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"It takes a real man to cry. Having said that i do myself get emotional if I see a man cry. "is that after you have kicked him in the nuts yeah lolol  | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to " I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me " This ^ and its a perfectly normal emotion to have. Just because your body has finished growing and changing, your mind never does.Your mind is constantly changing,evolving and growing and viewing things in a different way. It doesnt make you less of a man to show emotion, like tears of sadness or happiness for that matter. It shows youre more empathetic and compassionate to what you see around you. Hugs Op.  | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me " Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha " I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me This ^ and its a perfectly normal emotion to have. Just because your body has finished growing and changing, your mind never does.Your mind is constantly changing,evolving and growing and viewing things in a different way. It doesnt make you less of a man to show emotion, like tears of sadness or happiness for that matter. It shows youre more empathetic and compassionate to what you see around you. Hugs Op. "Hugs back at u I'm just going real soft, I was a bollix growing up so it just got me thinking. Glad its normal tho  | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol" Pretty much any family film I think at this stage haha | |||
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When Kaizer cuts onions, the onions cry  | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol Pretty much any family film I think at this stage haha " Homeward Bound, Love story, Born Free. Even Zulu gets me going lol | |||
"It takes a real man to cry. Having said that i do myself get emotional if I see a man cry.
is that after you have kicked him in the nuts yeah lolol "lol | |||
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"Sounds like you need to get your testosterone levels checked, it'll be spas, facials and foot massages next. " I did let my niece put nail polish on me | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol Pretty much any family film I think at this stage haha Homeward Bound, Love story, Born Free. Even Zulu gets me going lol" Never even heard of them lol | |||
"Shiver me timbers
When Kaizer cuts onions, the onions cry "Can I have some of your manliness please, mines diminishing | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol Pretty much any family film I think at this stage haha Homeward Bound, Love story, Born Free. Even Zulu gets me going lol Never even heard of them lol " Probably just as well | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol Pretty much any family film I think at this stage haha Homeward Bound, Love story, Born Free. Even Zulu gets me going lol Never even heard of them lol Probably just as well "Yeah think I need to watch the hulk or fight club haha | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to I was the same growing up. Watching lassie or the Last MASH never cried. now watching even animal hospital get all choked up I think it's maturing and experience all that life has thrown at me Yeah that's exactly why I put this up. There was a stupid film on last night called odd Thomas, at the end it turned out his gf was dead and I was literally sick and sad watching it, watched Pete's dragon and the kid was running around the streets looking for his dragon in a hospital gown, my niece was like are u crying, I almost was, just going soft and checking if this was the norm as men get older, even toy story 3 is sad now haha I could name you a dozen films not to watch then lol Pretty much any family film I think at this stage haha Homeward Bound, Love story, Born Free. Even Zulu gets me going lol Never even heard of them lol Probably just as well
Yeah think I need to watch the hulk or fight club haha"Just to be on the safe side | |||
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"Sounds like the MANopause, get yourself a bag of The Real McCoy and a Yorkie, should sort you out "Sounds like you should stock up on yours with your "manflu" coming....  | |||
"Sounds like the MANopause, get yourself a bag of The Real McCoy and a Yorkie, should sort you out
Sounds like you should stock up on yours with your "manflu" coming.... " | |||
"Sounds like the MANopause, get yourself a bag of The Real McCoy and a Yorkie, should sort you out
Sounds like you should stock up on yours with your "manflu" coming.... "Lol Very Good  #banter | |||
"Sounds like you need to get your testosterone levels checked, it'll be spas, facials and foot massages next. " Wait!! Wait!! Do you hear that? ..... thats the fucks he wont give when theres several hotties mauling him! | |||
"Sounds like you need to get your testosterone levels checked, it'll be spas, facials and foot massages next. Wait!! Wait!! Do you hear that? ..... thats the fucks he wont give when theres several hotties mauling him! "And where's your local spa MissDirty? I feel a sudden urge for a sauna/steam
Good place for hiding the tears too  | |||
"Sounds like you need to get your testosterone levels checked, it'll be spas, facials and foot massages next. Wait!! Wait!! Do you hear that? ..... thats the fucks he wont give when theres several hotties mauling him!
