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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me or has people's arrogance on here gone into OVERDRIVE. Just from reading profiles in the past week I've seen people with no pics DEMANDING face pics on the first emai and people basically saying I'll decide if you're good enough to talk to me.
Fair enough you have to get rid of The nutters and the ones who annoy you but seriously where's the attitude coming from  |
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I think some peoples egos do get the better of them. I don't demand any pictures, my request is no cock PIC.
But I have read profiles that do come across as, if I mail you back you should be grateful... Or if you don't attach a face picture I won't reply... Seriously that's too much too ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's a tip: pass them by.
Fuckin annoying though"
It might be arrogance or it might be down to the fact that conveying tone through simple profile description is tough. My profile lays out 'demands' but it is more to ensure I don't waste your time and you don't waste mine is all.
Arrogance is a shitty trait in anyone but I'm sure there's someone out there who got the wrong end of the stick and thinks I am .....I promise I'm not!  |
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"Here's a tip: pass them by.
Fuckin annoying though
It might be arrogance or it might be down to the fact that conveying tone through simple profile description is tough. My profile lays out 'demands' but it is more to ensure I don't waste your time and you don't waste mine is all.
Arrogance is a shitty trait in anyone but I'm sure there's someone out there who got the wrong end of the stick and thinks I am .....I promise I'm not! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw a ladies profile yesterday who said...
Send me your face pic of you're messaging. I won't send face pics. You'll see me if I decided to meet you.
Oh how I laughed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you... The funny part is the most aggrogant ones would never get a date in the vanilla world but there are people here will meet them, blow smoke up their arses and stroke their ego...This applies to cpls and singles...Swinging should be fun and lighthearted not full of aggrogant people who wudnt get a ride at a Funfair ..... |
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over a year ago
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"I agree with you... The funny part is the most aggrogant ones would never get a date in the vanilla world but there are people here will meet them, blow smoke up their arses and stroke their ego...This applies to cpls and singles...Swinging should be fun and lighthearted not full of aggrogant people who wudnt get a ride at a Funfair ..... "
So true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with you... The funny part is the most aggrogant ones would never get a date in the vanilla world but there are people here will meet them, blow smoke up their arses and stroke their ego...This applies to cpls and singles...Swinging should be fun and lighthearted not full of aggrogant people who wudnt get a ride at a Funfair ..... "
Brilliant and so very very true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them."
Mine does ..
1. Must be a Woman (very important)
2. Must have GSOH ( important)
3. No Drama ( definitely important )
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4. Good Kisser ( without that no play )
lololol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Mine does ..
1. Must be a Woman (very important)
2. Must have GSOH ( important)
3. No Drama ( definitely important )
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4. Good Kisser ( without that no play )
lololol
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You arrogant so and so how dare you expect them to be a woman lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I view my profile more of a hostage list of demands
People are here for a variety of different reasons...just because it's a swingers site full of like minded people does not guarantee we all want the same thing. It is for clarity and to show part of your personality I think.
Op I get what you are saying but maybe view it as a time saving feature of fab.
I find it annoying when someone messages me that obviously has not read my profile, that's my pet peeve |
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"Sorry dont get this . Ialways look for face pic first for me theres no point chatting if i see no attraction . "
Some of us don't photograph well (or believe we don't) and think we look better in person.
For that reason I dread sending face pics and on many occasions get rebuked when I do. So I prefer to chat a bit first, and let my personality sell myself and hopefully they'll overlook my physical shortcomings.
Seems to work for me. |
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry dont get this . Ialways look for face pic first for me theres no point chatting if i see no attraction .
Some of us don't photograph well (or believe we don't) and think we look better in person.
For that reason I dread sending face pics and on many occasions get rebuked when I do. So I prefer to chat a bit first, and let my personality sell myself and hopefully they'll overlook my physical shortcomings.
Seems to work for me. "
I agree. This is how it should be...... I have met plenty of guys who look a whole lot better in reality!!! |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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I have been knocked back because of my face pic several times or even because of my hair colour, but hey its life.
