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Initiating Contact
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Hey guys,
Just wondering are there ladies out there who would intiate the conversation with a male, I.E. send the first message? I know the flirting/eye fluttering on the forums is one thing but actually sending the first message is what I'd be kind to see.
I suspect more often than not, it's the male who starts the ball rolling. I could be completely wrong here. So ladies do you initiate contact, never, rarely, regularly?
Lads have women contacted you first much?
Just curious if my perception is correct, that's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've regularly made first contact with many people on here through the years. Usually I have all messages blocked and in that scenario if I don't send the first message then they don't have the opportunity to reciprocate. My best friends and contacts are mostly people who I initiated contact with |
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"I've regularly made first contact with many people on here through the years. Usually I have all messages blocked and in that scenario if I don't send the first message then they don't have the opportunity to reciprocate. My best friends and contacts are mostly people who I initiated contact with "
I can see how it would force your hand alright 
Thanks for replying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of women on here who make first contact. In that way fab works on a far more equal footing than normal society. I'm not sure if I initiated any of the conversations I'm having at the moment. Where as the vast majority of my attempts at first contact end in rejection. |
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Considering this is a swing site making contact is part and parcel of the site. We ourselves would make contact with people in various ways available to us here ,either fabbing pics, winks or mail depending on whom we find interesting.
By sitting back and doing nothing would really defeat the purpose of being here .Just our view.
Enjoy fab for what it can be and try not to read into things too much.Life's too short  |
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Rarely initiate contact on the site if ever I'm not that self confident and so rejection would be a real fear for me. I'm fine in an normal social situation just don't find texting to be a strong point of mine. |
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"Rarely initiate contact on the site if ever I'm not that self confident and so rejection would be a real fear for me. I'm fine in an normal social situation just don't find texting to be a strong point of mine. "
I've got a song for you |
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"Rarely initiate contact on the site if ever I'm not that self confident and so rejection would be a real fear for me. I'm fine in an normal social situation just don't find texting to be a strong point of mine. "
Dont know why your not confident lovely lady, beautiful. Well slide on the scouse situation though. |
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I do look thru messages & reply 2 who I need to but majority of my meets are ppl who iv messaged 1st and it's cause I go looking for exactly who Id want to meet (as in number of verifs, attraction, profile). |
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I have fabbed his photo's and would lick up every last bit he would give me but I am not chasing him any more...if he is not willing to chase me back
The ice cream man can fuck right off! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Never... 
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar  "
U pinned me in a door way on Henry Street that was a first move also a fast move |
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"Never...
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar
U pinned me in a door way on Henry Street that was a first move also a fast move "
I demand to see that CCTV footage....
AGAIN...
What porn site is it on again?? |
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"Never...
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar
Your different..... 
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I know dahling... that's what Miss K keeps saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never...
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar
Your different.....
I know dahling... that's what Miss K keeps saying"
Your updates have my imagination in overdrive |
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Being kinda shy, I tend to Fab pics or wink profile. Judging by forums though, most women ignore winks/pic or profile views, so I need to up my game, I guess.
A lot of the time I wink the No Smokers that I like, as I mostly vape now and am unsure of whether that's acceptable to them.
Overall, most first responders female are a result of forum I think. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Never...
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar
U pinned me in a door way on Henry Street that was a first move also a fast move
I demand to see that CCTV footage....
AGAIN...
What porn site is it on again?? "
The gaurds in Henry st won't release it they still wacking off to it on night shift |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being kinda shy, I tend to Fab pics or wink profile. Judging by forums though, most women ignore winks/pic or profile views, so I need to up my game, I guess.
A lot of the time I wink the No Smokers that I like, as I mostly vape now and am unsure of whether that's acceptable to them.
Overall, most first responders female are a result of forum I think."
Feck off I responded to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have messaged someone who has caught my interest although it didn't work out however very very recently I've learned that I need to learn the signs better |
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"Being kinda shy, I tend to Fab pics or wink profile. Judging by forums though, most women ignore winks/pic or profile views, so I need to up my game, I guess.
A lot of the time I wink the No Smokers that I like, as I mostly vape now and am unsure of whether that's acceptable to them.
Overall, most first responders female are a result of forum I think.
Feck off I responded to you"
I know and it was gooooooodddd!!
One of the real ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always send a message first, or a wink, if i think i like the look of someone, someone has too get the ball rolling, or you wont meet anyone, Or get chatting, |
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"Never...
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar
U pinned me in a door way on Henry Street that was a first move also a fast move
I demand to see that CCTV footage....
AGAIN...
What porn site is it on again??
The gaurds in Henry st won't release it they still wacking off to it on night shift "
Dem feckers....
Bet they have LOADS of material with you in it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never...
If they don't mail me first I don't go there....
Occasionally I've been asked on the forum to mail a person and I've mailed somebody once...
But I don't make the first move
Liar
U pinned me in a door way on Henry Street that was a first move also a fast move "
You told me it was out the Dock Road CJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have messaged someone who has caught my interest although it didn't work out however very very recently I've learned that I need to learn the signs better
You telling porkis pies again . Btw where is my tie "
So it's true! I was once told "if you ever remove a guys tie before sex, put it on yourself...  |
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"I have messaged someone who has caught my interest although it didn't work out however very very recently I've learned that I need to learn the signs better
You telling porkis pies again . Btw where is my tie
So it's true! I was once told "if you ever remove a guys tie before sex, put it on yourself... "
Or you can tie the fooker up |
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"I have messaged someone who has caught my interest although it didn't work out however very very recently I've learned that I need to learn the signs better
You telling porkis pies again . Btw where is my tie
So it's true! I was once told "if you ever remove a guys tie before sex, put it on yourself...
Or you can tie the fooker up"
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Love the way your mind works!! |
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"I have messaged someone who has caught my interest although it didn't work out however very very recently I've learned that I need to learn the signs better
You telling porkis pies again . Btw where is my tie
Used it Saturday night for my sexy school girl outfit "
How can i take it back now mmmmmmm hope you didnt get tied up with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have messaged someone who has caught my interest although it didn't work out however very very recently I've learned that I need to learn the signs better
You telling porkis pies again . Btw where is my tie
So it's true! I was once told "if you ever remove a guys tie before sex, put it on yourself...
Or you can tie the fooker up"
No worries Madam B i have plenty ties   |
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