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Simple question Fit or Flab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In real life what are you most atracted to fit or flab at first sight?? i.e when peoples clothes are on not on fab as everybody has a sex appeal here showing off there bits in sexy gear and what not!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest "
I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw
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I often go for the eyes first, as the saying goes windows to the soul, and if you see some trouble...run, if you see a twinkle  ...go for it...then see what they have on offer, boobs, bums, curves (you may call her fat but I see curves on a positive nature) |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"
An ass that fills jeans nicely...be it fit or fat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So would u buy a book on the way a cover looks or a car on the body and not the engine "
its not the same judgement..someone may have a great personality dose.nt say there gonna be great in the sack and when the clothes come off there has to be inital attraction
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping  |
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "
Ok this is fair comment, flab everytime, I think its cause I don't have any but secretly desire a few more more HAHA! |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping
Ok this is fair comment, flab everytime, I think its cause I don't have any but secretly desire a few more more HAHA!"
You can have some of mine lol |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "
It looks like the question is too difficult...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "
I see you've never encountered a fitness bore or an orthorexic then
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slim waist and nice round ass is optional but once they are healthy I'm happy
Obesity is killing this country and yes be happy in your body and shape as you don't need to be skinny to be happy or healthy but when it affects your life you got to take a look at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping "
Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips
But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water  |
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping
Ok this is fair comment, flab everytime, I think its cause I don't have any but secretly desire a few more more HAHA!
You can have some of mine lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping
Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips
But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping
Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips
But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water
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just an example of some individuals...each to there own its not a personal attack on anyone or people's personalities and qualities!!
Simply asking for people.s personal preferences in sexual attraction in there normal day to day lives no need to dissect the question |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Course its fit . If any guy on here says different there lying . And before anyone shoots me down i have been the lady who was size 22 .  "
Then or now the filth remains an I have seen the pic I'd still have had fun |
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"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"
 
Fit girls all the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"
Fit girl, no question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping
Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips
But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water
just an example of some individuals...each to there own its not a personal attack on anyone or people's personalities and qualities!!
Simply asking for people.s personal preferences in sexual attraction in there normal day to day lives no need to dissect the question"
Dont you know, you cant ask a straight question in here because nobody will give an honest answer for fear of upsetting overweight people and thus jeopardising their chances of getting a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings "
Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here?? |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings
Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??"
No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings
Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??
No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Flabby= someone with big thighs,flabby ass,bingo wings, 2chins chubby face,fat hanging on the hips and folds around the midriff.lacking energy
Fit/healthy= the opposite these areas are tight and toned..the person is fresh faced full of energy
Underweight=we all know what a person looks like who is too thin ie.nothing but skin and bone pale faced undernourished
You did ask for it now I await the backlash |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flabby= someone with big thighs,flabby ass,bingo wings, 2chins chubby face,fat hanging on the hips and folds around the midriff.lacking energy
Fit/healthy= the opposite these areas are tight and toned..the person is fresh faced full of energy
Underweight=we all know what a person looks like who is too thin ie.nothing but skin and bone pale faced undernourished
You did ask for it now I await the backlash"
If you would stop labelling people on your own perceptions and on how you personally categorise people then you might get a broader view....Ive seen overweight people as you describe above in the gym full of energy and the toned fresh faced as you say tired and sluggish ...so your defo wrong again in what 3 cats you have described above ....Thank god most people do not judge on "fit or flab" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't get the motivation for posts that asks for views on fit versus flab. As they only become divisive.
I don't agree with fit or fat shaming and these type of discussions inadvertently end up as such.
In my opinion, the only time/juncture for considering preference is when deciding who to meet,and maybe not a constructive discussion topic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings
Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??
No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer"
For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the motivation for posts that asks for views on fit versus flab. As they only become divisive.
I don't agree with fit or fat shaming and these type of discussions inadvertently end up as such.
In my opinion, the only time/juncture for considering preference is when deciding who to meet,and maybe not a constructive discussion topic "
The only people in here who are making this divisive are those who are at pains to stress that they dont 'judge' people based on looks etc etc. Well thats wonderful, but thats not the subject matter...its just a simple bloody question |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't get the motivation for posts that asks for views on fit versus flab. As they only become divisive.
