for women first then after they where picked they each got to pick a guy. Who they mailed directly and then between them picked the rest of the guys. Then they where all added to a kik group and I shared the invite list with everyone. If any of the invitees didn't like the others they where free to not attend.
This might be a different way of picking people for a party but there's no point in me just picking 20 random guys and then none of the women find the guys attractive and vice versa. If anyone has a problem with my approach they don't have to attend any of next parties that I'll be running during the year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To clear up some confusion.
I started a thread a few weeks ago looking for women first then after they where picked they each got to pick a guy. Who they mailed directly and then between them picked the rest of the guys. Then they where all added to a kik group and I shared the invite list with everyone. If any of the invitees didn't like the others they where free to not attend.
This might be a different way of picking people for a party but there's no point in me just picking 20 random guys and then none of the women find the guys attractive and vice versa. If anyone has a problem with my approach they don't have to attend any of next parties that I'll be running during the year. "
All I say to the begrudges -
Your the host
The host usually coughs up the rental cost and recoups at a later stage all going well - his name on the dotted line
Therefore you get to invite who you like
Simple
Enjoy your night have a great time ladies and gents
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"To clear up some confusion.
I started a thread a few weeks ago looking for women first then after they where picked they each got to pick a guy. Who they mailed directly and then between them picked the rest of the guys. Then they where all added to a kik group and I shared the invite list with everyone. If any of the invitees didn't like the others they where free to not attend.
This might be a different way of picking people for a party but there's no point in me just picking 20 random guys and then none of the women find the guys attractive and vice versa. If anyone has a problem with my approach they don't have to attend any of next parties that I'll be running during the year. "
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Ahh, that clears it up!
Hope party goes well and that those who say they will show will turn up on the night! |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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If guys wanted to be included they could ask to be. If they didn't then they didn't.
It's a free choice for both male and female even though the girls where calling all the shots.
Laid to be fair knows what he is doing as he has probably hosted more events than most, and he to be fair was leaving it up to the girls to pick the lads they liked the look of.
Lads might not like that but its the way that Fab works, has always worked and will probably always work when the male to female ratio is so large.
As i couldnt email most of the women that expressed an interest in going i didnt put my name forward as i figured if i am outside their age range there was little or no point in applying in the first place as i'm not what they are looking for.
I am sure that all going both male and female have the potential to have a great night, and i wish them all well with it.
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no?
You don't always get the guest list for parties. It's up to you whether or not to ask for an invite. Usually I'd know the host/hostess and trust their good judgement in choosing their guests
Yeah I suppose that's true I'd probably do that too if I knew the host/hostess.
Bit different here though.. with the amount of lads saying "in" they couldn't all know the OP's judgement lol..
Not making a big thing of it I just thought it was an interesting and kind of funny observation But didnt u put ur name in but u werent verified in recent months . So u werent to worried when u put ur name in the pot if memory service me right "
I actually did ask who the ladies were but I was told we wouldn't be told because they would be bombarded with messages.. |
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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no?
You don't always get the guest list for parties. It's up to you whether or not to ask for an invite. Usually I'd know the host/hostess and trust their good judgement in choosing their guests
Yeah I suppose that's true I'd probably do that too if I knew the host/hostess.
Bit different here though.. with the amount of lads saying "in" they couldn't all know the OP's judgement lol..
Not making a big thing of it I just thought it was an interesting and kind of funny observation But didnt u put ur name in but u werent verified in recent months . So u werent to worried when u put ur name in the pot if memory service me right
I actually did ask who the ladies were but I was told we wouldn't be told because they would be bombarded with messages.. "
yes you did but you where also told you wouldnt be going as you didnt meet the criteria before you asked who the women where |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
I've only just seen what you wrote - and I totally agree with you.
If it were the other way round I'm pretty sure all the ladies would ask who the men were. Well, at least I hope they would"
Of course they would ask, rightly so too.
I just thought it was funny how a lot of the lads just want to get with anyone lol..
The party is a great idea though and it's way more likely to happen when the girls pick I think also as most lads wouldn't be so picky - have fun |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
dublin |
"Is it just me or did nobody want to enquire who the girls even are or does it even matter to lads on here?
If you were picked & are going then you'll find out
If not, then it's none of your business
Your missing my point.... none of the lads happened to ask who the ladies were.. thought it was kinda strange
If somebody said "hey you fancy going to a party with some lads?" More than likely you'd say "yeh sure what are the lads like?" Or something along those lines no?
You don't always get the guest list for parties. It's up to you whether or not to ask for an invite. Usually I'd know the host/hostess and trust their good judgement in choosing their guests
Yeah I suppose that's true I'd probably do that too if I knew the host/hostess.
Bit different here though.. with the amount of lads saying "in" they couldn't all know the OP's judgement lol..
Not making a big thing of it I just thought it was an interesting and kind of funny observation But didnt u put ur name in but u werent verified in recent months . So u werent to worried when u put ur name in the pot if memory service me right
I actually did ask who the ladies were but I was told we wouldn't be told because they would be bombarded with messages..
yes you did but you where also told you wouldnt be going as you didnt meet the criteria before you asked who the women where"
Well see that could have been sorted easily enough because I do meet the criteria the ladies just didn't post the verifications so I asked if I needed them too would they and they said yes.. I then proceeded to ask who the ladies were and you told me only lads that were picked will know so I didn't bother then
Not trying to rain on your parade or anything.. my observation is nothing to do with your party specifically I just thought it was funny that's all |
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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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Due to two last minute cancellations there's space for two guys.
Criteria
Age 26 to 45 fit, verified by meeting within the past few months and comfortable in group situations remember that this is in Dublin so you'd have to get here. |
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