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Work affair should u or not???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by "
no she married
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, it will make you're work life awkward.it is that already after she told me lol"
Ah well since it's awkward already can it get much worse if you have sex with her  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is she hot?  yes very 
Do ye work next to each other or is there room to avoid if needed? Sure up to you. I've done it and wasn't awkward at all tbh "
we work next to each other I really want to fuck her lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by no she married "
Ooohh wait for the onslaught . Seriously though that's a bit awkward already |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, it will make you're work life awkward.it is that already after she told me lol
Ah well since it's awkward already can it get much worse if you have sex with her "
yeah fuck it I'm gonna do it time to put my big pants on lol |
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I know I do have a laugh on the forum but it honestly did happen to me with my ex husband and I would never put someone else through that pain. Finding out that someone you love is having an affair is the most physical heartbreaking pain that you can experience,especially if you have children, you not only ruin your loved ones life but also the innocent kids. There are plenty of single women out there to hook up with. Tell her to leave her husband and let him have the chance of finding someone who Loves him enough not to go behind his back, do you really want to get involved with someone like that? It's not worth turning someone's life upside down just for a quick shag. Good luck making your decision sweetie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have sex with women I respect, I don't respect cheaters so I wouldn't.
But since you might not have those same ideals I will say that you should consider the potential impact it will have on your work life if it becomes publically known. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you realy want too and she does just do it, I have before and the excitement is worth the hassle"
yes she do and she is really hot and I think she is 28 but I keep thinking why me has she a motive or do she genuinely like me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I should say no but fuck it... go for it. How do you know her husband doesn't know? Guys I meet outside fab know I'm married but don't ask any questions about it. At the end of the day noone can be blamed but her if she's cheating. As I tell guys if you get caught don't expect to me to lie for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I do have a laugh on the forum but it honestly did happen to me with my ex husband and I would never put someone else through that pain. Finding out that someone you love is having an affair is the most physical heartbreaking pain that you can experience,especially if you have children, you not only ruin your loved ones life but also the innocent kids. There are plenty of single women out there to hook up with. Tell her to leave her husband and let him have the chance of finding someone who Loves him enough not to go behind his back, do you really want to get involved with someone like that? It's not worth turning someone's life upside down just for a quick shag. Good luck making your decision sweetie x "
Well said, totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said above. Never shit on your own doorstep. It's bad news. You have so much potential drama being created by this for what? Just sex?? You can get that anywhere
If you thought it was a good idea you would have just done it. You came here looking for justification to do the wrong thing. Trust your own gut and stay away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had two sexual encounters with colleagues...
One about 10years ago was great and we're still real friends...
Another not so long ago..and it's very awkward.
Depends on the person and their attitude to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been their... done that! The sexual tension in work was ridiculous!! People picked up on it! But...it made it so much hotter! Couldn't get enough of eachother! Sexting through out the day,torturing eachother 
But no the risks you're taking! |
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I'm with SnowWhite on this. If you're both adults and it's just sex, little emotional ties other than for the time together, fuck each other.
However, if you two are a budding relationship waiting to happen, then probably not. You'll be bringing Homewrecker status and a lot more down on yourself.
Just a shag - yes. More than that - NO! |
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By *rivexMan
over a year ago
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Don't shit where you eat.. I would love to say go for it, but I know it's a massive mistake.
Working beside each other... Shit man, it's tough, enjoy the sizzle but it will get bad pretty soon.
Most of it is proximity and forbidden fruit, are you in that job for a career? If so not a hope, you don't want your hard work and skills tainted by being the guy who did the coworker...
something that they will all talk about and they will all find out about eventually..
If you want a relationship boom do it, but I doubt she'll split when eventually you fall for her
Either way no judgement man ever case is different just drawing from the few iv heard if and the two I was lucky to walk away from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a man who has had his Polish fiancé cheat on him 5 weeks before the wedding, don't do it. Do not get caught up in her shit no matter how fit she is. Cheating is never acceptable, some people don't care but there's always another person in the equation whether its male or female. Personally I still want to seriously hurt the guy, don't put yourself in that position. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by no she married "
How big is the hubby...som of those polish dudes are fuckin huge. Be carefull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hell of a lot of double standards around here. Do people here realise the amount of women and men here who are married and just don't declare it or lie about it. So the difference here is the OP knows she is married. So what. He isn't the one doing the cheating. That's all her choice if she decided to cheat on her husband. If it were the case where noone here met anyone who was married or in relationships wel then noone would be meeting. I think the issue is that it's at work I don't think the issue is she is married. If you think she can be discreet about it I say bend her over the nearest desk and give her a good time!!! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by no she married
How big is the hubby...som of those polish dudes are fuckin huge. Be carefull. "
This, if I were you op I wouldn't like the idea of big polish fella coming after me  But I'm a woman different story  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by no she married
How big is the hubby...som of those polish dudes are fuckin huge. Be carefull.
This, if I were you op I wouldn't like the idea of big polish fella coming after me But I'm a woman different story "
I was thinking of the muscles of his arms and his knuckles.. not the muscle between his thighs lol. But i like how you think |
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"I only have sex with women I respect, I don't respect cheaters so I wouldn't.
