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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a profile pic that's a start lol"
Put up lots more cock picture's its just nonsense that the ladies don't want cock pictures. They contact me every day looking for cock pictures from all different angles.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say looking at your profile asking the ladies to come and meet your needs, would put me off if I was a lady,
Generally the girls you need to look after your needs without it being a two sided coin you pay for
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't mind what women tell you pal, women say one thing and mean another alot of the time. It's a sex where the vast majority look to connect and meet for fun, put up what you want  "
He's put up what he wants - his needs seeing to.
Form a line ladies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't mind what women tell you pal, women say one thing and mean another alot of the time. It's a sex where the vast majority look to connect and meet for fun, put up what you want
He's put up what he wants - his needs seeing to.
Form a line ladies
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Just shows to me how tedious some people can be. I chat to people and try engage them and see what they're about. I most certainly don't judge them by saying " ah she has a vagina as her avatar, that's her gone." Bottom line pal is that you will find it hard Along with alot of others as numbers are completely lobsided |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a fucking swinger website do ya want photos of me in a shirt and tie showing as little flesh as possible ?????????"
I'm sure it would be a good start, that and a change of personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies..."
A year on the site and you're only figuring this out now..?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a fucking swinger website do ya want photos of me in a shirt and tie showing as little flesh as possible ?????????
I'm sure it would be a good start, that and a change of personality. "
You'd be surprised how well this works.. |
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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Wasn't on it for the past 11 months, thought I'd give it another go but still a load of shite, women who have that much choice and inundated with messages think they can be ignorant to whoever they chose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't on it for the past 11 months, thought I'd give it another go but still a load of shite, women who have that much choice and inundated with messages think they can be ignorant to whoever they chose."
Whereas you're not ignorant at all.
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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Was quite alright until people started leaving negative comments, easy going person , not a doormat tho there is no rules about what you can and can't post so if you don't like what someone has up then ignore it. Live and let live and all that. |
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Wasn't on it for the past 11 months, thought I'd give it another go but still a load of shite, women who have that much choice and inundated with messages think they can be ignorant to whoever they chose.
Whereas you're not ignorant at all.
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P.s good fishing in and around Kingscourt and drumconrath be down that way regular, won't be expecting an invite tho ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not been here long but just because it's a swingers site doesn't make it any different to "real life". If you're sound, follow respectful social convention and don't give off the air of being a creep, things may just work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was quite alright until people started leaving negative comments, easy going person , not a doormat tho there is no rules about what you can and can't post so if you don't like what someone has up then ignore it. Live and let live and all that."
Well there are some rules - but you haven't broken them.
What I'm trying to say is that the wording on your profile won't endear you to a lot of women.
And I have probably broken a rule there by giving profile advice when not asked for. If I go missing - I shall be backc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't said anything bad about anyone in particular unless they've posted negative personal comments so maybe a bit of practicing what you preach would be good also, respect n all that "
No you haven't. But you want a woman to deal with YOUR needs. Nothing about what you can offer them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loncav...didn't mean to offend anyone by any of my comments. Anyone who was offended might well just have a guilty conscience or it wouldn't have bothered them. Wish you all the best x"
Really? Good grief
Happy fabbing |
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Loncav...didn't mean to offend anyone by any of my comments. Anyone who was offended might well just have a guilty conscience or it wouldn't have bothered them. Wish you all the best x"
Oh I have plenty to offer most women I have slept with didn't know they were squirters until having sex with me. Own my own house, have a good job, drive a nice car ... need someone with an open mind and not negativity tho to approach to find this out not , get the cock pics off you ignorant **** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just shows to me how tedious some people can be. I chat to people and try engage them and see what they're about. I most certainly don't judge them by saying " ah she has a vagina as her avatar, that's her gone." Bottom line pal is that you will find it hard Along with alot of others as numbers are completely lobsided "
Indeed it's all group think, these silly rules that have emerged... No cock pics, tight white pants etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here long but just because it's a swingers site doesn't make it any different to "real life". If you're sound, follow respectful social convention and don't give off the air of being a creep, things may just work out. "
You are assuming a lot about the op... Blaming his lack of success on these assumptions rather than simple laws of supply and demand perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here long but just because it's a swingers site doesn't make it any different to "real life". If you're sound, follow respectful social convention and don't give off the air of being a creep, things may just work out.
You are assuming a lot about the op... Blaming his lack of success on these assumptions rather than simple laws of supply and demand perhaps? "
I think his comment was in general and not exactly aimed at the op. It's a very valid and fair comment imo and of all the comments you could have chosen to make your point about prejudging...this wasn't it when there are so many other's worthy of that point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies..."
Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies... Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment."
Had you read his profile or the thread you'd know that he's honest and upright about his needs.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies... Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment.
