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If you took onboard even half of it you'd never meet anyone, there's so many tales flying around in here.
I like to take as I find, despite what I may previously have heard about a person.
I'd like to hope folk treat me the same |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree? "
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think "
No jury duty for you 
Believe none of what you hear...what you hear is an oponions not a fact |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think
No jury duty for you
Believe none of what you hear...what you hear is an oponions not a fact"
I'm well aware of that thank you. |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think
No jury duty for you
Believe none of what you hear...what you hear is an oponions not a fact
I'm well aware of that thank you. "
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think "
if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others? |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?"
Depends on of the bad view comes from hearing gossip or experiencing that somebody first hand. |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?
Depends on of the bad view comes from hearing gossip or experiencing that somebody first hand."
Exactly what I was about to say. |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think "
I agree |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
I'd agree that you should make up your own mind but people always take on board some form of the gossip they've heard.
It'll be "oh isn't that the person who did xyz" in the back of their mind.
I'm guilty of doing it myself at times and I think if people are honest, they do it too. We're all guilty of pre judging people I think if you had a bad view of somebody would you express it to others?
Depends on of the bad view comes from hearing gossip or experiencing that somebody first hand."
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See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ...... |
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"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......"
Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away?? |
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"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......
Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??"
First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind |
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"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......
Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind "
And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you |
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"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......
Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind
And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you"
Yup, if they'll gossip to you, they'll gossip about you. It's a currency used by those who have little of value to say. |
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"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......
Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind
And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you
Yup, if they'll gossip to you, they'll gossip about you. It's a currency used by those who have little of value to say."
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"See also people are friends on here from meet and greets and talk so a potential meet could come into a convo and then the other could say "oh I have had dealings with him, he's an asshole" then that situation gains legs if you get my drift ......
Def...but if you heard something about someone...would you believe it straight away??First thing I'd think, is it true or not but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and make up my own mind
And remember...the way some people speak to you about other fabbers are prob telling those same fabbers about you
Yup, if they'll gossip to you, they'll gossip about you. It's a currency used by those who have little of value to say."
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I say in profile hate drama like a passion... if ya into Drama become an actor/actress .... It is not a case I don't care it's a simple case it's got nothing to do with me  |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree? "
Best to avoid at all costs as stated by a few above
But having dat said there are ones that love to get stuck in
Each to their own, GHT |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm learning to ignore.
Hate drama and stories so I have learned to ignore the stories and find out what a person is like for myself !!!!
But lol I should listen to some people ha I havnt learnt that yet.  |
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Although gossips have their uses, when I was pregnant I knew which one of my colleagues I needed to tell for everyone in the building to find out quickly |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree? "
Once upon a time I cared what people said, now I don't give a shit
I'm sure most men here are smart enough to see through it  |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
Once upon a time I cared what people said, now I don't give a shit
I'm sure most men here are smart enough to see through it "
Unfortunately a lot of them aren't....they think with the smaller of their two heads |
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"Do you listen or do you just ignore? As they say, 3 sides to a story, your side, there side and the truth. Isn't it best in life to make up your own mind on something? Would you agree?
Once upon a time I cared what people said, now I don't give a shit
I'm sure most men here are smart enough to see through it
Unfortunately a lot of them aren't....they think with the smaller of their two heads"
The men I'm interested in meeting are, thankfully. |
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Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.
If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.
Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him
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"Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.
If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.
Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him
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Depends on how they got this information though I guess. If they had first hand experience of him being aggressive, then yes, I'd take heed but if it was only hearsay without a concrete source then I wouldn't pay much attention and make up my own mind about that person. |
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"Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.
If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.
Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him
Depends on how they got this information though I guess. If they had first hand experience of him being aggressive, then yes, I'd take heed but if it was only hearsay without a concrete source then I wouldn't pay much attention and make up my own mind about that person. "
also don't forget having a gripe with somebody could force them to spout rumours that ain't true. |
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"Well I think theres some gossip I'd listen to.
If a couple of different women told me that a certain man was known for being aggressive or a d*unk or whatever, I'd listen - and avoid.
Is that gossip - or a warning? Wheres the line? I doubt I'd take the chance they just had an axe to grind with him
Depends on how they got this information though I guess. If they had first hand experience of him being aggressive, then yes, I'd take heed but if it was only hearsay without a concrete source then I wouldn't pay much attention and make up my own mind about that person. also don't forget having a gripe with somebody could force them to spout rumours that ain't true."
Yep, I siaid that. I'm still pretty sure I wouldn't take the chance tho |
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Rumours are just that rumours on less there's evidence to make the rumour a true story if you don't see it with your own two eyes and hear it with your own two ears it's a rumour |
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