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Are meets hard to get?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi relatively new single male to the site and was wondering how people fare on the meeting scene and if your up for sharing how long did it take to find your first meet  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately OP, for a single 20 year old unverified male - they probably will be"
Only one way to get verified and thats someone willing to take risk so meet first until then how can people expect me to be verified.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately OP, for a single 20 year old unverified male - they probably will be
Only one way to get verified and thats someone willing to take risk so meet first until then how can people expect me to be verified.
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Try and see if someone will meet you just for a coffee or a drink. This can be someone of any sex. A veri is just to say you are real and turned up when you said. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately OP, for a single 20 year old unverified male - they probably will be
Only one way to get verified and thats someone willing to take risk so meet first until then how can people expect me to be verified.
Try and see if someone will meet you just for a coffee or a drink. This can be someone of any sex. A veri is just to say you are real and turned up when you said."
What other ways can i get verified? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately OP, for a single 20 year old unverified male - they probably will be
Only one way to get verified and thats someone willing to take risk so meet first until then how can people expect me to be verified.
Try and see if someone will meet you just for a coffee or a drink. This can be someone of any sex. A veri is just to say you are real and turned up when you said.
What other ways can i get verified?"
By cam and by site pic verification. I'm not sure anyone takes any notice of those tho |
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How long is a piece of string ?
Op it can take 5 mins or it can take 5 months
You get what you put into it that's my take on it , the forums is a good place to mix I'm sure you'll be most welcome there , you'll be treated like a new born baby here nursed & cuddled until your fit to walk ,
OK I'm being funny I'll stop
Think it took me a few months if I remember sometimes it's hard to put round posts in square holes but you'll get there, have fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if.its still open or even exists, heard of a place called I Kandi in limerick. Sure I've see it mentioned on here, a swingers club.
Not sure about rules and age limits etc but it could be a good place to meet people in a safe environment and get verified if they are on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if.its still open or even exists, heard of a place called I Kandi in limerick. Sure I've see it mentioned on here, a swingers club.
Not sure about rules and age limits etc but it could be a good place to meet people in a safe environment and get verified if they are on fab"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any opny from kildare
I know a Smith
Don't know any opny's
Haha you're quick tonight Yoss!
You ever pass any on your travels foo? "
Not opnys no, but there's a few ponies where I work! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long is a piece of string ?
Op it can take 5 mins or it can take 5 months
You get what you put into it that's my take on it , the forums is a good place to mix I'm sure you'll be most welcome there , you'll be treated like a new born baby here nursed & cuddled until your fit to walk ,
OK I'm being funny I'll stop
Think it took me a few months if I remember sometimes it's hard to put round posts in square holes but you'll get there, have fun
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Thats the thing man im putting alot of effort in im chatting and getting involved but no luck yet at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure if.its still open or even exists, heard of a place called I Kandi in limerick. Sure I've see it mentioned on here, a swingers club.
Not sure about rules and age limits etc but it could be a good place to meet people in a safe environment and get verified if they are on fab"
Ok thanks |
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We have been to I kandi a few times,it was a Saturday night and it was an organised swinging party there were lots of couples there and quite a few single men, we heard later that during the week it's mostly gay men that frequent the place, now the facilities are just brilliant we had a brilliant time the both times we were there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try asking about attending 'The Venue',
That might be a start 
What you mean?
I think he'd need to be veri'd for there
What is this "venue"?"
Its a club. Keep an eye on the forums for when the organisers post a night |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try asking about attending 'The Venue',
That might be a start
What you mean?
I think he'd need to be veri'd for there
What is this "venue"?
Its a club. Keep an eye on the forums for when the organisers post a night"
Ok great thanks |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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A cam veri only lets people know you are a bloke but most would assume you are a bloke anyway so its a bit useless.
Even some of the girls and couples in here are really blokes. We have loads of blokes...
You could start with a picture veri. That takes minutes to sort. You will have to put in the time and effort to get a meet. |
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Its difficult for everyone on here to get what they want... We generally prefer cpls but don't get much response. We'll get several male replies, normally select the wrong one verified or not. On occasion he won't turn up or when he does can't deliver.
However when it all goes to plan we've had some great meets... Hang in there. Get involved in chat and forums. Have something interesting to say to stand out from the crowd. |
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It's not easy, but the rewards are worth the hard work! She meets guys often and we get a bunch of messages every day with a cock pic and wanna meet? We don't mind a little chatting but can't spend all day at it and guys always seem to want to turn it into a sex chat. Read profiles and take it slow, be willing to show a face pic too always helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not easy, but the rewards are worth the hard work! She meets guys often and we get a bunch of messages every day with a cock pic and wanna meet? We don't mind a little chatting but can't spend all day at it and guys always seem to want to turn it into a sex chat. Read profiles and take it slow, be willing to show a face pic too always helps."
Ok thanks you and yes i am willing to show face pics i have before. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its difficult for everyone on here to get what they want... We generally prefer cpls but don't get much response. We'll get several male replies, normally select the wrong one verified or not. On occasion he won't turn up or when he does can't deliver.
However when it all goes to plan we've had some great meets... Hang in there. Get involved in chat and forums. Have something interesting to say to stand out from the crowd."
Ok thank you and i understand yes there are alot of timewasters here but i assure you guys im not one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How long is a piece of string ?
Op it can take 5 mins or it can take 5 months
You get what you put into it that's my take on it , the forums is a good place to mix I'm sure you'll be most welcome there , you'll be treated like a new born baby here nursed & cuddled until your fit to walk ,
OK I'm being funny I'll stop
Think it took me a few months if I remember sometimes it's hard to put round posts in square holes but you'll get there, have fun
Thats the thing man im putting alot of effort in im chatting and getting involved but no luck yet at all"
You're here 6 weeks..... it can take a lot of time for people to even consider meeting someone as new, time and effort yes, but the amount of people coming and going here is unreal, hang in there, keep an eye out for the socials as they are great for meeting lots and getting verified as genuine... As am sure you'll find out, if you put the effort in, it takes time & patience to see any results on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How long is a piece of string ?
Op it can take 5 mins or it can take 5 months
You get what you put into it that's my take on it , the forums is a good place to mix I'm sure you'll be most welcome there , you'll be treated like a new born baby here nursed & cuddled until your fit to walk ,
OK I'm being funny I'll stop
Think it took me a few months if I remember sometimes it's hard to put round posts in square holes but you'll get there, have fun
Thats the thing man im putting alot of effort in im chatting and getting involved but no luck yet at all
You're here 6 weeks..... it can take a lot of time for people to even consider meeting someone as new, time and effort yes, but the amount of people coming and going here is unreal, hang in there, keep an eye out for the socials as they are great for meeting lots and getting verified as genuine... As am sure you'll find out, if you put the effort in, it takes time & patience to see any results on here "
Thank you and yes i am willing to put in the time and effort. |
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