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Assertive v passive

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By *oupleuncut OP Couple over a year ago

dun laoghaire

Being 100% honest, do you prefer your partner to be assertive and take control or do you like them to be passive???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mostly I like partners to be fairly assertive usually during the initiating phase. That said once the fun starts I'm not afraid to take what I want or move things in the direction that I'd like them to go. I also get a little more assertive when I am comfortable and at ease in a persons company. Sadly that doesn't tend to happen too often lol

Sure if all else fails I can have a good sleep

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Neither nor, I like my partner to be self confident but not overpowering, a balanced play is my favourite. Why does it always have to be one way or the other?

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By *appyPandaMan over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

It really depends on the dynamic and mood. Some girls I've been with have been naturally more passive and some have been the opposite. I do love both.

Variety is the spice of life after all.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman over a year ago

Westmeath

"Neither nor, I like my partner to be self confident but not overpowering, a balanced play is my favourite. Why does it always have to be one way or the other?

I agree, mixture of both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on my mood, at times I love to take control & sometimes I love to be totally dominated......it's all about the moment in time .... keeps it exciting

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By *ohndunboyneMan over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Neither nor, I like my partner to be self confident but not overpowering, a balanced play is my favourite. Why does it always have to be one way or the other?

I agree, mixture of both."

Agree. Mixture of both, where you can swap roles or take charge/be submissive all in the same night. Whatever spices your Latte though, happy to be either or in-between

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By *utieAndBootyCouple over a year ago

SoCal

All depends on the mood!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think passive is the right word, as it suggests just lying there taking it. I'm very dominant and like to be in control, but I wouldn't enjoy being with someone totally passive. A little struggle is nice too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think passive is the right word, as it suggests just lying there taking it. I'm very dominant and like to be in control, but I wouldn't enjoy being with someone totally passive. A little struggle is nice too.

Agreed, I may be submissive but I'm sure as hell not passive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dominant and controlling all the way

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