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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So seemingly alot of guys think there's a time limit as to what a reply takes. If you don't fit in with that time you're considered fake,stuck up and mannerless (is that a word?).
What do you respond with when people aren't impressed with your typing speed?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete and ignore.
I understand that they feel pressure because they might be getting no replies at all. They are not used to having more mail than time. But if they have no patience them they are in the wrong place. The best things come to those who wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing more unattractive than desperation. When I've not had a chance to read let alone reply and another message comes through it really bugs me. Have some dignity people! I thought women were meant to be the needy ones.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete  whiff of desperation
I had one lad recently send me a second mail - 5 minutes after the first - to rant at me for not replying  i hadn't even had a chance to read the first mail "
Wonder if they're the same person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I give it about 5 days then block them. Saves them coming up in future searches. ..and yes my block list is quite long... We probably wouldn't have got past the social if it took a long time to reply in conversation either...  Guess I need more that a tit or fanny pic to perk my interest.  |
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I usuall give it about two months just to be sure to be sure, I don't block either,you wouldn't want to be doing that in case they might change their mind. I then move on to the next victim and repeat the procedure, sorry I meant to say lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be the same person as I got abuse earlier for the same.he sent 3 messages within minutes then started acting the bolox "
Oh I'd love to think there was only one culprit, but sadly there's quite a few  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Must be the same person as I got abuse earlier for the same.he sent 3 messages within minutes then started acting the bolox "
Probably is you know! I'm starting to think Fab should have a pyscho-analysis as part of its sign up procedure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be the same person as I got abuse earlier for the same.he sent 3 messages within minutes then started acting the bolox
Probably is you know! I'm starting to think Fab should have a pyscho-analysis as part of its sign up procedure. "
Then there would be zero members  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing more unattractive than desperation. When I've not had a chance to read let alone reply and another message comes through it really bugs me. Have some dignity people! I thought women were meant to be the needy ones.... "
I swear I think it's a conspiracy, the men make women out to be needy when really it's them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Must be the same person as I got abuse earlier for the same.he sent 3 messages within minutes then started acting the bolox
Probably is you know! I'm starting to think Fab should have a pyscho-analysis as part of its sign up procedure.
Then there would be zero members "
This is very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah now ladies do you not leave your notifications on toensure that you immediately respond to each and every message to ensure that you are being polite and prompt to all those poor gentlemen who've taken 30 seconds out of their day to paste in their pre-written e-mail? The cheek of you   |
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"There's nothing more unattractive than desperation. When I've not had a chance to read let alone reply and another message comes through it really bugs me. Have some dignity people! I thought women were meant to be the needy ones....
I swear I think it's a conspiracy, the men make women out to be needy when really it's them. "
Nope, you're talking about manchildren.
Decent, mature men have patience because we're not looking for a revolving door of shags. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I send a message I almost forget and after a few days a reply fly's in and it's a nice we surprise ! I'm thinking some people can be paranoid / insecure about them selves or just crazy desperate ! I'd just delete and move on alarm bells for the dafties !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to write up a nicemessage and sent it off into the void, then I dont check if it had ever even been read. If you get a reply that is fair enough.
As everyone should know by now single guys, in general, don't get random mail from people. So it is always nice to see some messages in. |
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