Had you read his profile or the thread you'd know that he's honest and upright about his needs. "
He might be honest and upright about his needs but did he beg hard enough. |
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies... Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment.
Had you read his profile or the thread you'd know that he's honest and upright about his needs. "
Friend request doghunter... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies... Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment.
Had you read his profile or the thread you'd know that he's honest and upright about his needs. "
I don't see why everyone is jumping down the guys throat about his "needs"
Everyone is here out of self interest to have their needs met
He just had the audacity to spell it out? |
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies... Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment.
Had you read his profile or the thread you'd know that he's honest and upright about his needs.
Exactly don't see what the issue is here, wouldn't have thought there should be too many prudes on a swinger website. Ah well always jobs worths no matter were ya go.
I don't see why everyone is jumping down the guys throat about his "needs"
Everyone is here out of self interest to have their needs met
He just had the audacity to spell it out? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't on it for the past 11 months, thought I'd give it another go but still a load of shite, women who have that much choice and inundated with messages think they can be ignorant to whoever they chose.
Whereas you're not ignorant at all.
P.s good fishing in and around Kingscourt and drumconrath be down that way regular, won't be expecting an invite tho ??"
A lot of sheep in Drumconrath too 
Why don't you update your profile if you've been gone nearly a year. Big difference in age you say you are on it and what age you're details say you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so it seems that the ratio of men to women on here really sucks...help me out ladies... Well how could you be so rude as to ask the ladies to help you out.Did you even tell them how pretty,sexy,intelligent,they all are. Did you promise to jump through hoops for their entertainment.
Had you read his profile or the thread you'd know that he's honest and upright about his needs.
I don't see why everyone is jumping down the guys throat about his "needs"
Everyone is here out of self interest to have their needs met
He just had the audacity to spell it out? "
I totally agree If you want sex just ask for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You seem a very angry young man Stu, let's not forget you started this thread, in an open forum, I might add, and when solicited advice was given to you, you proceeded to jump down people's throats. I shall endeavour to inform you that, I believe, your true personality has shown true on this thread, and in my less than humble opinion you haven't covered yourself in astounding glory my learned friend.
This maybe, as you previously stated, "A swingers site" but swinging isn't just about sex, it is about connecting with like mind people, it is about attractions, it is about exploration, it is about the sharing of ones fantasies and desires and it is about so much more. There is also fabulous social side to the scene too, which to many is the reason they continue to use this and many other sites similar to this around the world.
If "seeing to your needs" is your main concern, maybe an escort site would be a better fit for you. With hotel, travel and socialising costs, you'd probably be quids in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You seem a very angry young man Stu, let's not forget you started this thread, in an open forum, I might add, and when solicited advice was given to you, you proceeded to jump down people's throats. I shall endeavour to inform you that, I believe, your true personality has shown true on this thread, and in my less than humble opinion you haven't covered yourself in astounding glory my learned friend.
This maybe, as you previously stated, "A swingers site" but swinging isn't just about sex, it is about connecting with like mind people, it is about attractions, it is about exploration, it is about the sharing of ones fantasies and desires and it is about so much more. There is also fabulous social side to the scene too, which to many is the reason they continue to use this and many other sites similar to this around the world.
If "seeing to your needs" is your main concern, maybe an escort site would be a better fit for you. With hotel, travel and socialising costs, you'd probably be quids in. "
If everyone told the truth on here im sure most would put their own needs first. But don't expect many would admit to it. |
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"You seem a very angry young man Stu, let's not forget you started this thread, in an open forum, I might add, and when solicited advice was given to you, you proceeded to jump down people's throats. I shall endeavour to inform you that, I believe, your true personality has shown true on this thread, and in my less than humble opinion you haven't covered yourself in astounding glory my learned friend.
This maybe, as you previously stated, "A swingers site" but swinging isn't just about sex, it is about connecting with like mind people, it is about attractions, it is about exploration, it is about the sharing of ones fantasies and desires and it is about so much more. There is also fabulous social side to the scene too, which to many is the reason they continue to use this and many other sites similar to this around the world.
If "seeing to your needs" is your main concern, maybe an escort site would be a better fit for you. With hotel, travel and socialising costs, you'd probably be quids in. "
an escorts site? You pay for prostitutes pal and everything you said there, "it is about connecting with like mind people, it is about attractions, it is about exploration, it is about the sharing of ones fantasies and desires", that's all sex related. Some people loose the run of themselves when others say it's a sex site but it's a site where the majority sign up looking for sex. The mind boggles. The biggest reason as I already stated why alot of men struggle on here is the numbers difference. Hugely lobsided and then the next biggest thing is most women don't see sex as simply as men |
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"You seem a very angry young man Stu, let's not forget you started this thread, in an open forum, I might add, and when solicited advice was given to you, you proceeded to jump down people's throats. I shall endeavour to inform you that, I believe, your true personality has shown true on this thread, and in my less than humble opinion you haven't covered yourself in astounding glory my learned friend.
