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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok..understand the points of view..on here without other halfs knowledge..can agree would be decisive..just gauging if that's fully across the board here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"without partners knowledge then yes cheating
with partners knowledge then no not cheating just an open relationship
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The majority of "single" guys are married or in a relationship could be the same for a lot of the "single" female profiles too.fabs not a place for Morales |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"without partners knowledge then yes cheating
with partners knowledge then no not cheating just an open relationship
The majority of "single" guys are married or in a relationship could be the same for a lot of the "single" female profiles too.fabs not a place for Morales "
As a single man I don't want to lumped in with those married "single" guys with no morals.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok..understand the points of view..on here without other halfs knowledge..can agree would be decisive..just gauging if that's fully across the board here"
Its not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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good to hear..I guess it's hard to put on profiles..but some sound as morale preaching very conservative..maybe other parts of the country..must be the Ulster in us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes... we're an enlightened bunch. Ya know.... for swingers 
Pmsl ... The enlightened ones did Fetac level 6 in swinging ... "
Bet they all got distinctions too |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"Yes... we're an enlightened bunch. Ya know.... for swingers
Pmsl ... The enlightened ones did Fetac level 6 in swinging ...
Bet they all got distinctions too "
Don't u know it ! .. sure everyone is the business ... online that is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes... we're an enlightened bunch. Ya know.... for swingers
Pmsl ... The enlightened ones did Fetac level 6 in swinging ...
Bet they all got distinctions too
Don't u know it ! .. sure everyone is the business ... online that is "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my reading of the forums in the last year it's seen as cheating if a married man is on here alone ,, but it's ok for a merried woman ,,, I know this will be rubbished but read over the posts on this subject over the last 12 months |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious...is married really a taboo here on fab? Or do most still just see it as cheating"
Just see it as cheating?
Is the taboo fab, or cheating??... if it happens here does it not constitute cheating to you OP?
Personally none of my business, but pretty bamboozled that the assumption implies that no moral compass is necessary on a sex site?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some here practice ethical non monogamy. Some don't.
I don't see a double standard between men and women. I just see supply and demand. There are more men who cheat because there are just more men.
In the real world the ratio of men and women who cheat on partners is pretty much equal. 1 in 5 kids don't have the DNA of their "father".
On here you can be ethical and only pick genuinely available partners or you can have a larger pool of potential partners and justify it to yourself however you want.
Me, I don't want to judge people. I don't walk in their shoes. I don't know why they arrived at this point in their lives.
I choose to lure my wife to swinging. It took years. But it's been worth it. Not everyone can do that |
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Erm, it is cheating! 