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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...." go halves always..in this day and age men are women are supposed to be equal but some women only want equality when it suits them  | |||
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"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . " Exactly what I think & part of the reason I prefer to go halves. Good on you leaving him there  | |||
"as a guy. I'd pay for the room but not because I wish to have some sort of demand due to it just out of manners. But I'd let you buy dinner lol" You are too kind.  | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...." I would say paying 50/50 would be fair. It doesn't need to be agreed, it doesn't need to be asked either. | |||
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"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . " Massive standing ovation girl... | |||
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"Whoever pays for the room gets to keep the kettle, hair dryer and trouser press though" Fact! And it's hard to halve a hair dryer  | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...." Your friend is deluded beyond all belief | |||
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"What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix" Nothing like a good three way | |||
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"I have booked rooms before where I had planned to stay the entire night and would have a meet but he wasn't staying more than a few hours. In that case I pay. Then there's been times where a guy I might meet regularly is already in a hotel for another reason and I would go for a few hours. In that case he pays (although I would always offer to go halves) But if it's just simply for a hookup then it's 50/50. "Sounds perfect. If both only using it for meet, then 50/50 but if one gets to sleep for the night, then they pay. Logical to me. | |||
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"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . Massive standing ovation girl..." You were dead right, would of loved to see his face as you left him there.... Priceless.... | |||
"What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix Nothing like a good three way "& what about the breakfast "room service" whose gona do without ! pull straws | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... go halves always..in this day and age men are women are supposed to be equal but some women only want equality when it suits them "If that's your reason then let's say 40/60 since we haven't reached pay equality yet. But if the reason is good manners, defo 50/50. But if I'm on a trip and had the room booked anyway, I pay of course. | |||
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No seriously though I would be 50/50. Like everything else 50/50 I give as good as I get. If a man won't give me oral why should I give him oral.. If the man won't go on top why should I go on top!!! Sideways it is!! | |||
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"What man doesn't want to give oral I personally love giving a lady oral and I get my pleasure from pleasuring I wouldn't expect it back in return" Oh there are plenty  | |||
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"50/50 regardless of who is staying the full night. If one person has to leave why should the cost be thrown on to the other person. You are going halves to play regardless of what happens beyond that. Have gone thirds in a threeway meet also" Totally agree | |||
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"I have booked rooms before where I had planned to stay the entire night and would have a meet but he wasn't staying more than a few hours. In that case I pay. Then there's been times where a guy I might meet regularly is already in a hotel for another reason and I would go for a few hours. In that case he pays (although I would always offer to go halves) But if it's just simply for a hookup then it's 50/50. " yes my thoughts exactly you beat me to it. That's the way to do business | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...." Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill? However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch. | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill? However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch." My thoughts exactly. Don't mind paying my way but I'm their guest if they are already staying over. In that case they pay. | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill? However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch." | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill? However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch. My thoughts exactly. Don't mind paying my way but I'm their guest if they are already staying over. In that case they pay." Agree with both here!! | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... Depends...he might be visiting for something else and needs the hotel regardless. If I have a hotel room booked for me, I'm sleeping there & having breakfast anyway, why should someone else who visited for 3 hours stump up half my hotel bill? However if we arrange a hotel jointly for some fun then I'm happy to book it (under a pseudonym of course) & go Dutch. My thoughts exactly. Don't mind paying my way but I'm their guest if they are already staying over. In that case they pay. Agree with both here!! "Yep agree too makes sense | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...." They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! " What? | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What?" Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess" Still no idea what your previous comment meant... | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant..." Think it was a play on "pay" | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant..." Nor me lol | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant... Think it was a play on "pay" " Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is, is it not the mans place to do so i think so | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant... Think it was a play on "pay" Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is, is it not the mans place to do so i think so " I just couldn't work out what They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen meant. It made no sense to me | |||
"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . " Couldn't agree more and very well put, the perfect example of meet politics and etiquette! Fair play for turning on your heels! 50/50 all the way | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant... Think it was a play on "pay" Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is, is it not the mans place to do so i think so I just couldn't work out what They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen meant. It made no sense to me " Meaning for those iv met iv paid my way & for those i haven't that remains to be seen . hope this helps | |||
"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant... Think it was a play on "pay" Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is, is it not the mans place to do so i think so I just couldn't work out what They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen meant. It made no sense to me Meaning for those iv met iv paid my way & for those i haven't that remains to be seen . hope this helps " That makes more sense | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do.... They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen ! What? Weather id go half , i would yes but would insist on paying for all thats just me i guess Still no idea what your previous comment meant... Think it was a play on "pay" Or pay & play , no what i meant is id insist on paying for the room that is, is it not the mans place to do so i think so I just couldn't work out what They say i wouldn't pay attention but that's not tru you all know that anyway & some thinking that remains to be seen meant. It made no sense to me Meaning for those iv met iv paid my way & for those i haven't that remains to be seen . hope this helps " But whats the 'pay attention' part about?? | |||
"I would have no issue paying but only if we met regular so i knew there was summit there. If it's only a once off then 50/50 otherwise it would be cheaper for me to pay a prostitute lol" WTF "Cheaper for me to pay a prostitute lol " I am not laughing that's so insulting to us women on this site. Even for regular meets its 50 /50 for me I can pay my own way and would never be beholding to no man. | |||
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"I'm old fashioned to , I like to pay and dinner to, if she insists well that's grand to .. But not to have a girl under a complement but more treat her well and ensure she has a really good night !! "I'd be the same,it's nice to be nice, not gonna break the bank, If she insists on paying I'll let her get a few drinks. | |||
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"I can honestly say i have never been offered half of the room cost. Dont mind paying but would be nice to get the offer especially when you have meet them a few times. " Why do you keep meeting these spongers?? | |||
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"well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "That's a shitty way to be treated 
Some good points on here which I wouldn't have considered.
