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Elegant Play Party, Jan 21st, now taking bookings! :)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello All!!
So, after much consideration and deliberation, myself and Dublincouple80 are pleased to announce the First Inaugural Elegant Ecstasy Play Party Event!!!
To take place in a decadent South Dublin location on Saturday the 21st of January.
5 bedrooms, 2 designated playrooms, dance floor, bar, 3 bathrooms and ample parking!
There will be (discrete) security and a bar lady present as well as an open bar.
The goal here is pure pleasure and self indulgence in an opulent hedonistic setting. As such we will ask for a modest contribution towards the cost, which is considerable! See below for a breakdown of costs....
If you are interested in attending please be aware that we are unfortunately limited to 20 people and we envisage the numbers breaking down as follows;
2 couples who wish to overnight at the residence, you'll have your own room to do with as you please as well as access to the playrooms etc.
Cost: €100.
5 couples to attend only
Cost: €60 per couple
4 single ladies to attend only
Cost: €25 per lady
2 'Exceptional' single males to attend only
Cost: €90 per guy... (Sorry lads but that's a damn bargin!)
This is strictly a non-profit-making event and as such will actually be run on a small loss. We merely ask for a small contribution to what we hope will be an amazing evening!!
Dress code; evening or smart wear.... dresses and suits please!
Please keep in mind there's already been a great deal of considerable interest and it's already proving difficult to keep in mind everyone who has mailed so if you wish to be considered please, when contacting, include a face pic, it expedites the whole process!
Once we've tallied our numbers invites will be issued!!!!
Thanks for all the interest so far and bearing with us as located the perfect venue!!
Hope to hear from you all soon!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck "
no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying "
I've seen higher charges 
But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?
Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?
That said why is anyone charged more?
Sorry for the hijack
Best of luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying
I've seen higher charges
But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?
Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?
That said why is anyone charged more?
Sorry for the hijack
Best of luck OP "
I've never understood why anyone is charged more either (not just for this party).
I guess single women are asked for less to lure the men in. Thats probably ok for clubs - not sure about for private parties.
Hope you all have a great night tho. It sounds wonderful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like the perfect way to beat those January blues.
I'm sure it will be a great night and a great success. It's most definitely picked my interest.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gentlemen.
Lads are charged more quite simply because for every 300 of us there is one lady.
Supply and demand is key here. Our original intention was to have no single men attend. And we'd still have had an amazing night.
Instead we've opted to invite some lucky guys..... and as such it would be nice (since you're not bringing a partner) if you contributed in a monetary fashion.
I've been to clubs in Milan, Colombia, Vegas and Amsterdam and it's been the same. Single dudes pay more. And I've always accepted that.
The price is of course lower for single fems because they're unicorns!!! And highly prized!!!
This is Swing101. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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I wish ye the best of luck with the party.
I'd not attend a party that asks for ninety euro myself. Especially when couples are sixty. To me that reads as a Thirty euro penalty for not having a lady to bring. There is an element of shooting fish in the barrel to it, despite the fact that it might result in the wrong 'fish' being shot (if you understand the analogy).
I'm sure other events charge massive fees for single lads (clubs abroad etc) but I don't attend those either as I consider such ideas disrespectful. Anyway not everyone views the world as I do so I'm sure ye will get your crowd.
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Wilder....
That's exactly what it is!
Grab yourself a partner and come right along for 60 if you so wish.
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Knowing that another single guy was there and paying considerably more then me make that not an option I'd be configurable with. As I said not everyone views the world that way, it's just me and one my principals. But I wish you well with the evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't be able to make those dates, and I'm afraid I might be stealing some of your party goers too. Some friends I've made on here, are coming over to visit, and to sample some of the delights that some of libertine clubs on the Côte D'Azur have to offer
Best of luck with your night, I'm sure it will be a great success and hopefully I'll be able to make the next one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying
I've seen higher charges
But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?
Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?
That said why is anyone charged more?
