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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a single male, I know that couples and females very much have the upper hand on here, and can pick and choose as they like.
But is it really too much to ask that if you take the time to write a message to them that they at least send some sort of a reply? Even if it is a simple "thanks but no thanks"?
And I'm not talking about one-liners, like a "hey sexy wanna fuck?" I mean proper messages where you go outta your way to make an effort!
There's nothing as frustrating as seeing by your sent messages that a message has been ready by the recipient, but there's bugger all reply.
Or maybe I'm just hoping for too much?
What's everyone else think?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yr hoping for too much
how do you think all those junk mail companies feel,they take the time n effort to organise,edit n print brochures n literature to post through yr letter box at home,only for you to put n the bin.
its a bit the same on here,some couples are literally inundated with messages,some good some not so good,but cant possibly answer them all,so simply delete
we have even found some we have took the time to say no thanks to,then ask why,or worse get very rude n personal.so we find it best just to delete the ones that dont interest us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand that there's an element of truth at least in that. And I can sympathize with the genuine people who are receiving so many messages.
I guess it's those 'spam' message senders who spoil it for the genuine ones.
Anyways, I'll not lose heart... Or sleep over it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont take offence at the non reply to an email saying hello. I understand fully that if you are getting dozens that its not sensible to expect a reply to them.
What does puggle me though is when you start exchanging emails and suddenly there is no reply. Had it this week. Chatting to a couple about meeting with me and a female friend.
Couple of emails bouncing back and forth and they asked where we were meeting.
I replied meeting in X hotel.. that was it, email was read, not replied to, not a dicky bird since.
Now that puggles me ... |
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By *ouple04Couple
over a year ago
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Tyroneguy dont take it as personal some people just wont reply.We are a couple and are in chat quite often and have been on cam yet sometimes when we go in chat and say hi all no one replies.A simple hi would do there to but you cant make people reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its simple mate there are alot of fakes on here no disrespect to the genuine peeps just take your time read their profile make sure your what they are looking for etc. also fakes usually disappear when you mention a meet. Doesnt mean you should get disheartened lots of real cool peeps out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i was referring to when he said he was sending emails back and forth you mention a meet they suddenly disappear sometimes off the site completely aslo said i wasn't talking about the actually genuine peeps just trying to help explain what can happen and trying to encourage him not to get too frustrated thats all. it probably happens too alot of couples too id assume maybe im wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just the single guys and couples it happens too. Happens to single females as well. The silence or the person you are mailing going AWOL. Fakes? What is a fake? I tend to put it down to cold feet
As to why some people don't reply to well thought out messages. Who knows One liners I bin. Text ones I bin. Ones from guys under 35 I bin. The rest I will read. And those will usually be replied to if the content is relevant to me
Don't despair. Keep on doing what you are doing. You will find people who you click with eventually. Remember quality not quantity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are three types of mails that frustrate us: one liner's (not funny one liner's, the kind that say wanna fuck or hi), copy and paste messages (sent same message to more than one person in the hope anyone will reply), and couples mailing who seem to be insincere (e.g. Single male posing as couple to see pic's, year on the site and no pictures, verifications or chat room/forum chat). I think its pretty obvious that females get the most messages. How could they possibly reply to each and every one. We're talking 20 mails when the girl logs in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to reply to most mails, but, sometimes when your in a hurry and cant reply, then, they dont get replied to.
If ya dont get a rply to a mail, just take it as a "no thanks" form the person your mailing.
We would send a load of mails out to couples also and wouldnt get replys from 30 - 40% at a rough guess. So, its definitely not just a singles thing.
We take it that theyre not interested, so we just move on.
One poit I would say is that people really should read profiles. When we had our profile "Active", and, when we had a big list of things we were looking for ( and when we did have pics on profile also lol ).. We still got mail from people who didnt fit wot we wanted.. and those ones.. well, they just got binned and no reply sent ( we did say that on profile - but, it still didnt stop them arriving ). That was so foooking frustrating!!!!
Anyhow. Keep sending mails.. reply to the mails u want.. and remember..
Emmerdale is fuckin brilliant !!!!
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