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over a year ago
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Be honest. Say it and if no attempt or ability to improve. Yes knock it on the head.
Otherwise it's lottery just the fuck. Not enjoyable sex and pleasure.
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"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??
Do you leave ??
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That's really down to how you feel bout the person....if good chemistry and there is potential then I'd give second chance....Some (especially new to site) might be conscious of your expectations and maybe initial pressure gets to them.....I always found sex improved over regular meets......if no potential or real bad let down I'd make the 'early start for work in morning' excuse and get outta there lol |
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I'm afraid everyone has their good n bad days n that's why I hate one nite stands cos they can be horrible r can be brilliant.It's happened to me just to tired .just be nice about it, don't be to bad aboutique it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??
Do you leave ??
Not at all ....series of notes,
direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....
Apples "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Depends what's wrong, you might be able to give him some tips to improve but I'm aware not everything can be be improved just like that.
If you're not stuck for the night, go home with the excuse that you forgot to feed the pussy. If he's a nice lad you might consider to stick it out by talking until he's too tired  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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based on a reply in another forum I'm surprised you are asking this ? at all....surely you attract sex machines who are hung like elephants and go all night???"
Having confidence has nothing to do with attracting sex machines being hung like elephants and going all night.
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??
Do you leave ??
Not at all ....series of notes,
direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....
Apples "
 apples! I almost spat out my dinner laughing, thanks for that!
Just to clarify, she meant I could pass on some advice and not ride the guy myself  Some people are useless at taking advice, I at least try to take any advice on board. We can never say we know everything in life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??
Do you leave ??
Not at all ....series of notes,
direction and encouragement....if no improvement. ..point in the direction of _ilder ....
Apples
apples! I almost spat out my dinner laughing, thanks for that!
Just to clarify, she meant I could pass on some advice and not ride the guy myself Some people are useless at taking advice, I at least try to take any advice on board. We can never say we know everything in life."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??
Do you leave ??
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To not hurt his or her feelings, take charge of the situation and try and make it good.. as long as their is chemistry you should try.
Nerves can set in and spoil it..
If no spark and bad sex, pull the rip cord and adios.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As previously said, judge the situation, there's no straightforward answer.
But above all be polite and don't deliberately hurt him/her. It doesn't work every time even if there was chemistry to start with.
I've been on the receiving end of such situations ie he did a runner when I was expecting a couple more hours fun.. and I was even asked to leave at one meet.. And I can tell you it puts a big dint in your self confidence.
I'd never advocate taking one for the team, but sometimes it can be worth that bit of extra effort.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As previously said, judge the situation, there's no straightforward answer.
But above all be polite and don't deliberately hurt him/her. It doesn't work every time even if there was chemistry to start with.
I've been on the receiving end of such situations ie he did a runner when I was expecting a couple more hours fun.. and I was even asked to leave at one meet.. And I can tell you it puts a big dint in your self confidence.
I'd never advocate taking one for the team, but sometimes it can be worth that bit of extra effort.
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I had a runner once... she drove up opened the car door looked...
Said "oh God no"... shut the car door and drove off...Gone in 6 seconds
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"You Have a meet and the sex is terrible??
Do you leave ??
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I would want you to enjoy the meet, probably more than me, so if not going well for you, a discrete hint/tip, would be no harm at all. No point in leaving, without trying to enjoy, and you would not hurt ones feelings by giving a hint .....  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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It would take a pretty nasty person to get up and leave because the sex wasn't up to scratch IMO
If they are good enough for you too fuck they should be good enough to treat like humans and have a chat instead
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"Did once but not a chap from here,
Promised to look after me all night, an hour late he was asleep so woke him and left 
That wasn't aimed at you x "
Ya I know, it's all good x
Just sharing the experience that's all |
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