Sorry for the hijack
Best of luck OP "
ehhh ok il explain in past partys I have hosted in the uk and France there was always more and more guys looking for an invite compare too single ladys and couples the higher the price for the male the less guys that would message looking for an invite that's just my past experience.. This is also the reason for my past events and private play partys was too higher the cost for single males too reduce the unwanted mails and of course the no shows from single men I can only speak from my experience and in guessing it's the same for this party... Best of luck with the party guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gentlemen.
Lads are charged more quite simply because for every 300 of us there is one lady.
Supply and demand is key here. Our original intention was to have no single men attend. And we'd still have had an amazing night.
Instead we've opted to invite some lucky guys..... and as such it would be nice (since you're not bringing a partner) if you contributed in a monetary fashion.
I've been to clubs in Milan, Colombia, Vegas and Amsterdam and it's been the same. Single dudes pay more. And I've always accepted that.
The price is of course lower for single fems because they're unicorns!!! And highly prized!!!
This is Swing101."
exactly well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying
I've seen higher charges
But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?
Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?
That said why is anyone charged more?
Sorry for the hijack
Best of luck OP ehhh ok il explain in past partys I have hosted in the uk and France there was always more and more guys looking for an invite compare too single ladys and couples the higher the price for the male the less guys that would message looking for an invite that's just my past experience.. This is also the reason for my past events and private play partys was too higher the cost for single males too reduce the unwanted mails and of course the no shows from single men I can only speak from my experience and in guessing it's the same for this party... Best of luck with the party guys "
So basically you are looking for guys with money in their pockets?? 
So potentially the ultimate guy on fab is excluded cause he's a bit strapped for a few quid...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish ye the best of luck with the party.
I'd not attend a party that asks for ninety euro myself. Especially when couples are sixty. To me that reads as a Thirty euro penalty for not having a lady to bring. There is an element of shooting fish in the barrel to it, despite the fact that it might result in the wrong 'fish' being shot (if you understand the analogy).
I'm sure other events charge massive fees for single lads (clubs abroad etc) but I don't attend those either as I consider such ideas disrespectful. Anyway not everyone views the world as I do so I'm sure ye will get your crowd.
Happy swinging "
Agree with you _ilder
I prefer to see a price per head - equality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish ye the best of luck with the party.
I'd not attend a party that asks for ninety euro myself. Especially when couples are sixty. To me that reads as a Thirty euro penalty for not having a lady to bring. There is an element of shooting fish in the barrel to it, despite the fact that it might result in the wrong 'fish' being shot (if you understand the analogy).
I'm sure other events charge massive fees for single lads (clubs abroad etc) but I don't attend those either as I consider such ideas disrespectful. Anyway not everyone views the world as I do so I'm sure ye will get your crowd.
Happy swinging
Agree with you _ilder
I prefer to see a price per head - equality"
A price per blow job? That could get expensive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Le sigh.....
Most parties exclude single guys outright... having been that solider I thought it would be nice to present an option or two....
But if everyone is that offended by the notion that they be asked to contribute a little more then we can simply scrub the option altogether.
And Yosser... I doubt the ultimate guy on Fab would be moaning about paying 90 to attend a gig like this.
But sure I've been wrong before. So I will bow to the offended masses and leave the single male option out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish ye the best of luck with the party.
I'd not attend a party that asks for ninety euro myself. Especially when couples are sixty. To me that reads as a Thirty euro penalty for not having a lady to bring. There is an element of shooting fish in the barrel to it, despite the fact that it might result in the wrong 'fish' being shot (if you understand the analogy).
I'm sure other events charge massive fees for single lads (clubs abroad etc) but I don't attend those either as I consider such ideas disrespectful. Anyway not everyone views the world as I do so I'm sure ye will get your crowd.
Happy swinging
Agree with you _ilder
I prefer to see a price per head - equality"
I'm inclined to agree too...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is strictly a non-profit-making event and as such will actually be run on a small loss. We merely ask for a small contribution to what we hope will be an amazing evening!!
5 couples = €300
4 single girls= €100
2 guys = €180
In total that's €580....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amalthea....
Yes we can all count.
Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?"
I'd always envisaged a mansion having a lot more than 5 bedrooms |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A large house so!!!
Look folks if you don't wanna go... don't go!!
There's no sinister motive here...