I don't agree with fit or fat shaming and these type of discussions inadvertently end up as such.
In my opinion, the only time/juncture for considering preference is when deciding who to meet,and maybe not a constructive discussion topic "
well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Flabby= someone with big thighs,flabby ass,bingo wings, 2chins chubby face,fat hanging on the hips and folds around the midriff.lacking energy
Fit/healthy= the opposite these areas are tight and toned..the person is fresh faced full of energy
Underweight=we all know what a person looks like who is too thin ie.nothing but skin and bone pale faced undernourished
You did ask for it now I await the backlash
If you would stop labelling people on your own perceptions and on how you personally categorise people then you might get a broader view....Ive seen overweight people as you describe above in the gym full of energy and the toned fresh faced as you say tired and sluggish ...so your defo wrong again in what 3 cats you have described above ....Thank god most people do not judge on "fit or flab" completely disagree I think I.ve sumed up the majority of people pretty well in my opinion!! all depends on what category you see you self!! "
I dont put myself in any category I am what I am and just thankfull to be healthy and comfortable in my own skin of which I have my imperfections glad im not perfect !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In life you will find you can't pigeon hole people into box a or box b there is usually Box c as well you asked a binary question but people are not binary beings
Ffs its a simple question, fit ass or flab ass, leave personality, sense of humour, chemistry etc etc out of it, what would you prefer to look at...jesus, can anyone just give a straight answer in here??
No because there is no straight answer. Simple as. What classes as a fit ass?? A skinny ass?? An ass of a skinny person because they MUST be fit. What size classes as a fit ass? Maybe when the OP can give a straight answer then people might be able to give a 'straight' answer
For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other "
Nicole scherzinger - fit
Scarlett moffatt - flab
Two hot girls. But prefer nicole scherzinger body. Its not really fat shaming here in this thread at all |
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"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest I'm not talking about personality I'm talking about inial glances would you rather look at a fit girls ass standing in a queue or a big girls ass..Mrs btw"
Fit girls butt would have my eyes. |
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I fell madly in luv with a lady at first glance , now she was just a nice down to earth lady don't know what happened but was smitten bye her . 3 weeks of heaven I was floating in dream land . I could not tel u how r why it happened . It always differes from woman to woman it could b looks r personality r it could b a few things all roled up together . |
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"I fell madly in luv with a lady at first glance , now she was just a nice down to earth lady don't know what happened but was smitten bye her . 3 weeks of heaven I was floating in dream land . I could not tel u how r why it happened . It always differes from woman to woman it could b looks r personality r it could b a few things all roled up together ."
You old romantic Chocko. |
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Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!
Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....
I just love telling them where to go...
Thank you private notes!
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"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!
Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....
I just love telling them where to go...
Thank you private notes!
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Fantastic
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"U should never judge with talking to the person 1st as a fit girl could have no personality at all then the flab girl might be so bubbly and a great personality that what should really count the personality of the person to be honest "
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By (user no longer on site)
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This thread was just started to cause division and drama. Even the title is designed to be a put down.
Pick people you want to fuck. If you have a preference that's fine. Keep it to yourself. Don't go trying to hurt people. Or offend them. It's unnecessary.
We are all supposed to be here for sex and socialising. Let's keep it inclusive. |
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I'm attracted to stocky, tall men. They may be fit, they may be flab. That's my type.
I'm a flab girl, well able to admit I've often look at fit girls and thought, I do her, and I'm straight.
But also think that this thread and the tone of the op is a bit fat shaming which is unfortunate. I also think if you have a preference for slim, fit people then you should be able to say that without backlash, it a just the tone of it that makes a difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fit all the way.
This type of question always gets the same type of reply.
You shouldnt label
You shouldnt pigeon hole
Everybody is beautiful
Personality
Fit people are brain dead and boring.
Curvy girls are best
Which is all fine, but dont tell someone not to "label".
The question is about peoples preference in body types.