This maybe, as you previously stated, "A swingers site" but swinging isn't just about sex, it is about connecting with like mind people, it is about attractions, it is about exploration, it is about the sharing of ones fantasies and desires and it is about so much more. There is also fabulous social side to the scene too, which to many is the reason they continue to use this and many other sites similar to this around the world.
If "seeing to your needs" is your main concern, maybe an escort site would be a better fit for you. With hotel, travel and socialising costs, you'd probably be quids in. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be fair, I think the 'see to my needs' comment was tongue in cheek, especially as it was followed by a :p
Stu, this is a swinging site. That means that people socialise as well as fuck, and therefore some people like to see what you look like in normal life as well as in the flesh. There'll be people who'll like what you've got and people who won't. Focus on the ones who do and forget about the rest. And most of all enjoy your time here, it can actually be a lot of fun.
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By *tu3107 OP Man
over a year ago
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"To be fair, I think the 'see to my needs' comment was tongue in cheek, especially as it was followed by a :p
Stu, this is a swinging site. That means that people socialise as well as fuck, and therefore some people like to see what you look like in normal life as well as in the flesh. There'll be people who'll like what you've got and people who won't. Focus on the ones who do and forget about the rest. And most of all enjoy your time here, it can actually be a lot of fun.
Best of luck "
Thanks sally someone with more than half a brain and some positive feedback, there is hope. |
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"To be fair, I think the 'see to my needs' comment was tongue in cheek, especially as it was followed by a :p
Stu, this is a swinging site. That means that people socialise as well as fuck, and therefore some people like to see what you look like in normal life as well as in the flesh. There'll be people who'll like what you've got and people who won't. Focus on the ones who do and forget about the rest. And most of all enjoy your time here, it can actually be a lot of fun.
Best of luck "
Well said and i agree Sally |
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"To be fair, I think the 'see to my needs' comment was tongue in cheek, especially as it was followed by a :p
Stu, this is a swinging site. That means that people socialise as well as fuck, and therefore some people like to see what you look like in normal life as well as in the flesh. There'll be people who'll like what you've got and people who won't. Focus on the ones who do and forget about the rest. And most of all enjoy your time here, it can actually be a lot of fun.
Best of luck "
excellent post but u also have to remember everybody is not here for all sides of swinging, social and other. Some just use it for sex. Each to there own and all that. |
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"To be fair, I think the 'see to my needs' comment was tongue in cheek, especially as it was followed by a :p
Stu, this is a swinging site. That means that people socialise as well as fuck, and therefore some people like to see what you look like in normal life as well as in the flesh. There'll be people who'll like what you've got and people who won't. Focus on the ones who do and forget about the rest. And most of all enjoy your time here, it can actually be a lot of fun.
Best of luck excellent post but u also have to remember everybody is not here for all sides of swinging, social and other. Some just use it for sex. Each to there own and all that. "
Absolutely, each to their own, but I suppose it's in everyone's interest to try to appeal to as many people as possible, especially those who might catch your eye. |
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I'm going to chime in again in defense of the op and against massive witch hunt/white knight love in
Everyone is here to have their needs met... Many ladies are very matter of fact about this... As they should be... but they don't get this kind of "behaviour modification treatment"
I also don't think advising prostitutes is sensible
Regardless of the social element this is not a knitting club, people are here to fuck (for the most part)
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"To be fair, I think the 'see to my needs' comment was tongue in cheek, especially as it was followed by a :p
Stu, this is a swinging site. That means that people socialise as well as fuck, and therefore some people like to see what you look like in normal life as well as in the flesh. There'll be people who'll like what you've got and people who won't. Focus on the ones who do and forget about the rest. And most of all enjoy your time here, it can actually be a lot of fun.
Best of luck "
Well said Sally.
Best piece of thoughtful and honest advice I've read on fab |
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"You seem a very angry young man Stu, let's not forget you started this thread, in an open forum, I might add, and when solicited advice was given to you, you proceeded to jump down people's throats. I shall endeavour to inform you that, I believe, your true personality has shown true on this thread, and in my less than humble opinion you haven't covered yourself in astounding glory my learned friend.
This maybe, as you previously stated, "A swingers site" but swinging isn't just about sex, it is about connecting with like mind people, it is about attractions, it is about exploration, it is about the sharing of ones fantasies and desires and it is about so much more. There is also fabulous social side to the scene too, which to many is the reason they continue to use this and many other sites similar to this around the world.
If "seeing to your needs" is your main concern, maybe an escort site would be a better fit for you. With hotel, travel and socialising costs, you'd probably be quids in. "
It's amazing how one can make such an analysis of another person through reading a couple of posts?
A new career beckons as a fortune teller perhaps?
Love the " I shall endeavour to inform you " piece. very very funny |
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