We've put quite a bit of work into this and it will cost a large amount. As I've said we're merely asking people to contribute....
If you're not interested that's OK! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amalthea....
Yes we can all count.
Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?
I'd always envisaged a mansion having a lot more than 5 bedrooms"
Gosh....
I live in a mansion!!!!
Whouooooo.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Le sigh.....
Most parties exclude single guys outright... having been that solider I thought it would be nice to present an option or two....
But if everyone is that offended by the notion that they be asked to contribute a little more then we can simply scrub the option altogether.
And Yosser... I doubt the ultimate guy on Fab would be moaning about paying 90 to attend a gig like this.
But sure I've been wrong before. So I will bow to the offended masses and leave the single male option out.
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My comment was directed at another poster OP.
But seeing as you directed your post to me .. I find it peculiar that people use a higher charge as a filter for guys, it seems a bit tilted to me. What does it achieve?
Why not use height and hair colour? It's basically the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why exactly to do you need private security? That gives the impression that either the venue isn't that private or that the people attending haven't been very well screened. For a single male to attend does he only need €90 and decent a good looking face? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amalthea....
Yes we can all count.
Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?"
Yes actually I do...
I have had the odd party or two...
And I apologise if I appeared negative however I've seen too many creeps get into venues merely because they had the monies to go, I'd prefer if it was a meeting process where's the two guys would be recommended by the people going and charge them the same fee as everyone else!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single male option is now defunct!
So don't worry about that eh?!
Private security simply because it can be done... doesn't require myself or other hosts to be glued to the front door. Or checking our phones constantly.
There'll be a guest list. Those who are not on it... don't get in.
That's why.
Dear Lord!
I'm sorry for offending so many people! :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A large house so!!!
Look folks if you don't wanna go... don't go!!
There's no sinister motive here...
We've put quite a bit of work into this and it will cost a large amount. As I've said we're merely asking people to contribute....
If you're not interested that's OK! "
they would moan about anything and like what you said the genuine fab guy wouldn't have an issue in giving 90 euro for what is going too be great night by the sounds of it and I do hope you all have a great night some folks just don't understand the money that's involved in hosting a party especially in a private 5 bed house and security and an open bar anyway I'm leaving this thread too many cry babies on it have a good one mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Amalthea...
I've been on this scene for many a summer.
I'm not gonna let any Tom, Dick or Harry waltz in because he has the funds.
Verifications and social circles are wonderful things and in fact I already had a gentleman (and he is that) well verified and whom I have met personally lined up for one of those spots.
I've dealt with the creeps too in my time. Both male and female.
This is not my first rodeo.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Amalthea...
I've been on this scene for many a summer.
I'm not gonna let any Tom, Dick or Harry waltz in because he has the funds.
Verifications and social circles are wonderful things and in fact I already had a gentleman (and he is that) well verified and whom I have met personally lined up for one of those spots.
I've dealt with the creeps too in my time. Both male and female.
This is not my first rodeo.
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Just because you think he's a nice guy the others may not want to play with him...
I know lots of well verified "ladies" and no guarantee you'd want to play with them at a party...
Enjoy your as you put it rodeo...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I actually met him at a play party.... so am fairly certain of his ability to appeal to women.
For a lady who doesn't wish to be negative you seem to be very... well... negative! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amalthea...
I've been on this scene for many a summer.
I'm not gonna let any Tom, Dick or Harry waltz in because he has the funds.
Verifications and social circles are wonderful things and in fact I already had a gentleman (and he is that) well verified and whom I have met personally lined up for one of those spots.
I've dealt with the creeps too in my time. Both male and female.
This is not my first rodeo.
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We've never met
I knew organising a party is no easy task but Jay-sus, some people sure know how to make it even harder.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually met him at a play party.... so am fairly certain of his ability to appeal to women.
For a lady who doesn't wish to be negative you seem to be very... well... negative! "
I'm just pointing out all the complaints and negativity at having a small gathering as yours...
It's not negative it's just my personal experiences...
Enjoy your party... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish you all the best with the party, I'm sure you and your guests will have a night to remember and fair play for organising.
I can see the points for both sides on the charging issue - but at the same time, your party = your rules so best of luck and it's great to see new things being organised |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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S'true....