Its fun when you meet them face to face at a meet and greet or night out and their attitude softens a bit, or in some cases i have gone on to play with them at a later date.
But its life in here. The girls can be demanding and some very demanding but if thats not for you then give them space and focus your attention somewhere else.
It only takes meeting the odd good one now and again to make all the effort so worth it. |
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over a year ago
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"I have been knocked back because of my face pic several times or even because of my hair colour, but hey its life.
Its fun when you meet them face to face at a meet and greet or night out and their attitude softens a bit, or in some cases i have gone on to play with them at a later date.
But its life in here. The girls can be demanding and some very demanding but if thats not for you then give them space and focus your attention somewhere else.
It only takes meeting the odd good one now and again to make all the effort so worth it."
Brill and attractive attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry dont get this . Ialways look for face pic first for me theres no point chatting if i see no attraction .
Some of us don't photograph well (or believe we don't) and think we look better in person.
For that reason I dread sending face pics and on many occasions get rebuked when I do. So I prefer to chat a bit first, and let my personality sell myself and hopefully they'll overlook my physical shortcomings.
Seems to work for me. "
Completely agree has been said few times to me my pictures don't do me justice (nice compliment to get) and just wonder why that is sometimes caused it is me in pics lolol... |
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over a year ago
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them."
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Asking for a face pic right away is arguably just as much an accepted filter as setting your age range or blocking a certain gender; if you're not the kind of person who'd be comfortable doing so then you're each saving each other time.
I've had messages stop, blocks occur, after sending pics but that just means we weren't compatible and wouldn't have met anyway so no big deal
If everyone wasn't comfortable 'giving in' to such a demand then it wouldn't be made but there are obviously those who are happy to; that might arguably be the personality trait the person would be looking for/attracted to.
If you're not one of them, move on and focus your attention on others. Time spent questioning something, is time that could be spent getting to know someone else |
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"Asking for a face pic right away is arguably just as much an accepted filter as setting your age range or blocking a certain gender; if you're not the kind of person who'd be comfortable doing so then you're each saving each other time.
I've had messages stop, blocks occur, after sending pics but that just means we weren't compatible and wouldn't have met anyway so no big deal
If everyone wasn't comfortable 'giving in' to such a demand then it wouldn't be made but there are obviously those who are happy to; that might arguably be the personality trait the person would be looking for/attracted to.
If you're not one of them, move on and focus your attention on others. Time spent questioning something, is time that could be spent getting to know someone else "
Rock of sense as always |
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over a year ago
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
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Articulate, intelligent, and very sexy...... Great qualities lovely lady.... Btw love the shows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you Sarcy Pants and ignore John...he is biased as he loves my mouth
Am biased. Not gonna lie.
Oh, you guys! Such messers! "
Lol love having the Craic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When did this thread become a Madame B appreciation thread the Arrogance of it all xxx "
When I added it to my arrogant list of demands now kiss my ass Scotty lol |
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"I saw a ladies profile yesterday who said...
Send me your face pic of you're messaging. I won't send face pics. You'll see me if I decided to meet you.
Oh how I laughed "
Still say she got loads of replies just because she's female! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
Articulate, intelligent, and very sexy...... Great qualities lovely lady.... Btw love the shows "
Aww thank you
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"I saw a ladies profile yesterday who said...
Send me your face pic of you're messaging. I won't send face pics. You'll see me if I decided to meet you.
Oh how I laughed
Still say she got loads of replies just because she's female! "
Have to agree. Sometimes I wish you had to work harder for a meet. I must say that I do love the chase - ''tis half the fun and a wonderful ego boost when you get what you want. |
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"I saw a ladies profile yesterday who said...
Send me your face pic of you're messaging. I won't send face pics. You'll see me if I decided to meet you.
Oh how I laughed
Still say she got loads of replies just because she's female!
