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Boundaries: How far do you push them?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi there,
I have been pondering the sometimes wonderful new experiences you can experience when you push a few boundaries, discovering some joyous new thrill, sensation or fantasy that could change the direction of your sexual evolution.
I am wondering how much people feel they have evolved sexually over recent times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 20 years with my wife. We have evolved massively in that time. Even in the last 10 years there has been huge changes. If you don't keep trying to improve then you will just get bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always considered myself open minded to trying new things but at my pace. The last year alone has been a thrilling year of discovery right up to today and I am still smiling 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The list of what I have tried wouldn't be hugely long but the list of what I would never try would be very small. Same sex stuff is about it, well except with Trump for €1m. Chemistry is the key really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The list of what I have tried wouldn't be hugely long but the list of what I would never try would be very small. Same sex stuff is about it, well except with Trump for €1m. Chemistry is the key really. "
Keep an open mind and bend over...the million is ours |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The list of what I have tried wouldn't be hugely long but the list of what I would never try would be very small. Same sex stuff is about it, well except with Trump for €1m. Chemistry is the key really.
Keep an open mind and bend over...the million is ours"
Never miss a buisness opportunity
Roll up roll up see Donald take it up the ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The list of what I have tried wouldn't be hugely long but the list of what I would never try would be very small. Same sex stuff is about it, well except with Trump for €1m. Chemistry is the key really.
Keep an open mind and bend over...the million is ours"
You'll need to give me some TLC after it to help me get over it.;-)
Although hopefully a good ride of me will mellow him out so I'd be doing the world a service.  I'd be like a modern day Gandhi. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The list of what I have tried wouldn't be hugely long but the list of what I would never try would be very small. Same sex stuff is about it, well except with Trump for €1m. Chemistry is the key really. "
I was once relatively "straight" in my preference and it would have been nice to get €1m to open a new path of exploration , Although not from/with Trump, unless I can see the cash first.
But my point is I had no idea how good -good sex can be with another guy, or girl or couple could be for that matter. There are so many things to do and try you should never rule anything out.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The list of what I have tried wouldn't be hugely long but the list of what I would never try would be very small. Same sex stuff is about it, well except with Trump for €1m. Chemistry is the key really.
Keep an open mind and bend over...the million is ours
You'll need to give me some TLC after it to help me get over it.;-)
Although hopefully a good ride of me will mellow him out so I'd be doing the world a service. I'd be like a modern day Gandhi. "
Good man take it for the team and save the world from a lunatic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi there,
I have been pondering the sometimes wonderful new experiences you can experience when you push a few boundaries, discovering some joyous new thrill, sensation or fantasy that could change the direction of your sexual evolution.
I am wondering how much people feel they have evolved sexually over recent times. "
I have come a long way in three years...... I could never go back to my parallel world but feel I am richer for it and a more tolerant and interesting person...... Will have wonderful memories when I am no longer mobile    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As far as I feel confident in trying it's been a learning curve for finding how far I want to go it's like every time I take a step I want to take another one.
My mind has changed alot and it's still has to be pushed a bit more I can see this path going on for while as long as I don't overstep my lines |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't push my boundaries on here. I've placed them there for very good reasons and I do remind myself ever so often why. 
For me this isn't a place for pushing boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't push my boundaries on here. I've placed them there for very good reasons and I do remind myself ever so often why.
For me this isn't a place for pushing boundaries. "
I agree. There are things I don't want to do - I don't want the boundaries crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv pushed my boundaries years ago and now know what I like so don't feel the need to do more. Just do more of what I like"
I'm nearly at this stage one or two more things and that's me done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Again I am open to trying new things which I feel has kept it interesting and helped me evolve more sexually in the last year alone and that has been very liberating but there are some things that require a huge amount of trust that I wouldn't do on a first meet or group situation but happy to try with my partner in passion.
Not all fantasies have been that enjoyable but at least I have tried them out and as for the ones that are mmmm I keep repeating or adding too them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Iv pushed my boundaries years ago and now know what I like so don't feel the need to do more. Just do more of what I like
I'm nearly at this stage one or two more things and that's me done "
When you say "that's me done", do you mean you won't experiment or indulge a partner in trying something new?
I think our sexual desires and predilections are constantly changing and can meander somewhat overtime. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Again I am open to trying new things which I feel has kept it interesting and helped me evolve more sexually in the last year alone and that has been very liberating but there are some things that require a huge amount of trust that I wouldn't do on a first meet or group situation but happy to try with my partner in passion.
Not all fantasies have been that enjoyable but at least I have tried them out and as for the ones that are mmmm I keep repeating or adding too them."
I agree Trust is a massive element in pushing those boundaries boundaries further.
That and a little nudge, slip of the tongue, brush of the hand or slap of the ass to make you go "oooohhh that's different! Do that again please!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't push my boundaries on here. I've placed them there for very good reasons and I do remind myself ever so often why.
For me this isn't a place for pushing boundaries.
I agree. There are things I don't want to do - I don't want the boundaries crossed"
Glad someone gets that.
I'll try new things...they don't mean I've pushed boundies. I'm a risk taker but not in this area of life. Outside of this I know my limitations but push myself all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are boundaries??  "
Limitations that you impose on yourself based on your preferences, experience, tastes, allergies, phobias, moral or religious beliefs, etc
The point at which you want to put on your pants and get out of there asap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are boundaries??
Limitations that you impose on yourself based on your preferences, experience, tastes, allergies, phobias, moral or religious beliefs, etc
The point at which you want to put on your pants and get out of there asap. "
Sarcasm...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are boundaries??
Limitations that you impose on yourself based on your preferences, experience, tastes, allergies, phobias, moral or religious beliefs, etc
The point at which you want to put on your pants and get out of there asap.
Sarcasm... "
Definitely not sarcasm Kitten+, I gave my interpretation of what are Boundaries and gave a tongue in cheek example. There was no sarcasm intended nor should it be implied. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I certainly have sexually evolved over the last few years but it has nothing to do with pushing my borders, it has more to do with experiencing amazing sex with gorgeous gentlemen who have the ability to bring sex to a different level altogether. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive all ways had a good healty sex life but im recently divorced after 28 years and joined fab at 50 im having the time of my life "
Sounds fantastic, go you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I certainly have sexually evolved over the last few years but it has nothing to do with pushing my borders, it has more to do with experiencing amazing sex with gorgeous gentlemen who have the ability to bring sex to a different level altogether. "
But with women |
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