And I think you'll find at these events it's the male who are the lady's dancing monkeys! :D
The women rule the roost I'm afraid.
Probably to do with their superior numbers!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very pricey for single guys , ? Wish u d best of luck no it's not I'd happily pay 90 euro for a party like this... And too be honest I think it's really cheap considering the amount of guys that are most likely messaging them for an invite compare that too couples and females just saying
I've seen higher charges
But I'm not sure what it has to do with the amount of guys messaging?
Bar acting as a filter and actually reducing the number of guys mailing?
That said why is anyone charged more?
Sorry for the hijack
Best of luck OP
I've never understood why anyone is charged more either (not just for this party).
I guess single women are asked for less to lure the men in. Thats probably ok for clubs - not sure about for private parties.
Hope you all have a great night tho. It sounds wonderful "
Single women arent charged less to lure men in. Men would be lures in by a piece of mouldy cheese ffs. Single women are charged less cos theyre far less plentiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks Willy Mc!
I dig your name brother!
:D"
90 eur including an open bar in nice surroundings? Cant see what all the moaning is about frankly. Youd drop that in temple bar on a night out in the blink of an eye |
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We have read this thread an seen a lot of positive and negative posts??
We would like to congratulate the organizers for the time and effort they have put in for this event and we as fabbers should embrace such efforts in trying to present something new to the Irish forum
We must remember the guests who are attending this event it's a chance for them to kickback and enjoy what the lifestyle is all about!!
We should also remember the host's throwing an event can be a stressful endeavor making sure it all comes together for people who are attending and most importantly making sure they enjoy the evening
That being said we hope the night is a great success for the host's and guests enjoy and Happy Fabbing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is a great idea and well worth the money, which is quite reasonable. I've been to parties and clubs in Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Brusssels and Manchester etc and am used to the scene. I'm definitely interested if a slot is available. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are all the single lady spots taken if so where in we'll do the over night "
Hey guys... unfortunately as a single male I can't message you but if you're interested in attending drop me a message! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd always envisaged a mansion having a lot more than 5 bedrooms"
Me too. I mean we own a 5 bedroom house. It's a large house by any standards but it's no mansion.
It's hosted quite a few cracking parties all the same.
This party sounds good. As for the price, well you get what you pay for I'd imagine. |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks Willy Mc!
I dig your name brother!
:D
90 eur including an open bar in nice surroundings? Cant see what all the moaning is about frankly. Youd drop that in temple bar on a night out in the blink of an eye"
You would spend a lot more in Temple Bar, full of d*unks and messy people, where as here, you have fun, drink, with sexy people, with no Last Orders, lol.
Enjoy All. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen this venue online and it has the total wow factor as I looked to book it myself but hrs crazy expensive. It's extremely expensive to organise this venue and these guys are making a loss on expenses just to have fun. I've looked at the venue myself and you can't have more than 20 people or they start needing their own staff present. Hence he price. But whoever goes will be in the lap of luxury Victorian style all night it's beautiful and extremely lavish. Have an amazing night guys and chin up. You don't need many people so it will be easy to fill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the kind words Ruby!
We're gonna miss you on the night!!"
Delighted to hear you are still going ahead with this, I'm sure it will be a class evening, shame I can't make it. Maybe next time. |
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"I have seen this venue online and it has the total wow factor as I looked to book it myself but hrs crazy expensive. It's extremely expensive to organise this venue and these guys are making a loss on expenses just to have fun. I've looked at the venue myself and you can't have more than 20 people or they start needing their own staff present. Hence he price. But whoever goes will be in the lap of luxury Victorian style all night it's beautiful and extremely lavish. Have an amazing night guys and chin up. You don't need many people so it will be easy to fill"
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"Amalthea....
Yes we can all count.
Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?
Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018 "
haha imagine me in an open bar Hahahaha |
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"Amalthea....
Yes we can all count.
Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?
Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018 haha imagine me in an open bar Hahahaha "
I know be safer dosing Ireland in petrol and giving everyone sparklers to hold |
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"Amalthea....
Yes we can all count.
Do you know how much private security, bar service, an open bar and a 5 bedroomed mansion cost to run?open bar?