And where's your local spa MissDirty? I feel a sudden urge for a sauna/steam
Good place for hiding the tears too "Tears of happiness and pleasure Mr Johndunboyne!! | |||
"Sounds like you need to get your testosterone levels checked, it'll be spas, facials and foot massages next. Wait!! Wait!! Do you hear that? ..... thats the fucks he wont give when theres several hotties mauling him! "Testosterone levels through the roof now | |||
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I ended up leaving a good job with good money for a more fulfilling job minding people for a lot less money due to how I feel these days about things happening around me. may be impulsive but felt right and still does. The change in feelings have made me altogether happier and more caring. Just glad it happens other men and thanks again everyone for sharing stuff blokes don't like to share and u too girls | |||
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"Most of the things listed that ppl cry at is fiction. As in made up. Didn't happen. Wrote to make you cry I get emotional about real life stuff I read that hits home I can cry on cue anytime by thinking of something that happened here few years ago. I didn't know ppl involved but it hit home. Real stuff tho. Very real" I've brought the odd tear to your eye I bet, tears of frustration | |||
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"Most of the things listed that ppl cry at is fiction. As in made up. Didn't happen. Wrote to make you cry I get emotional about real life stuff I read that hits home I can cry on cue anytime by thinking of something that happened here few years ago. I didn't know ppl involved but it hit home. Real stuff tho. Very real I've brought the odd tear to your eye I bet, tears of frustration "Ha true. I'm crying now counting the days xxxx | |||
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"Jesus man up!!! No one wants a soft man ( in more ways than one ) "My dad used to say that to my brothers,Man up!!! He taught them to keep a stiff upper lip and that it was the "manly" thing to do. The trouble with that was, they stopped talking to him about their feelings and emotions and talked to me or my sisters and mother about what was going on. I dont mean any of my 5 brothers were balling all the time either! Stuff that bothered or upset them, they went elsewhere to talk the feelings out as my father was a man for suppressing feelings and felt it was a "girly" thing to happen. Which it isnt. | |||
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"Hopefully, the day will soon be gone that some men are afraid to be seen crying or feeling emotion. There's no shame in it, and if more men were able to show and talk about how they're feeling, there might be less suicide and less funerals where we talk about how 'he was always great craic, the life and soul of the party, he always had a smile on his face.' " sad to see that even now, expressing emotion is seen as "soft" or "unmanly". | |||
"Hopefully, the day will soon be gone that some men are afraid to be seen crying or feeling emotion. There's no shame in it, and if more men were able to show and talk about how they're feeling, there might be less suicide and less funerals where we talk about how 'he was always great craic, the life and soul of the party, he always had a smile on his face.' " I have to agree Sally, its a sad affair when suicide rates are the highest among men. Ive 2 fine lads aged 24 and 19 and i would literally die if i thought they felt they couldnt talk to me, or their dad about issues going on with them. | |||
"This one is for lads really but if girls know that'd be good too, when I was growing up I never got weepy or thought films were sad and that, but in the last six months I've started welling up and finding things really sad, is that something that happens to men or something as they get older? Suppose its feeling more empathetic than I use to " You're connecting with your emotions, through a film which shows you're human and there's nothing wrong with that, at all man. Scene in Mel Gibson's THE PATRIOT where the little girl says her first words NEARLY got me but am sticking with "salt from popcorn in my eyes" story | |||
"Hopefully, the day will soon be gone that some men are afraid to be seen crying or feeling emotion. There's no shame in it, and if more men were able to show and talk about how they're feeling, there might be less suicide and less funerals where we talk about how 'he was always great craic, the life and soul of the party, he always had a smile on his face.' I have to agree Sally, its a sad affair when suicide rates are the highest among men. Ive 2 fine lads aged 24 and 19 and i would literally die if i thought they felt they couldnt talk to me, or their dad about issues going on with them. "It's always the ones who are the life of the party. Brave face and all that. This thread went off track with the whole crying thing, its more about softening with age. I never cry, it's more fighting not to feel the sadness etc... People who say man up or stop been a pussy don't understand some people live in turmoil. Everyone should just support everyone but doesn't happen. One day people will stop trolling | |||
