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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So another thread has led to this one.
How do u perceive the people that you swing with? 1 night stands... another sexual partner ....
Well we see them as sexy living, breathing, luscious 'sex-toys'!! LOL for myself and Mr H to play with and enjoy together  and hopefully they will enjoy us in the process too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo 1 night stands .. who also happen to be friends.. and fuck buddies... all wrapped into one lovely we bundle lol..
When we meet with other cpls, or singles, or, groups.. they get our undivided attention and we try and put a bit of effort into it.. but thats as far as it goes with us...
All intimate feelings r kept to ourselves.. apart from the obvious ones of mmmm, mmmmm, mmmmmmmmm, we share them.. and some body fluids.. etc etc.. lol
Apart from that.. r swinging is a night out, bita craic, and a good fuck and home, most times... very happy lol
The questions been asked loads of times by people ( mostly single guys for some strange reason ) "What happens if you fall for someone else" ?
Personally, were quite happy to spend the rest of our lives together and both have no intention of falling for anyone we swing with.. i think for most cpls that would go without saying..
Great subject.. cant wait for this thread to fill up lol :D
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By (user no longer on site)
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We're definately friends with benefits kind of peeps partly because of our hectic family life meaning we don't get to meet as often as we would like so by the time we actually meet we've gotten to know people on here and we found the fun tends to be better with those rather than the one night stands! Swinging for us is an addition to our sex life and is about having a laugh and a giggle with like minded peeps (I hate that phrase but can't think of a better one lol) and if we all get hot and sweaty+at+the+end+of+it+all+the+better+ |
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For me they are one night stands.
Yes the time we spend together is very intimate and close and sometimes even quite loving. But once I'm away out the door that's it till the next time.
I don't want or require friends with benefits. I don't want or require fuck buddies. I don't want an affair or a relationship so for me it's arms length at all times (other then when I'm playing )
That's not to say I don't like or respect those I meet. This is how I want to play. This is what suits me |
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over a year ago
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I don't know myself, we have only played with friends... I would like to the whole super discreet stranger stuff though, think its kinkier and less emotional.. a bit arms length like missy said :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deffo 1 night stands .. who also happen to be friends.. and fuck buddies... all wrapped into one lovely we bundle lol..
When we meet with other cpls, or singles, or, groups.. they get our undivided attention and we try and put a bit of effort into it.. but thats as far as it goes with us...
All intimate feelings r kept to ourselves.. apart from the obvious ones of mmmm, mmmmm, mmmmmmmmm, we share them.. and some body fluids.. etc etc.. lol
Apart from that.. r swinging is a night out, bita craic, and a good fuck and home, most times... very happy lol
The questions been asked loads of times by people ( mostly single guys for some strange reason ) "What happens if you fall for someone else" ?
Personally, were quite happy to spend the rest of our lives together and both have no intention of falling for anyone we swing with.. i think for most cpls that would go without saying..
Great subject.. cant wait for this thread to fill up lol :D
Happy swinging !!!"
Think Abbey has summed "Swinging" up 4 all us couples!!!  |
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I totally concur with everything u have just said xxx Mrs H 