"It's more am I to young or ugly to get anything of fab lol I just want people's honest opinions "
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"It's more am I to young or ugly to get anything of fab lol I just want people's honest opinions
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Too young, too old are all excuses. As long as you have an ounce of charisma, a mischievous glint in your eye and are up for the craic, there's no limit to the amount of Fab fun awaiting you here. Enjoy yourself big man! (Ditch the cock pics though mate) "
These aren't excuses - they are reasons |
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Right buttercup. Firstly you need to button your man suit up. Secondly as a single male on here you have to graft and I mean graft. Meets are not going to fall into your lap. Thirdly be polite and honest. |
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"It's more am I to young or ugly to get anything of fab lol I just want people's honest opinions
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Too young, too old are all excuses. As long as you have an ounce of charisma, a mischievous glint in your eye and are up for the craic, there's no limit to the amount of Fab fun awaiting you here. Enjoy yourself big man! (Ditch the cock pics though mate)
These aren't excuses - they are reasons"
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"A few words of encouragement can set someone up for life" The guy puts up a thread to better himself on Fab. He may be too young FOR YOU, but you're not every woman.Any chance of some positive support for the guy? |
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"Right buttercup. Firstly you need to button your man suit up. Secondly as a single male on here you have to graft and I mean graft. Meets are not going to fall into your lap. Thirdly be polite and honest. "
I'm not looking them to fall on my lap just replys even rude ones wouldn't go a miss lol and I'm always honest and polite it's the way I was raised to be but from what I see from people's posts it's hard atm for single girls or guys to get meets as most members are couples and want only couples |
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Hi some of what is said above is true it's going to be hard graft, remember this is just an online site people are cautious, some people hide behind a profile and like to troll but don't take any of it personally.
It's been said a million times before on here try and get to a meet and greet and don't focus on what you believe are your own perceived negatives as you could be someone's dream catch.
Being positive and upbeat is an attractive trait both in men and women, keep the chin up and use your energy and time on here positively and something will click |
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"It's more am I to young or ugly to get anything of fab lol I just want people's honest opinions
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Too young, too old are all excuses. As long as you have an ounce of charisma, a mischievous glint in your eye and are up for the craic, there's no limit to the amount of Fab fun awaiting you here. Enjoy yourself big man! (Ditch the cock pics though mate)
These aren't excuses - they are reasons
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"A few words of encouragement can set someone up for life" The guy puts up a thread to better himself on Fab. He may be too young FOR YOU, but you're not every woman.Any chance of some positive support for the guy?"
My comment was to YOU not the OP.
'Too young, too old are all excuses'
That's what you wrote. Women here don't use someones age as an excuse not to meet - it's a reason. There's a difference.
And I do wish him well. Why wouldn't I? |
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On fab you need to be a little bit different. There are always going to be guys who look better, fuck better, have longer cocks, or more charm or more wit. This is a fact of fab life. Women are rare. They are in demand. They have the leverage.
There are millions of cock pics on here. Thousands of bums. You are just another blade of grass in a massive field.
How can you be different? What is rare on fab?
Personality. Respect. Emotional maturity. Most women desire these traits in a man. It's more important than a cock pic. The ability to carry on a conversation goes a long way too.
Be honest in what you are looking for on your profile. It's a big turn off to find out someone lied to you.
Don't be a pest. Respect her decision like you would expect her to respect yours.
And most importantly. Become more than a profile. Become part of the community. Go to socials or parties or events. Don't go to get laid. Go to make friends. If you are a decent bloke you will make connections. Forget about sex. That is just a natural by-product of hanging out with swingers. It will happen in its own time. Just become part of the community.
You probably won't follow any of the advice I gave because no one follows the advice they are given, usually because it is harder than what you are doing currently. |
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"On fab you need to be a little bit different. There are always going to be guys who look better, fuck better, have longer cocks, or more charm or more wit. This is a fact of fab life. Women are rare. They are in demand. They have the leverage.
There are millions of cock pics on here. Thousands of bums. You are just another blade of grass in a massive field.
How can you be different? What is rare on fab?
Personality. Respect. Emotional maturity. Most women desire these traits in a man. It's more important than a cock pic. The ability to carry on a conversation goes a long way too.
Be honest in what you are looking for on your profile. It's a big turn off to find out someone lied to you.
Don't be a pest. Respect her decision like you would expect her to respect yours.
And most importantly. Become more than a profile. Become part of the community. Go to socials or parties or events. Don't go to get laid. Go to make friends. If you are a decent bloke you will make connections. Forget about sex. That is just a natural by-product of hanging out with swingers. It will happen in its own time. Just become part of the community.
You probably won't follow any of the advice I gave because no one follows the advice they are given, usually because it is harder than what you are doing currently. "
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"It's more am I to young or ugly to get anything of fab lol I just want people's honest opinions
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Too young, too old are all excuses. As long as you have an ounce of charisma, a mischievous glint in your eye and are up for the craic, there's no limit to the amount of Fab fun awaiting you here. Enjoy yourself big man! (Ditch the cock pics though mate)
These aren't excuses - they are reasons
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"A few words of encouragement can set someone up for life" The guy puts up a thread to better himself on Fab. He may be too young FOR YOU, but you're not every woman.Any chance of some positive support for the guy?
My comment was to YOU not the OP.
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'Too young, too old are all excuses'
That's what you wrote. Women here don't use someones age as an excuse not to meet - it's a reason. There's a difference.
And I do wish him well. Why wouldn't I?"
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I was giving him advice, dear. It was not a statement about women.
He asked the question "Am I too young..." to which I replied that he was giving HIMSELF EXCUSES that might be writing himself off from even asking women out from the site. Subtle hints like "you" "your" "you" "yourself" and "big man" that I wrote in my original message might clarify that a bit more for you 
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