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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question for couples. Do you ever get a message along the lines of "hi. Does the Mrs have a singles account cause she looks like (insert user name)". It's happened three or four times. Just wondering is it the norm. Is it single guy tactics to open dialogue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a lot of couples with single profiles on here. It can get quite confusing sometimes. It's always nice when talking to a couple for them to say who is mailing and I like the honesty of saying we have single profiles or if a single profile to say they have a couple profile. Otherwise it just gets a bit shady like they're hiding something.
Because there's so much of it, that's probably why you're being asked if you have a single profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont have a single account very disrespectful to get messages from men saying are u such and such its so upsetting mrs osmium"
Block single guys then...  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I dont have a single account very disrespectful to get messages from men saying are u such and such its so upsetting mrs osmium
Block single guys then... "
Think they meet single guys
Try not getting so upset by what some anon randomer says
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of couples with single profiles on here. It can get quite confusing sometimes. It's always nice when talking to a couple for them to say who is mailing and I like the honesty of saying we have single profiles or if a single profile to say they have a couple profile. Otherwise it just gets a bit shady like they're hiding something.
Because there's so much of it, that's probably why you're being asked if you have a single profile."
I find this is where kik comes into its own (especially when chatting to couples) Set up a group chat and you can speak to both, plus I find chatting through an instant messenger app a more fluid conversation, plus they're much easier to flirt on too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's simply lads chancing their arm to see if the female half of the couple will meet on their own.
Unfortunately won't matter if you spell it out in black and white on your profile that you don't meet separately as most don't read the profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We just got a message suggesting that single guys do it because of my sexuality. That a couple with a bi male is off putting. If that's the case why message at all? We've never once thought my sexuality could be an issue to others. We don't meet TVs or TSs so we don't message them. We don't see them as anything other than people here to live out a fantasy or two. We see every single person on this site as equal. We don't judge a single person on here. If your brand of vodka isn't for us then we don't take a sip. We would never dream of being underhanded in any way. We see a couple with an attractive female but hold no attraction to the male, we wouldn't message to ask if she played alone or had another account. We just wouldn't message. It's disrespectful. It can cause heartache between people. We don't like having filters up but maybe that time has come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We just got a message suggesting that single guys do it because of my sexuality. That a couple with a bi male is off putting. If that's the case why message at all? We've never once thought my sexuality could be an issue to others. We don't meet TVs or TSs so we don't message them. We don't see them as anything other than people here to live out a fantasy or two. We see every single person on this site as equal. We don't judge a single person on here. If your brand of vodka isn't for us then we don't take a sip. We would never dream of being underhanded in any way. We see a couple with an attractive female but hold no attraction to the male, we wouldn't message to ask if she played alone or had another account. We just wouldn't message. It's disrespectful. It can cause heartache between people. We don't like having filters up but maybe that time has come. "
Well that's just wrong, if that's an issue then don't message at all. You would think that on a site like this that people would be more open and accepting. If someone is not for you just don't write to them, it's simple whether that be down to physical attraction or sexual orientation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See you seem like an intelligent, loving and thoughtful couple who don't like seeing the other hurt or upset. While fab is a "swinging" or "sex" site most single males that join are not really interested in you or your partners relationship just in ( fun ). I'm saying Most because I know there's exceptions. Don't take the messages to heart because as has been said most use anything just to get a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We noticed a single females profile with same pics as a verified couple. We contacted them saying the above. Turned out it was the female half doing a separate profile.
Does happen. Have seen it on some of the UK profiles (fakes) with Irish persons pics and vice versa. |
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