Have to agree. Sometimes I wish you had to work harder for a meet. I must say that I do love the chase - ''tis half the fun and a wonderful ego boost when you get what you want. "
It's also a kick in the balls when you chase but never get to catch....but you gotta move on.... |
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over a year ago
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
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I agree people are entitled to clarify their likes and dislikes as obviously everyone has a preference of who they would like to meet, I was more refering to profiles of women stating if you're not hot and have muscles move along or if their not above a certain amount of inches etc that to me comes across arrogant so while they are entitled to state their preference could it not be worded in a nicer way? If a man's profile stated if you're not hot with a fit body that can deep throat move along I'm sure he would be called arrogant and shallow. It shouldn't be different for either gender, a bit of respect and humbleness goes along way imo |
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
I agree people are entitled to clarify their likes and dislikes as obviously everyone has a preference of who they would like to meet, I was more refering to profiles of women stating if you're not hot and have muscles move along or if their not above a certain amount of inches etc that to me comes across arrogant so while they are entitled to state their preference could it not be worded in a nicer way? If a man's profile stated if you're not hot with a fit body that can deep throat move along I'm sure he would be called arrogant and shallow. It shouldn't be different for either gender, a bit of respect and humbleness goes along way imo "
That is people's preferences and if not worded nicely shows ignorance more than arrogance IMO.
Someone stating unless you are a ten like me shows vanity. Someone saying this is my preference is different. We all have preferences and that is our prerogative, how it is worded on your own profile is also your own choice. I agree being nice costs nothing but disagree that it is only women being arrogant when they clearly list a preference.
If you are not that person's preference, that is not personal just them having a very clear type... I do conceed that some people could word it a little less harshly but both genders but again personally I view that as great clarity also. |
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
I agree people are entitled to clarify their likes and dislikes as obviously everyone has a preference of who they would like to meet, I was more refering to profiles of women stating if you're not hot and have muscles move along or if their not above a certain amount of inches etc that to me comes across arrogant so while they are entitled to state their preference could it not be worded in a nicer way? If a man's profile stated if you're not hot with a fit body that can deep throat move along I'm sure he would be called arrogant and shallow. It shouldn't be different for either gender, a bit of respect and humbleness goes along way imo
That is people's preferences and if not worded nicely shows ignorance more than arrogance IMO.
Someone stating unless you are a ten like me shows vanity. Someone saying this is my preference is different. We all have preferences and that is our prerogative, how it is worded on your own profile is also your own choice. I agree being nice costs nothing but disagree that it is only women being arrogant when they clearly list a preference.
If you are not that person's preference, that is not personal just them having a very clear type... I do conceed that some people could word it a little less harshly but both genders but again personally I view that as great clarity also. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile to a tee. I have to say I keep meaning to change it but I'm unavailable for meets atm so no point updating it now .
I come across as having a big ego but that's just me having a laugh.. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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Speaking as someone who wouldn't make it as a movie star if someone has send pic with first msg I do. Their preference. Often my loss
As for chatting a good bit first and selling yourself I thought that was what the forums are for |
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"My profile to a tee. I have to say I keep meaning to change it but I'm unavailable for meets atm so no point updating it now .
I come across as having a big ego but that's just me having a laugh.."
Yeah, you came across as a bit of a wagon at first but I can see the humour!!. I like the ' if I friend zone ya, you're staying there'
Getting plenty of tips here for my profile!
I'm sure you're not arrogant at all, so don't go changing |
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As long as they read my terms and conditions booklet which is laminated and posted out before each meet and sign the consent form I'm grand, I also provide the safety gear including harness an eye goggles which are to be worn at all times. |
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"As long as they read my terms and conditions booklet which is laminated and posted out before each meet and sign the consent form I'm grand, I also provide the safety gear including harness an eye goggles which are to be worn at all times. "
Will there be digital copies available? Can I subscribe to updates?  |
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"I totally agree with this and I hate to say it but I think it's mostly women it's like they think there's so many men here that they can be completely rude and arrogant but men will still want to meet them. I've never seen a man's profile yet that has a list of demands attached before you can contact them.
Some people of both sexes come across arrogant in their profiles, I don't think arrogance is gender neutral. The ratio of women to men on the site is unbalanced and women do get more males mailing which can lead to a false sense of importance depending on the personality which in my opinion was already there prior to writing their profile on fab so again for me a useful filter.
