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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Robbed this from another forum
Yes or no? Personally I don't like to cuddle after a shag with a meet. Obviously it depends on the guy and I have with one or two but it's a bit too intimate for me.
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I think it would depend on the situation or the person, I'm not overly fond of cuddles after sex in general but if its particularly intense session or if the person successfully makes me come then usually they get a nice hug.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit, I'm a fan of a cuddle. I like a bit of a spoon sesh when falling asleep with a girl (big spoon obviously) but since I tend to mostly meet couples on fab, cuddling has never really been an issue for me here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope not with just a meet, once its over I show them the door.
If its with someone like a fb then I don't mind, but I do think its something that should b shared when two people have a bond, an intimate one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope not with just a meet, once its over I show them the door.
If its with someone like a fb then I don't mind, but I do think its something that should b shared when two people have a bond, an intimate one "
This ^^^^  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope not with just a meet, once its over I show them the door.
If its with someone like a fb then I don't mind, but I do think its something that should b shared when two people have a bond, an intimate one
This ^^^^ "
Its the only way.. When u cuddle someone n melt in their arms, that's the way its meant to be.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little
Sounds like you had a taste recently Ms E "
Taste of what  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little
I agree just better to come and go - - "
Yes I think so too  |
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"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little
I agree just better to come and go - -
Yes I think so too "
Post coital chat...awkward..#getmethefuckoutahere. - - |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little
I agree just better to come and go - -
Yes I think so too
Post coital chat...awkward..#getmethefuckoutahere. - - "
Well now I never mind a chat at all, it's the wrapped around each other thing that I find awkward  |
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"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little
I agree just better to come and go - -
Yes I think so too
Post coital chat...awkward..#getmethefuckoutahere. - -
Well now I never mind a chat at all, it's the wrapped around each other thing that I find awkward "
That was fun. I will call you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends completely on the meet...
Mostly i do like a cuddle and a chat that usually ends up in a giggle then a snog then a bit of something stirring again and we're off....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I agree with the bond aspect of it. I have some intimacy issues anyway so it makes feel a bit tense I'm not sure now why I started a thread about, people talking about spooning and falling sleep is making me sweat a little "
I must be on the opposite end of the spectum so. The thing I miss most, now that I'm single, is the intimacy. I can get everything else I need emotionally and physically from friends, family, FBs and fab meets but if I'm honest I do miss the closeness, "the intimacy" of sharing your life and yourself with someone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had a read through this and noticed it's mostly men who said they like to cuddle and women saying they don't. Not what i expected. I love a cuddle. My head on their chest, my arm around them or else playing with their chest hair and their arm around me rubbing my arm or my shoulder/back. Heaven. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends completely on the meet...
Mostly i do like a cuddle and a chat that usually ends up in a giggle then a snog then a bit of something stirring again and we're off.... "
This!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love cuddles after sex especially wit my reg we can lie there wrapped around each other and chathe and have a laugh then we start kissing and it starts becoming more again. It's very intimate I feel I'm a cuddly person as ya all can see in more ways then one lmao. Esp of the orgasm for us both has been intense it's heaven to cuddle up or if there's after been multiple orgasms which have happened a lot before
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to cuddle especially after a really intense playdate as i fall pretty hard out of subspace if i dont .but if its just a quickie then no I wont cuddle at all  |
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With friends with benefits I love a cuddle & giggle. But with Fabbers It doesn't bother me, if they can fuck me good then a cuddle isn't too much of an effort to give then, I do enjoy a cuddle after a rough session tho. |
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Call me old fashioned but do like the idea of mixing things up... lots of foreplay and tactile teasing before getting down and dirty with a good physical pounding then a warm embrace and friendly cuddle too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very much yes. I'd consider sex an intimate act for me so cuddling isn't a problem. Not too mention I'm normally far too tired to move. "
That was my first thought... I'll show you my private parts for you to play with and Ill suck your hidden bits that you don't show to every tom dick or fanny but cuddle noooooo that's just too intimate.
I'd cuddle as it's the prelude to more or its foreplay.
I know some won't kiss because it's too intimate. ..but i wouldn't meet if they don't kiss.... for me it's like having a veg burger. ..BURGERS ARE NOT VEG! ...They're patties....not burgers.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Robbed this from another forum
Yes or no? Personally I don't like to cuddle after a shag with a meet. Obviously it depends on the guy and I have with one or two but it's a bit too intimate for me.
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Mostly not, but there are one or two of my favourites that I love to cuddle  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a pretty affectionate person in normal every day life so it shocked me that some people didn't cuddle....
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I would consider myself an affectionate person. With a bf cuddling is great. I'm talking about a meet from here, rare that I'll indulge in cuddling then as most of the time I have just met them that night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples and girls I wouldn't cuddle after a play, and I rarely play with single guys now but if I do I definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples and girls I wouldn't cuddle after a play, and I rarely play with single guys now but if I do I definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles . "
"definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles "
Yo tambien Guapisima
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Just had a read through this and noticed it's mostly men who said they like to cuddle and women saying they don't. Not what i expected. I love a cuddle. My head on their chest, my arm around them or else playing with their chest hair and their arm around me rubbing my arm or my shoulder/back. Heaven. "
Yes, soooooo nice
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples and girls I wouldn't cuddle after a play, and I rarely play with single guys now but if I do I definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles .
"definitely would like the snog, giggles, spooning and cuddles "
Yo tambien Guapisima
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Gracias por lo de Guapisima  |
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