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Important job and I live too close
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!
Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!
I think people should get a grip ... Rant over  do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can fully respect that point of view to be fair.We dont meet or play with locals and prefer to travel a distance for fun, this is a personal choice and people have the right to chose with who, how, when or where they want to play .Freedom swinging gives us all.. |
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"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!
Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!
I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important"
We agree, but can see both points. We personally think nearer is handier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, I prefer an exclusion zone. "
I think there are a lot of Galwegians applying this rule - every time I land in the opposite side of the country I'm surrounded by rakes of them all of a sudden |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call. "
Nasty!
Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I prefer someone near by it means ya can have reg meets it's not something that yu have to plan and schedule in advance.
However I do want discretion so I don't swap pics till I have chatted for a while and I want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.
Nasty!
Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?"
Oh I got the situation sorted out through the proper channels. He crawled back into his cave and I have learned a very valuable life lesson. It's always very important to apply caution and meticulous safety and trust before anything fun. I have learned valuable lessons and tolerate nothing less than trust and friends above all else. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get all sides of the realities to both sides of the point but I have met someone local and was lucky that both our attitudes to respectful discretion matched but would be slow to take chances on a regular basis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.
Nasty!
Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?Oh I got the situation sorted out through the proper channels. He crawled back into his cave and I have learned a very valuable life lesson. It's always very important to apply caution and meticulous safety and trust before anything fun. I have learned valuable lessons and tolerate nothing less than trust and friends above all else. Xx"
Well done - there's enough fakes/ weirdos and fuckwits on Fab to make you wary of meets.
But also some lovely people. I think it comes with experience, knowing who you feel comfortable taking to or meeting.
I got knocked back by a couple as they said they used to live in my area 15 years ago!
For Christ sake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!
Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!
I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important"
Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....
You can look in my trolley anytime guys |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!
Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!
I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important
Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....
You can look in my trolley anytime guys "
Trolly dolly  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!
Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!
I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important
Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....
You can look in my trolley anytime guys "
we already know what you buy and where don't worry |
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Close as in less than 50 miles is ideal. Then there isn't a big deal when arranging meets.
But around the corner can be a bit hairy unless both parties are mature enough to keep things in perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my own personal experience I wouldn't ever entertain meeting anyone local to me. Met a couple a year ago who were local and ended up she was my dentist and all the while the hubby was literally stalking me. Strange and downright scary is a given online, but on your doorstep is ultimately too much a reality/wakeup call.
Nasty!
Could you report the guy to PSNI for Harassment?Oh I got the situation sorted out through the proper channels. He crawled back into his cave and I have learned a very valuable life lesson. It's always very important to apply caution and meticulous safety and trust before anything fun. I have learned valuable lessons and tolerate nothing less than trust and friends above all else. Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So among of some the excuses this week we got. "Being the secretary of someone important " and you live too close I wouldn't like anyone to see what I have in my shopping trolley in dunnes!
Surely if someone is close it would be nice ideal situation, is it people being so self center not to realise other party might also have good jobs and might also risk being "exposed" whatever that means .... Ohh no I'm a swinger we have sex for fun not just reproduction to keep survival of species!
I think people should get a grip ... Rant over do say hello if you live close and got a good job or work for someone important
Paranoia is often mistaken for a person's "lack of discretion".....
You can look in my trolley anytime guys we already know what you buy and where don't worry "
Wouldn't you at least help me carry it to the car ffs....
I'll give you a reward when you do |
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