As for certain likes and dislikes being viewed as a list of demands, I don't agree with that point as it is a necessary part of fab for single men, women and couple's, that is why their is a tick box of likes included above the profile.
I feel because the single guy's are outnumber, a lot of them tend to be less selective in order to get a meet sadly this is how it is due to numbers more than personal likes.
We use the filters to block certain incompatibilities too as if we didn't it would be total chaos. Personally I think clarity is good and as for the ones being arrogant about it...just move along and be grateful for the clarity their arrogance has shown you.
I agree people are entitled to clarify their likes and dislikes as obviously everyone has a preference of who they would like to meet, I was more refering to profiles of women stating if you're not hot and have muscles move along or if their not above a certain amount of inches etc that to me comes across arrogant so while they are entitled to state their preference could it not be worded in a nicer way? If a man's profile stated if you're not hot with a fit body that can deep throat move along I'm sure he would be called arrogant and shallow. It shouldn't be different for either gender, a bit of respect and humbleness goes along way imo
That is people's preferences and if not worded nicely shows ignorance more than arrogance IMO.
Someone stating unless you are a ten like me shows vanity. Someone saying this is my preference is different. We all have preferences and that is our prerogative, how it is worded on your own profile is also your own choice. I agree being nice costs nothing but disagree that it is only women being arrogant when they clearly list a preference.
If you are not that person's preference, that is not personal just them having a very clear type... I do conceed that some people could word it a little less harshly but both genders but again personally I view that as great clarity also. "
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"Sorry dont get this . Ialways look for face pic first for me theres no point chatting if i see no attraction .
Some of us don't photograph well (or believe we don't) and think we look better in person.
For that reason I dread sending face pics and on many occasions get rebuked when I do. So I prefer to chat a bit first, and let my personality sell myself and hopefully they'll overlook my physical shortcomings.
Seems to work for me. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suppose you can choose to share or not OP.
Couples/single females use the face pic request as an additional filter because of the amount of mail they get.
I could be incorrect? |
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"As long as they read my terms and conditions booklet which is laminated and posted out before each meet and sign the consent form I'm grand, I also provide the safety gear including harness an eye goggles which are to be worn at all times.
Will there be digital copies available? Can I subscribe to updates? "
it's on www.thisshitcantbelegal/holyfuck.com |
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"As long as they read my terms and conditions booklet which is laminated and posted out before each meet and sign the consent form I'm grand, I also provide the safety gear including harness an eye goggles which are to be worn at all times.
Will there be digital copies available? Can I subscribe to updates? it's on www.thisshitcantbelegal/holyfuck.com"
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"I agree with you... The funny part is the most aggrogant ones would never get a date in the vanilla world but there are people here will meet them, blow smoke up their arses and stroke their ego...This applies to cpls and singles...Swinging should be fun and lighthearted not full of aggrogant people who wudnt get a ride at a Funfair ..... "
I'm arrogant. I'm very particular about who I want to meet, I won't lower my standards and that's that.
I think I am pretty awesome, despite zero proof.
I think I am a good lover (again without proof)
But I'm not ignorant. I'm polite. Relatively reasonable. I reply to 99% of messages. I make zero demands. Zero pressure.
If you want me to see your face you will send me a photo. If not, guess what, you won't send me one. Let people move at their own pace.
The problem isn't arrogance it's ignorance in my humble opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As long as they read my terms and conditions booklet which is laminated and posted out before each meet and sign the consent form I'm grand, I also provide the safety gear including harness an eye goggles which are to be worn at all times. "
Poes law in action with this one.....
Nice boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My profile to a tee. I have to say I keep meaning to change it but I'm unavailable for meets atm so no point updating it now .
I come across as having a big ego but that's just me having a laugh..
Yeah, you came across as a bit of a wagon at first but I can see the humour!!. I like the ' if I friend zone ya, you're staying there'
Getting plenty of tips here for my profile!
