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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it would be better to get a meet because you wanted to meet the person because you liked them rather than just to get a verification. "
Ah we all had to start somewhere I still remember my first coffee meet. Nerve wrecking but necessary
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it would be better to get a meet because you wanted to meet the person because you liked them rather than just to get a verification.
Ah we all had to start somewhere I still remember my first coffee meet. Nerve wrecking but necessary
Hope u manage to find a coffee meet op "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope i get one 2 and cant get a meet because i have no meet verifercation all these fake blokes and timewasters are runing it for everyone  "
How exactly are the fakes ruining it for everyone? Not ruining it for me. I just don't meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because most people now won't meet single males unless there meet verified because of all the fake weirdos ha"
Rubbish. I've met unverified as have my friends. No excuse to get verified via a social or coffee meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah weve all been there in the beginning...the first people i met met up with me unverified...and even after that i was still unverified...the verifications mean less and less these days...other fish in the sea...put up some nice pics or something and catch people that way...they way i see it i could meet you for coffee but it wouldnt say much about ye, i wouldnt know somebody that well after a coffee...plus i dont drink coffee...chances are youd have ni sure fire betrer chance at meeting would ye, ones that say they only meet meet verified are few and far between....some people dont even want verifications on their profile...just keep hanging around until a proper meet turns up thats all ill say...your not here for caffees at the end of the day.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it would be better to get a meet because you wanted to meet the person because you liked them rather than just to get a verification.
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Id meet you rain :p ....no verification swopping or any of that stuff.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because most people now won't meet single males unless there meet verified because of all the fake weirdos ha"
We were all unverified at one stage.
There comes a time when maybe you should look at your own profile, and pictures and think to yourself, would I want to meet me. Expand your bio, take some pics, no cock ones please, be original and polite, yet charming and funny when messaging other members, if you can figure out how to do that that last one, tell me, as I still haven't quite managed it yet 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah weve all been there in the beginning...the first people i met met up with me unverified...and even after that i was still unverified...the verifications mean less and less these days...other fish in the sea...put up some nice pics or something and catch people that way...they way i see it i could meet you for coffee but it wouldnt say much about ye, i wouldnt know somebody that well after a coffee...plus i dont drink coffee...chances are youd have ni sure fire betrer chance at meeting would ye, ones that say they only meet meet verified are few and far between....some people dont even want verifications on their profile...just keep hanging around until a proper meet turns up thats all ill say...your not here for caffees at the end of the day.
Sorry i must be in a typitive mood tonight "
Alot like to meet for a coffee first. Sorry but I think you can tell alot ftom a coffee meet, especially the most important things like attraction and whether you want to do a play meet. Totally dismissing coffee meets then the OP may as well go on an Escort site instead. Not everyone goes straight to play meets. |
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over a year ago
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Maybe ye can, wouldnt be my cup of tea though....i think everybody should skip coffee and go straight to play meets...escorts would be a completely different thing....i wouldnt be particularly intersted in that either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...how many meet for coffee and never meet again for fun though....id say its high enough....if you love those meets no problem...but he could have twenty coffee meets before he gets what hes really looking for....i just see them as counter productive to an extent. |
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"Maybe ye can, wouldnt be my cup of tea though....i think everybody should skip coffee and go straight to play meets...escorts would be a completely different thing....i wouldnt be particularly intersted in that either."
And what if you go straight to play meet and meet a complete nut? Or someone who isn't what you expected?
Far easier to say no thanks in a cafe than a hotel bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris. |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris."
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person. |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person. "
Absolutely. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris."
That's why I'd never meet a guy with coffee meet verifications only |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely. "
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me. |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me."
It's a long way to go if it's a first meet...it would put you at a disadvantage. |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me."
I'd not agree play with somebody without meeting socially first...
That's just me and my opinion |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me."
It doesn't really make a mockery. The veri system is there to say they turn up, the sex they say they are and looking as they do in there pics not for graphic details of the 17 ways they had sex |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me.
It doesn't really make a mockery. The veri system is there to say they turn up, the sex they say they are and looking as they do in there pics not for graphic details of the 17 ways they had sex"
*their pics |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me.
It's a long way to go if it's a first meet...it would put you at a disadvantage."
Im sure it would....it would be fun though...
Dont take anthing i say here too seriously....i dont.
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me.
It's a long way to go if it's a first meet...it would put you at a disadvantage.
Im sure it would....it would be fun though...
Dont take anthing i say here too seriously....i dont.
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Ok. That's what I want after we've messaged some to get an idea of if we like the same things. That gets ME excited. A social meeting where I can put you to what I've been touching myself over...you're right, it's fun! |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
No it doesn't but you do get more of an idea by meeting in person.