Ah Here we want Ireland to see 2018 haha imagine me in an open bar Hahahaha
I know be safer dosing Ireland in petrol and giving everyone sparklers to hold "
sounds like a party haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen this venue online and it has the total wow factor as I looked to book it myself but hrs crazy expensive. It's extremely expensive to organise this venue and these guys are making a loss on expenses just to have fun. I've looked at the venue myself and you can't have more than 20 people or they start needing their own staff present. Hence he price. But whoever goes will be in the lap of luxury Victorian style all night it's beautiful and extremely lavish. Have an amazing night guys and chin up. You don't need many people so it will be easy to fill
Hahaha"
Oh you've a bitter taste in your mouth for me baby cakes |
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If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance. |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
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Cheap night out if you ask me... because that's what it is... it is an organised party/night out
Always costs me a lot more to go out in town and pull a chick... I'd give €90 with a smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best of luck to the organisers of this party. It sounds like they have put a lot of thought in to creating a very classy event. Considering what's on offer and the location the costs seem very reasonable.We hope you have a great night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance."
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think 90 is too much to pay for a night like this - look at what you're getting.
I just don't see why 2 men have to pay more. 50 ish per person would generate the same amount of money |
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex. "
If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless? |
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.
If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless?"
Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice. |
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.
If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless?
Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice."
Agreed but in this case where the OP is going to pains to point out how they are losing money on the event and how they only wasn 2 "exceptional" males this makes the event fall into just another swingers party where the single guy will be ripped off by comparison. |
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.
If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless?
Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.
Agreed but in this case where the OP is going to pains to point out how they are losing money on the event and how they only wasn 2 "exceptional" males this makes the event fall into just another swingers party where the single guy will be ripped off by comparison."
Yes, and?
Attending these events is a choice. As I pointed out, if single males weren't willing to get "ripped off" for the chance of sex, then organisers wouldn't do it.
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.
If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless?
Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.
Agreed but in this case where the OP is going to pains to point out how they are losing money on the event and how they only wasn 2 "exceptional" males this makes the event fall into just another swingers party where the single guy will be ripped off by comparison.
Yes, and?
Attending these events is a choice. As I pointed out, if single males weren't willing to get "ripped off" for the chance of sex, then organisers wouldn't do it.
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.
If the Op is indeed making a loss on the event then why not charge the guys the same as the ladies as surely if they can afford to run this at a loss then another €130 is not going to see them homeless?
Oh I'm not disagreeing with you as to the unfairness of it, simply pointing out that party organisers couldn't do this if men weren't willing to stump up - it's their choice.
Agreed but in this case where the OP is going to pains to point out how they are losing money on the event and how they only wasn 2 "exceptional" males this makes the event fall into just another swingers party where the single guy will be ripped off by comparison.
Yes, and?
Attending these events is a choice. As I pointed out, if single males weren't willing to get "ripped off" for the chance of sex, then organisers wouldn't do it.
in reply to the "yes,and" this then becomes just a regular event not an exceptional one "
I didn't get the impression that the claims of being "exceptional" were on the basis of equal pricing. |
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"Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!
No such thing as bad publicity!!
Whoop!
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I'll email my invoice shortly |
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"Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!
No such thing as bad publicity!!
Whoop!
:D
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I'll email my invoice shortly "
Seeing as I'm a single male I trust and hope it will be suitably and outlandishly inflated!!
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"Regardless of the ethics involved thanks for the keeping the thread alive guys!
No such thing as bad publicity!!
Whoop!
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I'll email my invoice shortly
Seeing as I'm a single male I trust and hope it will be suitably and outlandishly inflated!!
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex. "
We always thought when an event is organized that the proceeds go towards the venue etc!!
So just out of our curiosity when ye say pay "premium" for sex??
Do they then feel like they have the right to play with anyone at the event no matter what??
What if all the attendees decided not to play with said guy's do they then feel hard done by?
Our reason for saying this is the mention of paying for sex completely take's it out of the realm of the swinging lifestyle!!