I'm sure you're not arrogant at all, so don't go changing"
Haha, thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think it's arrogance.I ask for a face pic as I have to be attracted to someone firstly. What's the point in chatting and no attraction personally I think it's a waste of my time and theirs. |
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The ironic thing is I always feel these women are shooting themselves in the foot. The guys who are popular and do well are very unlikely to bother with such high demands and would be turned off by the arrogance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we tend to go with personality if someone spends the time and Effort in sending a lovely message or has good manners we always give them the time of day and write back at least. we get a lot of mail and they could be goodlooking and all that but if the message is rude or is targeted at just one of us we move on they could look like brad pitt |
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"I don't think it's arrogance.I ask for a face pic as I have to be attracted to someone firstly. What's the point in chatting and no attraction personally I think it's a waste of my time and theirs."
Do you send a pic? |
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"I agree with you... The funny part is the most aggrogant ones would never get a date in the vanilla world but there are people here will meet them, blow smoke up their arses and stroke their ego...This applies to cpls and singles...Swinging should be fun and lighthearted not full of aggrogant people who wudnt get a ride at a Funfair .....
Brilliant and so very very true."
Id second that , no sooner than yesterday had a chat with a lass & on her second message can you please send me a face pix . I politely said i dont on here & then blocked .
The bin soon fill's up with them i guess. |
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We ask single guys for a face pic, she meets quite often but as she's not looking for a relationship it's all about the looks.
What I find arrogant are the emails from guys that go along the lines of: I know you were advertising for a black 6'2" under 30's man but I'm a white 5'1" 53 year old guy, I just thought I'd chance my arm!! |
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I was gonna copy & paste Madam B comment but there was too many that mirror my views, I agree with all she's said.
My profiles my selling point plus lists my preferences & I think it's an equal mix of what Iv to offer & what I'd expect. I agree some profiles are so demanding/diva'ish & it can be said too for some ppls behaviour on the forums. |
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"I don't think it's arrogance.I ask for a face pic as I have to be attracted to someone firstly. What's the point in chatting and no attraction personally I think it's a waste of my time and theirs."
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over a year ago
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It's actually not that easy to write a female profile with no negative sentence in it and stating certain preferences without sounding a bit over the top. However I think it's also in your own interest to find some balance in order not to sound too much up oneself unless that's really your personality. |
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"It's actually not that easy to write a female profile with no negative sentence in it and stating certain preferences without sounding a bit over the top. However I think it's also in your own interest to find some balance in order not to sound too much up oneself unless that's really your personality. "
Very true...wud like to think my profile is for clarity..more dan a list of demands. As we all have different preferences.
Yet..in last hour had msg say "what's ur deal then". After I asked Wat do u mean...I received an over da top rant message..nd blocked.
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"I don't think it's arrogance.I ask for a face pic as I have to be attracted to someone firstly. What's the point in chatting and no attraction personally I think it's a waste of my time and theirs.
Do you send a pic?"
Yes if they ask |
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"It's actually not that easy to write a female profile with no negative sentence in it and stating certain preferences without sounding a bit over the top. However I think it's also in your own interest to find some balance in order not to sound too much up oneself unless that's really your personality. "
I'd say it's not particularly specific to the female profile. I'd apply what you said to any profile and in many respects no matter how it's written your bound to offend some on fab. I wouldn't worry too much about it. One persons advice on a profile wouldn't match anothers. ..we're all different and are all looking different things. |
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Manners are free, but perhaps some rather a designer label attached..
Unfortunately they haven't produced them yet. Pick and choose, there is more to be gained by reading a profile, the more imaginative and intelligent then the less the pic matters.. |
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"It's actually not that easy to write a female profile with no negative sentence in it and stating certain preferences without sounding a bit over the top. However I think it's also in your own interest to find some balance in order not to sound too much up oneself unless that's really your personality. "
Well said but applies to both sexes.
I love coming across a funny profile that has covered all that they are looking for on fab through humour. If we skipped the do's and don't's we would be buried under mail that doesn't apply to our needs. Stating a preference is not a swipe at anyone, it's a like. How you state it though can be misconstrued by other's when not carefully worded.
Our profiles are our fab CV's...a chance to highlight ourselves in a positive manner that say's this is me, this is what I like and don't like. When used properly it's a great introduction to the person you are contacting.
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