Absolutely.
True...i wont say you wont....but you see the posts up here, people just looking for coffee meets...it makes a mockery of the verification system...unless theyre in amsterdam theyre not gonna appeal to me...but sure if people want them no harm...theyre just not for me.
It doesn't really make a mockery. The veri system is there to say they turn up, the sex they say they are and looking as they do in there pics not for graphic details of the 17 ways they had sex
*their pics"
I wont disagree with ye there either, but cam veris and photo veris can do most of that....meeting for the sake of meeting just to get verified without any other aim...i just dont really get that. |
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I wont disagree with ye there either, but cam veris and photo veris can do most of that....meeting for the sake of meeting just to get verified without any other aim...i just dont really get that."
Ah, well most of the coffee meets I have seen advertised were either by ladies offering to meet noobs or by guys looking to get their 1st veri....because other peeps who don't like coffee meets won't meet people without a veri! |
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
That's why I'd never meet a guy with coffee meet verifications only"
Not even for a coffee? |
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I always meet socially first, in a bar usually for a drink never a coffee. More than likely it's in the hotel bar. I would always book a hotel, I'd rather have it and not use it than need it and not have it. But you can see by some of my veri's that we'd only planned a social meet, but without sounding too bigheaded, I can be quite the charming individual. Plus I like the the flirting and chatting over a drink, instead of jumping straight in the sack, adds to the sexual experience, getting to know someone, raising the sexual tension, that to me, is just as much fun as the play, ok not as much as the play, but it is very important to me and I find it a massive turn on. |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"it would be better to get a meet because you wanted to meet the person because you liked them rather than just to get a verification.
Id meet you rain :p ....no verification swopping or any of that stuff. "
On the down low . |
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"I always meet socially first, in a bar usually for a drink never a coffee. More than likely it's in the hotel bar. I would always book a hotel, I'd rather have it and not use it than need it and not have it. But you can see by some of my veri's that we'd only planned a social meet, but without sounding too bigheaded, I can be quite the charming individual. Plus I like the the flirting and chatting over a drink, instead of jumping straight in the sack, adds to the sexual experience, getting to know someone, raising the sexual tension, that to me, is just as much fun as the play, ok not as much as the play, but it is very important to me and I find it a massive turn on. "
Some of us have a line that WILL not be crossed if it was planned as a social drink. Regardless of your charm. But it's nice to be charmed mind.  |
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"it would be better to get a meet because you wanted to meet the person because you liked them rather than just to get a verification.
Id meet you rain :p ....no verification swopping or any of that stuff.
On the down low . "
Now youre talking rain |
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"I always meet socially first, in a bar usually for a drink never a coffee. More than likely it's in the hotel bar. I would always book a hotel, I'd rather have it and not use it than need it and not have it. But you can see by some of my veri's that we'd only planned a social meet, but without sounding too bigheaded, I can be quite the charming individual. Plus I like the the flirting and chatting over a drink, instead of jumping straight in the sack, adds to the sexual experience, getting to know someone, raising the sexual tension, that to me, is just as much fun as the play, ok not as much as the play, but it is very important to me and I find it a massive turn on.
Some of us have a line that WILL not be crossed if it was planned as a social drink. Regardless of your charm. But it's nice to be charmed mind. "
Yeah to me that sounds better than a meet you at starbucks meet...at least it might lead somewhere better.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Does meeting somebody in a public place on their best behavior for ten minutes mean they wont a crazy when they get on your own....even if they've racked up multiple coffee veris.
That's why I'd never meet a guy with coffee meet verifications only
Not even for a coffee? "
Lol, I don't do coffee meets just bring along the shrubbery |
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By *rian78Man
over a year ago
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"Yeah weve all been there in the beginning...the first people i met met up with me unverified...and even after that i was still unverified...the verifications mean less and less these days...other fish in the sea...put up some nice pics or something and catch people that way...they way i see it i could meet you for coffee but it wouldnt say much about ye, i wouldnt know somebody that well after a coffee...plus i dont drink coffee...chances are youd have ni sure fire betrer chance at meeting would ye, ones that say they only meet meet verified are few and far between....some people dont even want verifications on their profile...just keep hanging around until a proper meet turns up thats all ill say...your not here for caffees at the end of the day.
Sorry i must be in a typitive mood tonight
Alot like to meet for a coffee first. Sorry but I think you can tell alot ftom a coffee meet, especially the most important things like attraction and whether you want to do a play meet. Totally dismissing coffee meets then the OP may as well go on an Escort site instead. Not everyone goes straight to play meets."
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