Like a previous poster, I'm a bit old fashioned, and would have expected to foot the bill if we were hosting, but the point about feeling obliged is very valid too. On the flip side if we ever got invited to a hotel meet (maybe one day we'll be brave enough) I may not have offered to split the bill but will be more conscious if it were to happen. | |||
"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "I'd have stayed if I had to pay for it anyway. If he was off here, I hope you reported him for that nasty stunt. As for the OP's question. I prefer to pay my own way when I can, so if he pays for the hotel I'd buy some drinks. There are times when my funds are very low, and at times like that I tend not to meet. | |||
"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i
I'd have stayed if I had to pay for it anyway.
If he was off here, I hope you reported him for that nasty stunt.
As for the OP's question. I prefer to pay my own way when I can, so if he pays for the hotel I'd buy some drinks. There are times when my funds are very low, and at times like that I tend not to meet. "I'd have gone back down to reception and checked they took his card details before heading to bed, if not, I'd have left as well. (Without paying) | |||
"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i
I'd have stayed if I had to pay for it anyway.
If he was off here, I hope you reported him for that nasty stunt.
As for the OP's question. I prefer to pay my own way when I can, so if he pays for the hotel I'd buy some drinks. There are times when my funds are very low, and at times like that I tend not to meet.
I'd have gone back down to reception and checked they took his card details before heading to bed, if not, I'd have left as well. (Without paying)"Good thinking | |||
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"What about a couple and a single girl (or guy? ) as there's three people in the mix" Cpl get the room id say ... | |||
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"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . " Good woman!! | |||
"Some low lifes out their, they can fool ya, till the cows come home, be nice too ya on phone, just too get into your underwear, and then do a runner,
Be vigilant, be careful, "I would have made a night of it and invited someone else over. Some men are just here for a quick fuck really. And some women are sometimes too. I'd prefer them to just be honest about wanting a fast and furious thing rather than admit they can't last all night or they're a stingy fuck and won't pay their share... | |||
"Some low lifes out their, they can fool ya, till the cows come home, be nice too ya on phone, just too get into your underwear, and then do a runner,
Be vigilant, be careful,
I would have made a night of it and invited someone else over. Some men are just here for a quick fuck really. And some women are sometimes too. I'd prefer them to just be honest about wanting a fast and furious thing rather than admit they can't last all night or they're a stingy fuck and won't pay their share... "I would want you, Allllll night longggggg.... | |||
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"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "Terrible thing for any Man or Woman to do to any meet,, sorry this has happened to you
But looks like your not getting to get to know the guys abit or communicating properly,, between meeting and getting their end away with you an then leaving no verifications to getting their end away with you and leaving you in a hotel afterwards and to pay the whole bill to think you need a sit down with yourself and to give yourself a shake to start picking your meets abit more carefully more so when it comes to having their wicked way with you and then doing a runner leaving you to foot the bill | |||
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"I met a guy in hotel after a meet, we were going stay whole night, anyway went in, we were going to split it, so he said we pay in morning, as nite went on we chatted and got intimite, then he said im hungry, i will go get pizza accross the way, bring it back, well after 10 mins, the fecker never came back, after 20 more mins no sign of him, i had too pay for hotel myself all of it, i was had, not a call nothing from him, i left hotel, had too pay of course, and got taxi back, never again are my meeting guy in hotel, or did i "thats lousy act to do anyone and such a mean thing to do on you . Your such a lovely person anyone can see that just be careful we all learn from diffrent situations in life and some like your good self get taken advantage of should have named and shamed the miserable fecker on your profile but hes probly long gone from the site all the best sexy beautiful lady x | |||
"pay half , otherwise you might feel under a compliment to the guy . I had one hotel meet where the guy had booked and paid for the room , when we entered the room he promptly jumped on the bed , put his hands behind his head and motioned twords his crotch reminding me he had paid for the room . I turned on my heel and left him there in the room he paid for , absolute plonker . If I had wanted to be treated like a whore he could not have afforded me anyway . " What a clem ha delighted you walked out on him | |||
"Whoever pays for the room gets to keep the kettle, hair dryer and trouser press though" hahaha | |||
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"Is there even such a thing anymore as a hotel that allows check-in without taking card details?" I didn't think so. | |||
"Is there even such a thing anymore as a hotel that allows check-in without taking card details? I didn't think so." It all depends who checked in.... | |||
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"Well your a thorough gentleman, Very scarce these days, "Why? Cos he likes to empty his wallet for a woman? Is that the measure of a gentleman now?? | |||
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"But u know when that kinda situation happens you, u lose trust in guys, your confidence goes, as in u dont know why they did it, and why too you, i was dressed nice i thought, not flirty or anything or slutty, i never dress slutty, i dress too impress but sophisticated like, i know wasnt me, but at same time it goes around in your head, i even talked with him on phone, he sounded respectful descent, either some guys are just good actors r wot, or he just gets his kicks out of doing it too women, he is gone off site now and i did report it, coz i cant find him anywhere so his profile deleted, but who knows he cud have made other id now, and do it under different id, to someone else, "no doubt the miserable sod is back on under a new name even if other users new what area he was from they could be wary of meeting newbies from that area i know cant tar everyone with same brush x | |||
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"Looking for people's opinion.. if meeting at a hotel for fun who pays for the room. I don't mind going 50/50 but a friend reckons the guy should pay for it all. What do you do...." I would think it might depend on the circumstances of each party. Sharing costs should only be a broad generalisation. It might be that one party cannot afford a room. Each case should probably be reviewed on its merits | |||
