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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lately we've read people talking about looking for a guest list when invited to a party or events. Its something we actually never thought to look for!seems to make sense actually.have you looked for them or do people organizing partys mind giving them out? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So can you look for a guest list before deciding to go or have to book before receiving one?have been on kik groups but realized a lot on them weren't even going? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So can you look for a guest list before deciding to go or have to book before receiving one?have been on kik groups but realized a lot on them weren't even going?"
If its a meet and greet then guest list not provided |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So can you look for a guest list before deciding to go or have to book before receiving one?have been on kik groups but realized a lot on them weren't even going?"
No - you can't expect to be given a guest list before deciding whether or not to go
And as jilly said, lists don't apply to socials or m&g |
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Some Socials etc set up kik groups for those invited so they can chat etc before an also see who else is going.
As I don't use kik I just turn up. Haven't a clue who is there but they are fun anyway so no complaints! 
A list would be handy but the organizers have enough to do without sending out lists. |
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No - you can't expect to be given a guest list before deciding whether or not to go
And as jilly said, lists don't apply to socials or m&g"
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Sounds about right... "I'll see who is going and then decide!" 
No one would ever meet!
Go, or don't go! It's a Social with plenty of room for everyone.... |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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The problem with asking for a guest list is that with so many 'fence sitters' the issued guest list can end up being very different to those that are actually at the party.
Half on the list may be there but the other half are last minute additions due to cancellations, I'm not going if she is types and no shows. But c'est la vie!  |
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We release a guest list a few days before, once all attending have confirmed. Some folk use it to say hi to others so dont use it at all.
On one level for couples events it helps to show the hosts have an idea about what makes a night work - couples who have a similar level,of attractiveness or appeal to one another. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"The problem with asking for a guest list is that with so many 'fence sitters' the issued guest list can end up being very different to those that are actually at the party.
Half on the list may be there but the other half are last minute additions due to cancellations, I'm not going if she is types and no shows. But c'est la vie! "
this |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Given that there seem to be ongoing feuds in the swinging community, it's no great surprise.feuds no shootings reported as yet
Plenty of backstabbing though "
you can pick up stab vests online cheap enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem with asking for a guest list is that with so many 'fence sitters' the issued guest list can end up being very different to those that are actually at the party.
Half on the list may be there but the other half are last minute additions due to cancellations, I'm not going if she is types and no shows. But c'est la vie! "
Or im not going cause Hes going works for men too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given that there seem to be ongoing feuds in the swinging community, it's no great surprise.feuds no shootings reported as yet
Plenty of backstabbing though
you can pick up stab vests online cheap enough "
Is it a fetish thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem with asking for a guest list is that with so many 'fence sitters' the issued guest list can end up being very different to those that are actually at the party.
Half on the list may be there but the other half are last minute additions due to cancellations, I'm not going if she is types and no shows. But c'est la vie!
Or im not going cause Hes going works for men too lol"
what about a wanted list jilly |
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