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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah each to their own I guess, I just find it an interesting topic since I don't think men have ever been more under pressure to look good physically."
Women have always been under pressure to look a 'certain' way so welcome to the world of scrutiny and discrimination! 
I do agree mens fitness has gotten more popular lately, especially in ireland. But regardless of trends People just need to be happy in themselves and in their own skin. 99% of it is media hype that's best ignored.
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By *errylad OP Man
over a year ago
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Haha thanks! Sorry us lads kept ye waiting yeah it is the persons mindset that has a lot to do with it but as a guy in my 20's you feel you have to do more. Otherwise you won't be looked twice at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope fitness is not a trend...
This country is becoming more obese by the year and affecting kids is a serious matter!
But yes it does help having a "gym body" if that means being strong fit and healthy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm about as far away from a gym body you can get on this site, but you would not believe how much fun I have had on here over the last 5 years of my 1st membership here (over 60 veri's and not one from a social night)
Be confident, be respectful, be funny as fook, treat people like people and you'll be fine...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't. "
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat |
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It's not all about the size or the type of body you have. Personally, I believe it's all about the mind set, and the attitude that you have. If you have the confidence to go with it then you're winning. Sell yourself in other ways than just your physical appearance. Love me a girl with some good mind set, she can fuck me intellectually all night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat "
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ?"
I had this discussion about people been fit and healthy with someone recently while been in a public place...we had a look around and every single woman in sight was unfit and out of shape..but nearly all the men were looking fit and in shape...it's not the men on here that have to worry about been gym fit!! you have to worry about finding a woman that's gym fit on here if that's what your looking for...personally if the guy is fit,has a personality and a pretty face your in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah each to their own I guess, I just find it an interesting topic since I don't think men have ever been more under pressure to look good physically.
Women have always been under pressure to look a 'certain' way so welcome to the world of scrutiny and discrimination!
I do agree mens fitness has gotten more popular lately, especially in ireland. But regardless of trends People just need to be happy in themselves and in their own skin. 99% of it is media hype that's best ignored.
Do what you want and be confident in yourself. The rest will follow. "
Nonsense. All women have ever been asked to do is not be fat and most of them still moan about that...men have to go far beyond that to get similar levels of appreciation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ?
I had this discussion about people been fit and healthy with someone recently while been in a public place...we had a look around and every single woman in sight was unfit and out of shape..but nearly all the men were looking fit and in shape...it's not the men on here that have to worry about been gym fit!! you have to worry about finding a woman that's gym fit on here if that's what your looking for...personally if the guy is fit,has a personality and a pretty face your in "
This thing that if you look after your body and look either fit or muscular means that you have no personality....seriously, who thinks up this stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ?
I had this discussion about people been fit and healthy with someone recently while been in a public place...we had a look around and every single woman in sight was unfit and out of shape..but nearly all the men were looking fit and in shape...it's not the men on here that have to worry about been gym fit!! you have to worry about finding a woman that's gym fit on here if that's what your looking for...personally if the guy is fit,has a personality and a pretty face your in
This thing that if you look after your body and look either fit or muscular means that you have no personality....seriously, who thinks up this stuff"
I Blame TOWIE,Tallafornia and the likes |
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By *umfuzzMan
over a year ago
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I was wondering the same thing, I'm not woefully out of shape, but do women look at a guys body and think "I bet he can go for hours in the bedroom" or "I'd be lucky to get twenty minutes with him"?
I wouldn't be showing off my body as an asset but sometimes I feel like I'd be better off with a few body pics up so at least it's a 'devil you know' for women who do look at my profile...
I've been on fab a while now and I'm not a terrible looking chap but I rarely if ever get replies to messages. I have a feeling that being ripped would get me more replies. I think that's what OP might be getting at...correct me if I'm wrong!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ?
I had this discussion about people been fit and healthy with someone recently while been in a public place...we had a look around and every single woman in sight was unfit and out of shape..but nearly all the men were looking fit and in shape...it's not the men on here that have to worry about been gym fit!! you have to worry about finding a woman that's gym fit on here if that's what your looking for...personally if the guy is fit,has a personality and a pretty face your in
This thing that if you look after your body and look either fit or muscular means that you have no personality....seriously, who thinks up this stuff"
This!!!
Like people overweight people are more attractive as they are funny, happier and better personality...
