"Love them, but it's necessary for me to have a high level of trust in the play partner "
Blindfolds are very sensual and yes restraints require a trust in the play partner, it's an ultimate power exchange |
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"The person being restrained... Seems to heighten their sexual enjoyment more"
I'm not sure thats true - the one doing it likes the power. That can be a turn on in itself |
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By using a blindfold and hand and leg restraints you are removing control of 2 senses (sight and touch) it therefore increases the sensual pleasure across the board and makes the mind drift. After all the mind is the most erotic organ and it's sensuality if caressed properly can release the bodies passion 10 fold. As for the earlier comment whether someone thinks it's a control thing for the person doing the tieing up as opposed to the person being tied up... IMHO if the person being tied up doesn't give permission and u agree a safe word then it won't happen. So in a sense they are the ones who are in control. Francis. |
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We have never been into bdsm so to speak but we do use wrist and ankle straps. Two ways of looking at this, with a stranger you of course need a safe word and also to be vocal about what can be done during play. Restraints don't mean you have to get to the point of pain and hating it. In the most intense sub/Dom roleplay you should always remain equals.i also believe if you know you partner well enough you shouldn't need a safe word. Tuning into what the body says will often serve you better than what the mouth might blurt out when it's already to late. Half the fun is learning to read those signs |
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Sometimes they get used when on a meet, sometimes they don't and sometimes I get to use the restraints 