But since you might not have those same ideals I will say that you should consider the potential impact it will have on your work life if it becomes publically known. "
Do you wear that halo 24/7 or do you just bring it out on the weekends?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by no she married
How big is the hubby...som of those polish dudes are fuckin huge. Be carefull. "
And if I'm not mistaken they still have military conscription. All ex military. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would ask random strangers on the internet, that seems to be a good way to go when you are unable to make a decision for yourself "
Willie! We pride ourselves on pointing good folk in the right direction. (Usually ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will all be good until a mad Polish man comes to your work place shouting your name, demanding to see you... just hope he hasn't done conscription and is not trained in unarmed combat.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will all be good until a mad Polish man comes to your work place shouting your name, demanding to see you... just hope he hasn't done conscription and is not trained in unarmed combat.."
 I know a few polskis and generally speaking they aren't to be messed with especially when it involves a mans wife but hey if she hot it might be worth losing a few teeth over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok missing some detail for full picture are ye both single . I would generally say no to work flings just so awkward if it goes to shit but as u said it's awkward already . So if ye are both single I'd go for it if not I d let it pass u by no she married
How big is the hubby...som of those polish dudes are fuckin huge. Be carefull.
And if I'm not mistaken they still have military conscription. All ex military. "
See his next post durin the week... why didnt you guys say no dont fuck her lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely no harm in it if you are both mature adults and are not expecting anything other than a fuck."
True.. no harm no foul..sure what the boyfriend doesnt know wont hurt..and what if she has an STI and passes it to the OP..or screws someone else (and she will sooner or later) and brings it home to the boyfriend? But no one will get hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Polish woman in work wants to sleep with me should I or not????
Why is the fact she is polish even mentioned ? "
Maybe he means she's a polished lady.. as in mighty posh. And this whole thread is pointless. Kinda like asking for moral advice on a swingers site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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True.. no harm no foul..sure what the boyfriend doesnt know wont hurt..and what if she has an STI and passes it to the OP..or screws someone else (and she will sooner or later) and brings it home to the boyfriend? But no one will get hurt."
Sounds like you've been burned emotionally and venereally. You are making a lot of assumptions. There is no mention of a boyfriend, and so what if she screws someone else? You are also assuming that they wouldn't practice safe sex. You're making a lot of judgements but not contributing anything.
You sound very sensitive in your reply. If there is a boyfriend then it is entirely up to them if they go ahead with it. If she does have a bf and is considering this then that relationship wasn't going anywhere anyway, and it is up to the OP whether he choses to live with those moral ramifications. In my personal experience I'd say go for it. There are no medals for being moral, especially when it is just sex and he is single. The moral responsibility lies with the coworker and only if she does in fact have a partner. I think the OP was asking wether its a good idea to fuck a coworker, and I say it is. We are all adults after all (supposedly). so why not fuck the person and then chat to them normally and amicably the next day? I don't see a problem there at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I do have a laugh on the forum but it honestly did happen to me with my ex husband and I would never put someone else through that pain. Finding out that someone you love is having an affair is the most physical heartbreaking pain that you can experience,especially if you have children, you not only ruin your loved ones life but also the innocent kids. There are plenty of single women out there to hook up with. Tell her to leave her husband and let him have the chance of finding someone who Loves him enough not to go behind his back, do you really want to get involved with someone like that? It's not worth turning someone's life upside down just for a quick shag. Good luck making your decision sweetie x "
think your on the wrong site
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"I know I do have a laugh on the forum but it honestly did happen to me with my ex husband and I would never put someone else through that pain. Finding out that someone you love is having an affair is the most physical heartbreaking pain that you can experience,especially if you have children, you not only ruin your loved ones life but also the innocent kids. There are plenty of single women out there to hook up with. Tell her to leave her husband and let him have the chance of finding someone who Loves him enough not to go behind his back, do you really want to get involved with someone like that? It's not worth turning someone's life upside down just for a quick shag. Good luck making your decision sweetie x think your on the wrong site "
what site should I be on, we swing with other couples and single men/women, maybe your confusing this site with Ashley Madison sweetie, I know what site I should be on...do you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Somebody recently put up a thread about a friend and a coworker....
Double standards at their best!!!  if you read my post you would see that I referred to havin a laugh on the forum, a bit of tounge and cheek, you seem to get some kind of satisfaction from trying to initiate an argument instead of having a bit of banter, you need to lighten up a bit, maybe go on a meet and let all that aggression out. I'd be happy to help I'm a lover not a hater x "
Sweetie I'm not in the slightest bit frustrated only at your lack of humour....
I don't contradict myself I'm at least consistent |
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"Polish woman in work wants to sleep with me should I or not????"
How embarrassed will you be when her husband finds out and draws your boss and work colleagues attention to it?
Its a disaster waiting to happen so id tread carefully if i were you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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True.. no harm no foul..sure what the boyfriend doesnt know wont hurt..and what if she has an STI and passes it to the OP..or screws someone else (and she will sooner or later) and brings it home to the boyfriend? But no one will get hurt.
Sounds like you've been burned emotionally and venereally. You are making a lot of assumptions. There is no mention of a boyfriend, and so what if she screws someone else? You are also assuming that they wouldn't practice safe sex. You're making a lot of judgements but not contributing anything.
You sound very sensitive in your reply. If there is a boyfriend then it is entirely up to them if they go ahead with it. If she does have a bf and is considering this then that relationship wasn't going anywhere anyway, and it is up to the OP whether he choses to live with those moral ramifications. In my personal experience I'd say go for it. There are no medals for being moral, especially when it is just sex and he is single. The moral responsibility lies with the coworker and only if she does in fact have a partner. I think the OP was asking wether its a good idea to fuck a coworker, and I say it is. We are all adults after all (supposedly). so why not fuck the person and then chat to them normally and amicably the next day? I don't see a problem there at all. "
Read the 14th comment down.. by the OP.. she is married  |
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