People in shape shouldn't be shamed as well as anyone out of shape |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I was wondering the same thing, I'm not woefully out of shape, but do women look at a guys body and think "I bet he can go for hours in the bedroom" or "I'd be lucky to get twenty minutes with him "
Let me tell you that body fitness and sexual stamina are not necessarily connected. You can be a great marathon runner but you might just last 5 to 10minutes in the bedroom. However like you can train your body for a particular sport you can do the same for sex. Unfortunately not that many bother but also there are no physical signs to recognise great sexual stamina.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ?
I had this discussion about people been fit and healthy with someone recently while been in a public place...we had a look around and every single woman in sight was unfit and out of shape..but nearly all the men were looking fit and in shape...it's not the men on here that have to worry about been gym fit!! you have to worry about finding a woman that's gym fit on here if that's what your looking for...personally if the guy is fit,has a personality and a pretty face your in
This thing that if you look after your body and look either fit or muscular means that you have no personality....seriously, who thinks up this stuff
This!!!
Like people overweight people are more attractive as they are funny, happier and better personality...
People in shape shouldn't be shamed as well as anyone out of shape "
lol this man talks a lot of sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The mere mention of gym seems to end up a divisive discussion with people stereotyping the gym or non gym body.
Some people like to workout, some don't, some can't. Why judge either?
I would say OP that I workout for myself, to make me feel good in my clothes and indeed out of my clothes, to be stronger etc. It makes me content first and foremost.
I do enjoy meeting people of similar mindset and have something in common to chat about between sex. But it not the deal breaker
Be content in yourself is my advice, don't judge others because of how they look... And there nothing wrong with having body preferences for your meets
Live and let live
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"I was wondering the same thing, I'm not woefully out of shape, but do women look at a guys body and think "I bet he can go for hours in the bedroom" or "I'd be lucky to get twenty minutes with him"?
I wouldn't be showing off my body as an asset but sometimes I feel like I'd be better off with a few body pics up so at least it's a 'devil you know' for women who do look at my profile...
I've been on fab a while now and I'm not a terrible looking chap but I rarely if ever get replies to messages. I have a feeling that being ripped would get me more replies. I think that's what OP might be getting at...correct me if I'm wrong!
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It takes a serious amount of self control and hard work to develop a 'guy body ' !
Are you willing to go to these lengths just to increase your chances of getting a meeting on here ? Fair enough if you're doing it for your own personal benefit as in being fitter and healthier ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering the same thing, I'm not woefully out of shape, but do women look at a guys body and think "I bet he can go for hours in the bedroom" or "I'd be lucky to get twenty minutes with him
Let me tell you that body fitness and sexual stamina are not necessarily connected. You can be a great marathon runner but you might just last 5 to 10minutes in the bedroom. However like you can train your body for a particular sport you can do the same for sex. Unfortunately not that many bother but also there are no physical signs to recognise great sexual stamina.
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There is a physical component through, when I'm training hard I can go alot longer without getting tired, hold certain positions longer etc
But nothing to do with dick stamina agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being fit and healthy is a distinct advantage in life never mind on here..."gym fit" comes in many variations on here, as long as you're feeling healthier fitter and more confident that's what it's all about in my opinion but as it goes each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say like everything in life some like them and some don't.
Those that like them are vain and a lot of people on this site want people to have a serious gym body with not a pec of fat
Well thats not generalising atall is it ?
So im vain because i train and im attracted to fit athletic people?
So by that logic the only way to shred myself of this cursed affliction called vanity is for me to gain weight and have sex with people im not attracted to ?
I had this discussion about people been fit and healthy with someone recently while been in a public place...we had a look around and every single woman in sight was unfit and out of shape..but nearly all the men were looking fit and in shape...it's not the men on here that have to worry about been gym fit!! you have to worry about finding a woman that's gym fit on here if that's what your looking for...personally if the guy is fit,has a personality and a pretty face your in
This thing that if you look after your body and look either fit or muscular means that you have no personality....seriously, who thinks up this stuff"
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By *umfuzzMan
over a year ago
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Let me tell you that body fitness and sexual stamina are not necessarily connected. You can be a great marathon runner but you might just last 5 to 10minutes in the bedroom. However like you can train your body for a particular sport you can do the same for sex. Unfortunately not that many bother but also there are no physical signs to recognise great sexual stamina.
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yeah, it's a different skillset, good to hear this said out loud, though I'm not sure everyone thinks like this...unfortunately haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever body type you have... if you no happy then change but only change for you!
This idea that changing for women or to get social media/ other strangers on a strangers validation about how you look is crazy!
Do what you want for you and no one else don't get sucked into thinking what do they like and I'll change
Women want a man with their own ideas and be secure in their own skin... So own it whatever you rocking |
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