Just out of curiosity what are people's take on this
When a user sends a face pic either voluntary or by your request and you don't fancy them or feel 'na not my cup of tea'
Do you send a face pic back or are you.. well there is not point I don't want to take this any further.
It's not something we have encountered a lot but after seeing in a few profiles 'Will send face pic but expect one back'
Can see both arguments... it's rude not to send one back or well what's the point there isn't an attraction and I don't want a random person having a picture of my face . (obviously can over come this with snapchat or photo bomb on kik...to a certain extent ignoring screen grabs etc)
Just wondering what's the general feeling around this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity what are people's take on this
When a user sends a face pic either voluntary or by your request and you don't fancy them or feel 'na not my cup of tea'
Do you send a face pic back or are you.. well there is not point I don't want to take this any further.
It's not something we have encountered a lot but after seeing in a few profiles 'Will send face pic but expect one back'
Can see both arguments... it's rude not to send one back or well what's the point there isn't an attraction and I don't want a random person having a picture of my face . (obviously can over come this with snapchat or photo bomb on kik...to a certain extent ignoring screen grabs etc)
Just wondering what's the general feeling around this. "
Seems fair to send one back..in my mind whoever asks for the pic should send one first..set to delete pic on the message |
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"What about when they send facepics without you asking, is it rude not to send one back then even though it hadn't been discussed?"
we get a lot of this , guys sending face pics on second message and then asking for one back even before we have asked to see someone.
we prefer to vet them first before sending a face picture |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"What about when they send facepics without you asking, is it rude not to send one back then even though it hadn't been discussed?"
No, if we didnt discuss face pics , and they send us one , we wouldnt send one back unless we clicked with them and have been chatting for awhile and the next step is arranging a meet 
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No, if we didnt discuss face pics , and they send us one , we wouldnt send one back unless we clicked with them and have been chatting for awhile and the next step is arranging a meet
Mrs crazy "
ya that's pretty much what we do too, great minds .... |
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"Just out of curiosity what are people's take on this
When a user sends a face pic either voluntary or by your request and you don't fancy them or feel 'na not my cup of tea'
Do you send a face pic back or are you.. well there is not point I don't want to take this any further.
It's not something we have encountered a lot but after seeing in a few profiles 'Will send face pic but expect one back'
Can see both arguments... it's rude not to send one back or well what's the point there isn't an attraction and I don't want a random person having a picture of my face . (obviously can over come this with snapchat or photo bomb on kik...to a certain extent ignoring screen grabs etc)
Just wondering what's the general feeling around this. "
I always send a cock picture with first message.It always works for me. |
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No, if we didnt discuss face pics , and they send us one , we wouldnt send one back unless we clicked with them and have been chatting for awhile and the next step is arranging a meet
Mrs crazy
ya that's pretty much what we do too, great minds .... "
We feel the same way. It's definitely an ankward one |
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Id say if they sent you one unsolicited then you're under no obligation to send one. But if you ask for theirs then its only fair to send one back.
Whats wierd is seeing unverified girls asking for a face pic in their profiles. Like no chance am I sending a face pic to some randomer who could be Enda Kenny for all I know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suppose I send a face pic the odd time to let people know I'm real.
Not really looking for 1 straight back.
But it is nice ( after a while) to see who you've been speaking with.
But I don't think by sending a face pic unsolicited - you should expect 1 straight back. |
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"Just out of curiosity what are people's take on this
When a user sends a face pic either voluntary or by your request and you don't fancy them or feel 'na not my cup of tea'
Do you send a face pic back or are you.. well there is not point I don't want to take this any further.
It's not something we have encountered a lot but after seeing in a few profiles 'Will send face pic but expect one back'
Can see both arguments... it's rude not to send one back or well what's the point there isn't an attraction and I don't want a random person having a picture of my face . (obviously can over come this with snapchat or photo bomb on kik...to a certain extent ignoring screen grabs etc)
Just wondering what's the general feeling around this. "
Your here to suit your needs and to do what floats your boat. If your not attracted just tell and move on. You don't need to send one back |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
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I send with the delete on opening option when I am introducing myself, as I have pics set to friends only. I couldn't have all the women on here clogging up my inbox if they all got a look at me ha ha |
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over a year ago
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Unless it's agreed you shouldn't feel obliged to send one back. I notice on face pic Friday's people say they are in yet pick who they send pics back to which is deceiving in my opinion. Why say they are in when they aren't |
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