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First ever mmf
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over a year ago
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my advice would be to make sure you discuss what you hope to experince out of the scenario BEFORE you get down to business otherwise you might find you ended up pleasuring two fellas who didnt reciprocate ! I know several ladies whos fantasies of a 3 way with two men did not go anything like they had hoped , for example if your thing is to have one man lick your clit while the other one fucks you ( lets be honest girls this is mainly what a woman wants from a 3 some ) or to be double penetrated ( also high on the wish list ) then make sure you tell them this is what you expect . That way they cant say you never said etc after its all over and they both had an orgasm while your still frustrated and horny |
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"my advice would be to make sure you discuss what you hope to experince out of the scenario BEFORE you get down to business otherwise you might find you ended up pleasuring two fellas who didnt reciprocate ! I know several ladies whos fantasies of a 3 way with two men did not go anything like they had hoped , for example if your thing is to have one man lick your clit while the other one fucks you ( lets be honest girls this is mainly what a woman wants from a 3 some ) or to be double penetrated ( also high on the wish list ) then make sure you tell them this is what you expect . That way they cant say you never said etc after its all over and they both had an orgasm while your still frustrated and horny "
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If you're nervous, have a drink beforehand. Not to get blocked or even tipsy, but just one to relax you. That applies for all involved. Ideally, you should all have it together; an ideal opportunity and reason for having a toast! |
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"If you're nervous, have a drink beforehand. Not to get blocked or even tipsy, but just one to relax you. That applies for all involved. Ideally, you should all have it together; an ideal opportunity and reason for having a toast!"
Get the champagne in SB xx |
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"If you're nervous, have a drink beforehand. Not to get blocked or even tipsy, but just one to relax you. That applies for all involved. Ideally, you should all have it together; an ideal opportunity and reason for having a toast!
Get the champagne in SB xx"
Nothing but the best for you, gorgeous Goldie! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"
Hope you have fun! Sorry in advance for hijacking your thread here but I'm thinking about popping a cherry myself with a ffm with a lovely couple I met. My only question is....how can you set boundaries when you've no preconceived ideas of what will/is meant to happen? Genuine question....
(Oh and let me know how you get on as that'll be next on my list!)  |
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"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice
Hope you have fun! Sorry in advance for hijacking your thread here but I'm thinking about popping a cherry myself with a ffm with a lovely couple I met. My only question is....how can you set boundaries when you've no preconceived ideas of what will/is meant to happen? Genuine question....
(Oh and let me know how you get on as that'll be next on my list!) "
You could either sit and have a chat with the other people involved or, if doing so face to face is too embarrassing, perhaps draw up by e-mail a checklist of things you'd like to happen and don't want to happen. It sounds terribly formal, almost legalistic, but it needn't be. Just think about what you want from it and what you consider to be no-nos. |
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Been reading this form and must say had a few mmf times myself. The only thing was we didn't talk about what we all wanted and looking back the only thing I did not do was lick her clit as she had a cock inside her. I could not get my head round it but now a few years on it's the one thing I have not done and would like to remedy it turn into a fantasy now which sucks pardon the pun lol anyone who can help? (SOS) |
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"What was better? The fantasy or the reality? "
that is a good point, I had a ffm prior to the meet she was eager and keen.... when it came down to it she was too nervous.
So the fantasy for her was much better.  |
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Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross |
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross"
sorry to hear that  (( Hopefully it won't stop you trying for it again x |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that op, nothing worse than a whole night wasted.
Best is to organise a mfm with a repeat meet you know well, you can trust and you know that he delivers. Then bring a second guy in or your repeat might know one. Like that you know you've at least one that will pleasure you. |
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross"
Your hubby left? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross
Your hubby left?"
"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross
Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband. "
I get that - but he's the one that left? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross
Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband.
I get that - but he's the one that left? "
Ha...if so left me recapitalise: a fb nicknamed 'hubby' who cums prematurely but has no balls.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross
Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband.
I get that - but he's the one that left?
Ha...if so left me recapitalise: a fb nicknamed 'hubby' who cums prematurely but has no balls. "
He may have even less balls if she gets hold of him after leaving her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok first ever mmf tomorrow night excited but nearvous any advice"
I've yet to experience mind I know what your feeling at the minute lol
Sorry I can't help with advice bed of things xx |
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross"
So sorry to hear it didn't end well . Thats why we rather mff or couples and never go to a meet with a with a loaded gun (excuse the pun ) .
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I have to admit that sometimes, not all, after I cum, I feel less inclined to have sex and even a little bit guilty.
In saying that though, the feeling doesn't last long and its just not right to run asap.
Give the situation a chance to develop. Maybe it's not the right place for you? Maybe you feel better, get turned on again and relax while enjoying yourself?
I was lucky my first swing time, I meet a lady that was understanding and helped me enjoy the experience, even though I'm sure it could have been more enjoyable for her if I had more experience with swinging.
Although this post seems to be slightly laying blame on one side its not!
I think it's unfair to do that either way.
It does show why people look for verified meets more and more.
I had my secound real experience at a party and it was much more relaxed and fun. "MMFFMFM cigarette" somewhere along that lines of that. Haha. (#Exaggerated)
Maybe miss hornyminx, you could join us (fellow fab party goers) at the next one and a mmf would be more than possible then.
Sorry to hear you were let down. Hopefully the next time some lucky guy will help you feel better about the fantasy becoming reality.
Don't let one mistaken guy let you stop trying to make your own smile wider.
Happy fabbing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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What a load of bollix. You should have to do a bleeding stamina test before you're allowed join this site. If u cum in less than 15 mins, you're barred. Never heard the likes in my life. Swingers are supposed to be good lovers but loads of thicks on this cumming before they even get their jocks off. What are they even doing here ffs |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross
Your hubby left?"hubby" being the name of her fb, not actual husband. "
That could be the end of him, for ruining the Fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Omg such a fucking waste if a night!!went to guys house i know to get ready (aka hubby)got showered all done up he said i looked amazing we were just playin about he got over excited and came v quick he went to bsthroom came back and let on emergency with his child he had to go complete bull his phone didnt ring. Other guy came whole way from belfast nearly there i made him ring and explain i was soo cross"
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Wow what a let down our first mmf was amazing just goes to show you have to be a bit picky we got our first recommended to us and didn't disappoint although took awhile before we were all comfortable but that's the nature of the beast (hate those one minute men stamina all the way)... maybe you will have better luck next time..  |
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Hope u enjoy the night xx
Tina 