As we say we are just curious as to such a comment
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"If you are choosing 2 "lucky" guys to attend that are £exceptional" then why are you charging them more? It's not like a club setting where you could have dozens of single guys turn up willy nilly, this is a private party where you are simply ripping off these "lucky exceptional" guys in comparison to the others in attendance.
People couldn't do this if many men weren't willing to pay the "premium" for sex.
We always thought when an event is organized that the proceeds go towards the venue etc!!
So just out of our curiosity when ye say pay "premium" for sex??
Do they then feel like they have the right to play with anyone at the event no matter what??
What if all the attendees decided not to play with said guy's do they then feel hard done by?
Our reason for saying this is the mention of paying for sex completely take's it out of the realm of the swinging lifestyle!!
As we say we are just curious as to such a comment
Happy fabbing xx"
You'd have to ask each man who attends these parties whether he felt he got value for money..... |
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The point was that single males are charged more than single females and couples. If it's "to cover costs", how is the single male creating more "cost" than other attendees? And since organisers are totally in control of their guest list, the excuse of the higher price being charged to reduce single male numbers doesn't stand up to scrutiny either. |
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"The point was that single males are charged more than single females and couples. If it's "to cover costs", how is the single male creating more "cost" than other attendees? And since organisers are totally in control of their guest list, the excuse of the higher price being charged to reduce single male numbers doesn't stand up to scrutiny either."
Well to answer your first comment ask the men did they get value for money
It's not about the money it's about the experience of what the lifestyle is all about in our eyes
It's a party they are going to not a brothel, when you say value for money just our view on this
Well the second comment on equality of the pricing for the event this is solely down to the organizers and what they feel appropriate in any charge for access to their event!!
In any event we have had the pleasure of attending, it was always priced accordingly which in this case the organizers find acceptable..
So our reason for commenting on yer post was pay "premium" for sex. We feel is out of order and that's why we commented
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"The point was that single males are charged more than single females and couples. If it's "to cover costs", how is the single male creating more "cost" than other attendees? And since organisers are totally in control of their guest list, the excuse of the higher price being charged to reduce single male numbers doesn't stand up to scrutiny either.
Well to answer your first comment ask the men did they get value for money
It's not about the money it's about the experience of what the lifestyle is all about in our eyes
It's a party they are going to not a brothel, when you say value for money just our view on this
Well the second comment on equality of the pricing for the event this is solely down to the organizers and what they feel appropriate in any charge for access to their event!!
In any event we have had the pleasure of attending, it was always priced accordingly which in this case the organizers find acceptable..
So our reason for commenting on yer post was pay "premium" for sex. We feel is out of order and that's why we commented
Happy fabbing xx"
So you think it's entirely appropriate that single males should pay extra, despite there being no valid reason for this. That's your opinion, mine is different, and to pretend men aren't willing to pay this extra because of the possibility of sex is, also in my opinion, somewhat disingenuous.
Happy fabbing. This isn't an attack on anyone organising parties, and as I said, people are free to choose to attend at whatever price level they are being charged.
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"The point was that single males are charged more than single females and couples. If it's "to cover costs", how is the single male creating more "cost" than other attendees? And since organisers are totally in control of their guest list, the excuse of the higher price being charged to reduce single male numbers doesn't stand up to scrutiny either.
Well to answer your first comment ask the men did they get value for money
It's not about the money it's about the experience of what the lifestyle is all about in our eyes
It's a party they are going to not a brothel, when you say value for money just our view on this
Well the second comment on equality of the pricing for the event this is solely down to the organizers and what they feel appropriate in any charge for access to their event!!
In any event we have had the pleasure of attending, it was always priced accordingly which in this case the organizers find acceptable..
So our reason for commenting on yer post was pay "premium" for sex. We feel is out of order and that's why we commented
Happy fabbing xx
So you think it's entirely appropriate that single males should pay extra, despite there being no valid reason for this. That's your opinion, mine is different, and to pretend men aren't willing to pay this extra because of the possibility of sex is, also in my opinion, somewhat disingenuous.
Happy fabbing. This isn't an attack on anyone organising parties, and as I said, people are free to choose to attend at whatever price level they are being charged.
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To set a precedent, by saying paying to an event your guaranteed to have sex is wrong on so many levels.