Personally, if im not physically attracted to someone then i wont have sex with them even if they are the most interesting, humourous, and all round amazing personality.
And yes i would have sex with a stunning woman with no personality.
We're here for sexual encounters and not intellectual stimulation.
Dont judge us for this and we dont judge others for their preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Course its fit . If any guy on here says different there lying . And before anyone shoots me down i have been the lady who was size 22 . "
If I could choose a size 16, 18,20 I'd choose them far quicker that a size 8 or 10 every time. Personal preference. I find them far sexyier |
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"Fit or curvy, at first sight, there's so much to be said about warm eye contact, a friendly smile and a little charisma "
I couldn't agree more, so true, as people around here say, "depends if you click or not". But a smile goes a long way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fit all the way.
This type of question always gets the same type of reply.
You shouldnt label
You shouldnt pigeon hole
Everybody is beautiful
Personality
Fit people are brain dead and boring.
Curvy girls are best
Which is all fine, but dont tell someone not to "label".
The question is about peoples preference in body types.
Personally, if im not physically attracted to someone then i wont have sex with them even if they are the most interesting, humourous, and all round amazing personality.
And yes i would have sex with a stunning woman with no personality.
We're here for sexual encounters and not intellectual stimulation.
Dont judge us for this and we dont judge others for their preferences"
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"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!
Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....
I just love telling them where to go...
Thank you private notes!
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Theres more overweight irishmen than woman and in 2030 nearly everybody in ireland will be classed as overweight.
Scary thought |
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"This thread was just started to cause division and drama. Even the title is designed to be a put down.
Pick people you want to fuck. If you have a preference that's fine. Keep it to yourself. Don't go trying to hurt people. Or offend them. It's unnecessary.
We are all supposed to be here for sex and socialising. Let's keep it inclusive. "
This ^^^ |
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"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!
Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....
I just love telling them where to go...
Thank you private notes!
Theres more overweight irishmen than woman and in 2030 nearly everybody in ireland will be classed as overweight.
Scary thought "
look around it could be sooner than that checkout....http://healthyliving.herbalife.ie/bmi-calculator...it.ll put extra strain on an already suffering medical service.. more people will be taking sick days or have to give up work completely.everybody else will have to pay more taxes in order for the government to be able to sustain this. |
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"Always intrigues me when I see a guy who only wants to meet a fit woman and publicly goes on the forums and likes to fat shame!
Yet mails me telling me how he loves my picks, curves ect....
I just love telling them where to go...
Thank you private notes!
Fantastic"
These threads and private notes go hand in hand! |
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For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other "
Great observation.... Even half the forum titles are about dissecting pointlessness into further minute pieces of more precise pointlessness
Do you like your toast buttered on the top or the bottom? What is your favourite root vegetable? Are red socks sexier than blue socks? |
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For the love of god, does everything have to be dissected to the nth degree in here?? You know whats meant by fit and whats meant by flab. Yes, we know its not an exact science but surely you can still offer a preference on one or the other
Great observation.... Even half the forum titles are about dissecting pointlessness into further minute pieces of more precise pointlessness
Do you like your toast buttered on the top or the bottom? What is your favourite root vegetable? Are red socks sexier than blue socks? "
Bottom? The side that's on top if you grill it of course, it's hotter.
Potato.
Yes. |
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"Your all going around the question in General fit or flab?? and why is it people's mind set that fit people have no personalities so you.d rather flab with personality..in my opinion people who are into leading fit healthy lives are more positive happy and genuine people..instead of waiting outside a chippers for your order having a fag gossiping
Well I guess if that coffee meet you where on about ever takes shape I better not order chips
But then again I don't eat chips neither do I smoke so that blows your preconceptions on flab out of the water
just an example of some individuals...each to there own its not a personal attack on anyone or people's personalities and qualities!!
Simply asking for people.s personal preferences in sexual attraction in there normal day to day lives no need to dissect the question
Dont you know, you cant ask a straight question in here because nobody will give an honest answer for fear of upsetting overweight people and thus jeopardising their chances of getting a meet"
Fit all the way thanks. |
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