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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?"
Why not it's when they first see you in reality. Surely you want to make a decent impression |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suspenders, and heels. Catching a glance of the top of the suspenders as she is sitting down, imagining what else she has on and how good she'd look when she is out of all of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?
Why not it's when they first see you in reality. Surely you want to make a decent impression"
I make an effort with how I look every day, if they didn't like that... neeeeexxxxxt!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fantacy would be heals and 3 quarter lenth jacket with nottin under it. Maybe drop a spood and give snakey flash duren the coffee lol but i wouldnt be fussy either way. What ever is comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely it wouldn't really matter if it's just a coffee?
Why not it's when they first see you in reality. Surely you want to make a decent impression
I make an effort with how I look every day, if they didn't like that... neeeeexxxxxt! "
Good for you  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend. "
Had a little giggle imagining going for a coffee meet with the clothes I had on two days ago when I met a friend for coffee, looking like a builder with a hat, dirty trousers and jacket and heavy boots... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more
Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit  "
I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more
Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit
I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe"
I'd encourage that kinda thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more
Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more
Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit
I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe"
Once they have the buttons on the sides so I can rip em off |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it "
Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend.
Had a little giggle imagining going for a coffee meet with the clothes I had on two days ago when I met a friend for coffee, looking like a builder with a hat, dirty trousers and jacket and heavy boots..."
Yes I can see a time and place for that |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it
Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me "
Why ???
Once met a girl in gym gear but never noticed it because her eyes captivated me trying to figure out what was going on inside her head was a instant hard on proving to be a better experience then we had planned
As I said what ever u feel sexy in |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing I deffo believe first impressions are important, you gotta leave them wanting more
Ha ha fuck that... I'll go in me tracksuit
I got tight fitting track bottoms but a bit too revealing so not sure it's safe
I'd encourage that kinda thing! "
Ffs and here's me ironing my O'Neil shorts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it
Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me
Why ???
Once met a girl in gym gear but never noticed it because her eyes captivated me trying to figure out what was going on inside her head was a instant hard on proving to be a better experience then we had planned
As I said what ever u feel sexy in "
Ok... fleecy pjs it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whatever she is comfortable in for the occasion. If she feels uncomfortable then it'll come across and could be misread as not too interested as well. What been said by others and I concur that their face is first contact...eyes and smile...If someone is more concerned about what they are wearing then I'd say they were a bit shallow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whatever they'd normally wear when going for a coffee with a friend.
Had a little giggle imagining going for a coffee meet with the clothes I had on two days ago when I met a friend for coffee, looking like a builder with a hat, dirty trousers and jacket and heavy boots..."
That's the thing, I've no doubt you still looked hot. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it
Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me
Why ???
Once met a girl in gym gear but never noticed it because her eyes captivated me trying to figure out what was going on inside her head was a instant hard on proving to be a better experience then we had planned
As I said what ever u feel sexy in
Ok... fleecy pjs it is "
Ffs at least complete the ensemble with rollers |
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"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it
Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me
Why ???
Once met a girl in gym gear but never noticed it because her eyes captivated me trying to figure out what was going on inside her head was a instant hard on proving to be a better experience then we had planned
As I said what ever u feel sexy in "
gym gear  I'd feel a bit scruffy I'd throw on jeans . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing "
If it was tight running gear I'd be headed to the nearest pharmacy for tissues and chloroform!!  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"First impressions mean every thing after mailing and getting to know someone u build up a pic in your head from pics and mails so I love to see some of the personality I was chatting with if it's dressed to impress then that's a bonus.
I like to think I dress well even for coffee and that the other person would dress in what she's comfortable in feels sexy in and if that's sexy undies under a long coat with heels then so be it
Cj... you'd be sorely disappointed with me
Why ???
Once met a girl in gym gear but never noticed it because her eyes captivated me trying to figure out what was going on inside her head was a instant hard on proving to be a better experience then we had planned
As I said what ever u feel sexy in gym gear I'd feel a bit scruffy I'd throw on jeans ."
Who's scruffy is he on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If meeting me on my lunch break it will be my work attire, smart and casual.
Outside that time, usually be in gym gear.