Whether it being a party event m&g etc.Which in our eyes is not the case at all.
If ye read our comments we never said it was acceptable to charge any amount for anyone to attend!!
We actually stated the organizers felt it was an appropriate costing for an invite to their event.
We ourselves have no idea the costing of running such an event or no experience in holding one either
Now if ye do have experience in such organization of party's and events do enlighten us we are always willing to learn
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What makes an "Exceptional Male" anyway?
Just wondering.
Is the OP exceptional?
Exceptional enough that people would still show this much interest if he was hosting alone without a couple?
Either way it's a private party that they've invested financially in and luxury wi cost more. If he wants to charge people in bitcoin, chicken wings or sparkle dust then that's his choice. If people are willing to pay what he is asking then where's the problem?
Good luck with the party. Hope it's a success
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Have met the OP socially on a few occasions and for a "single" male on Fabswingers I would class him as exceptional enough to co host a party and I wish himself and his co hosts a successful and fun packed night to remember |
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"I never said anyone was guaranteeing sex, did I? People's expectations are another matter."
Not to take up anymore space in this thread
Our last comment on this would be when someone says willing to pay "premium" for sex.It is in every way implying a guarantee !!
We can only have an opinion on what we read here as all who read this, especially new people joining this and other sites could interpret this in the same way for the broad spectrum of events.
Op we apologize for any inconvenience our comments may have been in yer thread
As we have posted in our first post here well done for bringing something new to the Irish forum and good luck with yer event
Happy Fabbing all xx |
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I think that price is more than reasonable.
I find wording such as "exceptional guys" a little uncomfortable - who defines that really? Is it looks? Veris (that they show) ? Cock size? Personality? Who you know?
But yeah anyway whinging about that price is just silly... |
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"I think that price is more than reasonable.
I find wording such as "exceptional guys" a little uncomfortable - who defines that really? Is it looks? Veris (that they show) ? Cock size? Personality? Who you know?
But yeah anyway whinging about that price is just silly..."
Glad you asked Stranger!
(Cool name btw!)
Since there's only to be two single males there... by exceptional I mean.... good looking, tall, well verified, fit, well hung, openmimded and a good laugh!!!
Since this forum story broke I've managed to secure 2 of the best... with a waiting list. A very comprehensive waiting list....!
So am not too worried about the rest! |
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Well it works if ur trying to stop single guys and am a single guy and I went to an adult party before in Dublin wit my ex and the single guy paid €50 and couples €25 and single woman paid €20 and I think €50 is costly it shouldn't be more then €50 but best of luck with that |
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"Hello All!!
So, after much consideration and deliberation, myself and Dublincouple80 are pleased to announce the First Inaugural Elegant Ecstasy Play Party Event!!!
To take place in a decadent South Dublin location on Saturday the 21st of January.
5 bedrooms, 2 designated playrooms, dance floor, bar, 3 bathrooms and ample parking!
There will be (discrete) security and a bar lady present as well as an open bar.
The goal here is pure pleasure and self indulgence in an opulent hedonistic setting. As such we will ask for a modest contribution towards the cost, which is considerable! See below for a breakdown of costs....
If you are interested in attending please be aware that we are unfortunately limited to 20 people and we envisage the numbers breaking down as follows;
2 couples who wish to overnight at the residence, you'll have your own room to do with as you please as well as access to the playrooms etc.
Cost: €100.
5 couples to attend only
Cost: €60 per couple
4 single ladies to attend only
Cost: €25 per lady
2 'Exceptional' single males to attend only
Cost: €90 per guy... (Sorry lads but that's a damn bargin!)
This is strictly a non-profit-making event and as such will actually be run on a small loss. We merely ask for a small contribution to what we hope will be an amazing evening!!
Dress code; evening or smart wear.... dresses and suits please!
Please keep in mind there's already been a great deal of considerable interest and it's already proving difficult to keep in mind everyone who has mailed so if you wish to be considered please, when contacting, include a face pic, it expedites the whole process!
Once we've tallied our numbers invites will be issued!!!!
Thanks for all the interest so far and bearing with us as located the perfect venue!!
Hope to hear from you all soon!
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