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Hypothetical situation: a woman realises she's bi (or at the very least curious) and decides to explore her sexuality. She's attracted to women but has never been with one.
Would bi women find it a turn on being someone's first? Or could you be bothered showing someone the ropes?
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo 
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not"
Not trying to turn anyone 
It's just based on a conversation I had with someone recently. |
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not"
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion |
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My first experience was with a couple, and the lady just let me enjoy what she was doing without obligation to reciprocate, which was great as I still wasn't sure. My second was with another couple, and this time she played the role I had on my first time. My third time was with a fabulous lady who had a very willing and quick learner in me, and it was awesome.
I don't think the level of experience counts as much as the mutual attraction and the mutual desire to please each other. It kind of happens naturally when you've got those two things. |
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion"
Only my own |
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There is always the risk that a lady who is bi- curious may not enjoy the experience with another woman. Therefore to be someone's first carries the possibility of rejection as opposed to non- reciprocation....loving the thought of it is completely different to loving the action |
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I have found it's probably best to learning the same way as you did with a man, how to pleasure etc all women are different as are men so no quick learning process |
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"Every bi-curious person has to start somewhere. Boobs are a good place to begin  
lol welcome to practice on mine if I can on yours
I'm a virgin
I'll enjoy corrupting you so 
Getting slightly aroused by this foreplay...  "
Here Geordie, pull up a chair and I'll share my popcorn. |
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I took a woman's lesbian virginity. I wouldnt say its a turn on, i appreciated the fact that she trusted me enough to be her first. I guess i was flattered  |
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I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more |
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Hello Dahling
Two opinions for the price of one. Agree with all of the above brilliant comments but just wanted to add if there is serious attraction and chemistry...the nerves disappear and the natural moves follow.
My bi virginity was given to a beautiful older woman in London 25 years ago but was a beautiful experience that I will always be grateful for. I hope this works out for your friend John
Madame B |
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"I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more "
Was just thinking that if I reach out my tongue on hot pics I could just about get those nipples . Sorry I'm in a very horny humour today red |
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"I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more
Was just thinking that if I reach out my tongue on hot pics I could just about get those nipples . Sorry I'm in a very horny humour today red "
Oooh Miss C. I just had a look at how our pics are positioned..ha ha. Getting me a wee bit hot Miss C in the red, my fav colour..stunning as always |
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"I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more
Was just thinking that if I reach out my tongue on hot pics I could just about get those nipples . Sorry I'm in a very horny humour today red
Oooh Miss C. I just had a look at how our pics are positioned..ha ha. Getting me a wee bit hot Miss C in the red, my fav colour..stunning as always "
Likewise some room though 2 fiery red heads a blonde and a brunette |
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"I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more
Was just thinking that if I reach out my tongue on hot pics I could just about get those nipples . Sorry I'm in a very horny humour today red
Oooh Miss C. I just had a look at how our pics are positioned..ha ha. Getting me a wee bit hot Miss C in the red, my fav colour..stunning as always
Likewise some room though 2 fiery red heads a blonde and a brunette "
Any room for the Hunnitoes saucy girls? |
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"I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more
Was just thinking that if I reach out my tongue on hot pics I could just about get those nipples . Sorry I'm in a very horny humour today red
Oooh Miss C. I just had a look at how our pics are positioned..ha ha. Getting me a wee bit hot Miss C in the red, my fav colour..stunning as always
Likewise some room though 2 fiery red heads a blonde and a brunette
Any room for the Hunnitoes saucy girls? "
Of course sexy lady |
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"I was bi curious once and a very sexy lady showed me the ropes and I haven't looked back. And have no qualms about joining any sexy lady who wants to explore. Never had any lady who didn't reciprocate
Btw enjoying the lady flirting...room for one more
Was just thinking that if I reach out my tongue on hot pics I could just about get those nipples . Sorry I'm in a very horny humour today red
Oooh Miss C. I just had a look at how our pics are positioned..ha ha. Getting me a wee bit hot Miss C in the red, my fav colour..stunning as always
Likewise some room though 2 fiery red heads a blonde and a brunette
Any room for the Hunnitoes saucy girls?
Of course sexy lady "
Ooo! ( steps in and wiggles her toes ) |
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"Hypothetical situation: a woman realises she's bi (or at the very least curious) and decides to explore her sexuality. She's attracted to women but has never been with one.
Would bi women find it a turn on being someone's first? Or could you be bothered showing someone the ropes? Mmmm who wouldnt
Interested in hearing opinions..... "
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion"
This is what puts me off trying it seriously. |
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion
This is what puts me off trying it seriously. "
I think in all honesty if there's an attraction it happens naturally and as for inexperience who better to have an idea where to explore than another women. I've been extremely lucky any lady I've every played with didn't mind being asked was I hitting the right spots or if was rough etc all communication like with a male |
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I dont have huge experience but.. I wouldn't care if girl have it or not if we both like each other just go for it! And shyness wouldn't be turn off for me because if girl really wanna do it she will come out of shyness at some point! Me shy can make if in room is person what I dont fancy.. For me personally turn off is girls who faking what they want as they do it just to put show for fella or to be cool on site... |
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion
This is what puts me off trying it seriously. "
There's no pressure to try it. If you like the boys stick with them. It's ok to be straight. |
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion
This is what puts me off trying it seriously.
There's no pressure to try it. If you like the boys stick with them. It's ok to be straight. "
Umm I didn't say I felt any pressure I wanted to try it because occasionally I'm attracted to women. And I don't like boys, I like men |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion
This is what puts me off trying it seriously.
There's no pressure to try it. If you like the boys stick with them. It's ok to be straight.
Umm I didn't say I felt any pressure I wanted to try it because occasionally I'm attracted to women. And I don't like boys, I like men "
Haha fair point, the last one!  |
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion
This is what puts me off trying it seriously.
There's no pressure to try it. If you like the boys stick with them. It's ok to be straight.
Umm I didn't say I felt any pressure I wanted to try it because occasionally I'm attracted to women. And I don't like boys, I like men
Haha fair point, the last one! "
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If the woman is actually bi and we are both attracted to each other then it wouldn't bother me if it's her first time because if there's chemistry there it wont matter, but if she is doing it for the guys sake then it's usually very obvious and a huge turn off for me. |
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"If the woman is actually bi and we are both attracted to each other then it wouldn't bother me if it's her first time because if there's chemistry there it wont matter, but if she is doing it for the guys sake then it's usually very obvious and a huge turn off for me."
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"Who you trying to turn Mingo
I've had a few firsts - being with any woman is a turn on for me, doesn't matter if she's a bivirgin or not
Geordie, have you ever found that someone's shyness, or inexperience has maybe been a bit of a let down when it came to the bedroom. I know I have had that on occasion
This is what puts me off trying it seriously.
I think in all honesty if there's an attraction it happens naturally and as for inexperience who better to have an idea where to explore than another women. I've been extremely lucky any lady I've every played with didn't mind being asked was I hitting the right spots or if was rough etc all communication like with a male "
MissCar, I actually withdraw my previous post and bow down to your infinite wisdom. I think the main things is definitively the attraction and desire, lust whatever. I was speaking from early experiences with other men and sometimes lust can get in the way of attraction and is much less fulfilling. Please Don't judge me.  |
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