Get me as I am, no point pretending that I am something I am not. And I can feel sexy no matter what I am wearing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gym gear for the win "
I actually wore this for a social during the summer. He was fucking delighted with himself because he had a bit of a Lycra fetish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's whatever the person is comfortable in your meeting cause u like the person so she or he dosent have to blow u away nice chat and maybe a lingering kiss and use will be wanting each other more then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I usually wear whatever I'm comfortable in. So that could be jeans and top or something. Once I wore a jumper and he was disappointed I wasn't showing off the boobs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When meeting a lady for a coffee what do you like to see them wearing
If it was tight running gear I'd be headed to the nearest pharmacy for tissues and chloroform!! "
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When meeting a lady for a meet i like to see them smartly dressed not over the top but lets be honest first 30 seconds we humans judge a person by their looks i always dress well for a meet and expect the same in return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever they're comfortable in,nothing worse than wearing something yer not quite feeling comfortable in.especially as they might be nervous already about the meet.i quite like a woman in a nice fitted pair of jeans and a sexy top.. |
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Whatever makes the lady feel comfortable/confident/sexy, depending how she wants to be.
If it's genuinely just coffee, then surely it's mostly about the conversation, so she should not be under any pressure to impress. Usually at that stage you've likely seen a lot of her naked, so should not be overly concerned about what shes wearing.
Obviously if she turns up looking like one of the Fat Slags, then best the guy is wearing his trainers for a speedy getaway |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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MissCarr ... if a woman is comfortable in her own skin, she will ooze confidence, sexiness and hopefully after the coffee, she'll just ehhhh oooze
We all like to impress, but if it's a casual coffee, casual attire should be the order of the day.
If it were a last minute/spur o the moment meet, you'd not have time to put thought into what ur wearing... in fairnesss though, it wouldn't last long in u anyway hehe  |
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1st impressions are already made thru the fab profile so coffee meets are just to confirm a persons real & to check if there's chemistry. I don't go scruffy by any means but I don't make any unnecessary effort. I go comfortable & wearing whatever suits me (if it's cold jeans & jumper, work is my uniform etc), it's only half hour vanilla meet so il not go sexified. Also works both ways, I wouldn't be bothered by his attire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If meeting me on my lunch break it will be my work attire, smart and casual.
Outside that time, usually be in gym gear.
Get me as I am, no point pretending that I am something I am not. And I can feel sexy no matter what I am wearing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually for coffee meets it's skinny jeans and a top but sexy undies on too
Just in case lol
I don't wear short skirts and stockings so wouldnt dream of wearing them for first meet.
Then again the guys don't be in their jocks waiting for me either so guess we're all happy lol
Once he smells good and looks good I'm happy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1st impressions are already made thru the fab profile so coffee meets are just to confirm a persons real & to check if there's chemistry. I don't go scruffy by any means but I don't make any unnecessary effort. I go comfortable & wearing whatever suits me (if it's cold jeans & jumper, work is my uniform etc), it's only half hour vanilla meet so il not go sexified. Also works both ways, I wouldn't be bothered by his attire. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1st impressions are already made thru the fab profile so coffee meets are just to confirm a persons real & to check if there's chemistry. I don't go scruffy by any means but I don't make any unnecessary effort. I go comfortable & wearing whatever suits me (if it's cold jeans & jumper, work is my uniform etc), it's only half hour vanilla meet so il not go sexified. Also works both ways, I wouldn't be bothered by his attire. "
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Coming to this late...I like to see that some effort has been made. That's not to say that they should look like they're going to the Oscars. Could be sexy jeans and a nice top, could be a business suit; could be a skirt and blouse.
I always put some effort into my appearance for a meet, so if someone came up in their pyjamas or looking like they were just lounging round the house, I'd be disappointed.
Obviously if someone explained in advance that they were hurrying from work or whatever and wouldn't be dressed up, I'd understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Coming to this late...I like to see that some effort has been made. That's not to say that they should look like they're going to the Oscars. Could be sexy jeans and a nice top, could be a business suit; could be a skirt and blouse.
I always put some effort into my appearance for a meet, so if someone came up in their pyjamas or looking like they were just lounging round the house, I'd be disappointed.
Obviously if someone explained in advance that they were hurrying from work or whatever and wouldn't be dressed up, I'd understand. "
I'd just need time to slip into a pair of seamed stockings after work... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If meeting me on my lunch break it will be my work attire, smart and casual.
Outside that time, usually be in gym gear.
Get me as I am, no point pretending that I am something I am not. And I can feel sexy no matter what I am wearing
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Thought it was the guys job to make the woman feel sexy... ...have I been doing fab all wrong.... |
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