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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The definition of true beauty is being comfortable in your own skin. It's having confidence in yourself even if you don't meet the standards of how other's expect you to look!
True beauty is the ability to love yourself and all the Flaw's you come with...you are merely human.
When you love and respect yourself and wear your confidence, everyone else will see it...it is the best outfit you will ever rock.
Come on fab people, say something nice about yourself... let's make this a feel good Friday. Kicking it off with... I love how my smile crinkles up my eye's when I am laughing hard
Keep it positive folk's...we are sometimes our own harshest critics and we have proven on the threads that we can all be insensitive to other's at time's...humour me please. Madame B xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great idea Madame B. Nothing like a positive start to the weekend.
Broad shoulders and a beard definitely adds to my confidence. Being mature and easy to chat to helps too!
What about yourself M B? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Great idea Madame B. Nothing like a positive start to the weekend.
Broad shoulders and a beard definitely adds to my confidence. Being mature and easy to chat to helps too!
What about yourself M B?"
Not so confident about my beard lol but like my eye's too... especially when the go in the same direction
Love having the Craic and would talk to my shadow |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love the way my quirkiness makes people smile, I wish I'd just been myself all those years
Dr Seuss, why fit in when you were born to stand out!"
Love the quote and you do stand out for all the right reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can make humour out of any situation
Even when it's inappropriate 
Lol"
There's a line from a band I like.
"I'm the kinda guy who laughs at a funeral"
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"I can make humour out of any situation
Even when it's inappropriate
Lol
There's a line from a band I like.
"I'm the kinda guy who laughs at a funeral"
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".....can't understand what I mean then you soon will / I have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve / I have a history of losing my shirt"
Sing it now...
"It's been one week....." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't judge people, I've an open mind and I always like to look at the bright side of any situation.
Great post. It's good to make us think positive about ourselves.  "
Admiral traits and way too many negatives out there... especially from ourselves at time's.
We are all fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been told my head is sexy 
Which head lol and a great ass too
Thanks madam, you have some nice ass ets too "
Why thank you...some went into liquidation over the years but generally happy with what's left |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me and ice-cream go well together "
Lol trying to stay positive but the word flake keeps popping into my head I know it's not jelly as you are ripped... enlighten us please |
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"I've been told my head is sexy
Which head lol and a great ass too
Thanks madam, you have some nice ass ets too
Why thank you...some went into liquidation over the years but generally happy with what's left"
You mean it was better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been told my head is sexy
Which head lol and a great ass too
Thanks madam, you have some nice ass ets too
Why thank you...some went into liquidation over the years but generally happy with what's left
You mean it was better "
Oh your a smooth criminal lol
Bless...just firmer I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can make humour out of any situation
Even when it's inappropriate
Lol
There's a line from a band I like.
"I'm the kinda guy who laughs at a funeral"
My favourite band sadly no more
".....can't understand what I mean then you soon will / I have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve / I have a history of losing my shirt"
Sing it now...
"It's been one week.....""
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"I've been told my head is sexy
Which head lol and a great ass too
Thanks madam, you have some nice ass ets too
Why thank you...some went into liquidation over the years but generally happy with what's left
You mean it was better
Oh your a smooth criminal lol
Bless...just firmer I think"
I know that feeling,I used to be firmer too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been told my head is sexy
Which head lol and a great ass too
Thanks madam, you have some nice ass ets too
Why thank you...some went into liquidation over the years but generally happy with what's left
You mean it was better
Oh your a smooth criminal lol
Bless...just firmer I think
I know that feeling,I used to be firmer too "
Assets are only as good as we thing they are... it's about what we like. Best foot forward and head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That I'm cute 
Don't believe all the compliments you get
I agree kermie...
They is only tryin to get into your pants  you leave my pants alone anni "
Annie is an absolute beaut and a lady...she will hang them neatly over the bed post |
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"That I'm cute
Don't believe all the compliments you get
I agree kermie...
They is only tryin to get into your pants you leave my pants alone anni
Annie is an absolute beaut and a lady...she will hang them neatly over the bed post"
And will that be before she ties the ladeen up,I say watch out kearman it's a trap  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That I'm cute
Don't believe all the compliments you get
I agree kermie...
They is only tryin to get into your pants you leave my pants alone anni
Annie is an absolute beaut and a lady...she will hang them neatly over the bed post
And will that be before she ties the ladeen up,I say watch out kearman it's a trap "
anni tried to feed me bitty before then the taxi driver got it instead and it's not you paddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That I'm cute
Don't believe all the compliments you get
I agree kermie...
They is only tryin to get into your pants you leave my pants alone anni
Annie is an absolute beaut and a lady...she will hang them neatly over the bed post
And will that be before she ties the ladeen up,I say watch out kearman it's a trap anni tried to feed me bitty before then the taxi driver got it instead and it's not you paddy "
No Kers....
You love the bitty....
The poor taxi driver I think he's still traumatised |
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Beautiful and meaningful positive affirmations from Louise Hay to inspire you in every day situation :
When you feel lonely and sad:
1. I feel the love of those who are not physically around me.
2. I take pleasure in my own solitude.
3. I am too big a gift to this world to feel self-pity.
4. I love and approve of myself.
When you feel terrified (without your safety being in danger):
5. I focus on breathing and grounding myself.
6. Following my intuition and my heart keeps me safe and sound.
7. I make the right choices every time.
8. I draw from my inner strength and light.
9. I trust myself.
When you feel insignificant:
10. I am a unique child of this world.
11. I have as much brightness to offer the world as the next person.
12. I matter and what I have to offer this world also matters.
13. I may be one in 7 billion but I am also one in 7 billion.
When you are nervous or afraid:
14. I trust my inner wisdom and intuition.
15. I breathe in calmness and breathe out nervousness.
16. This situation works out for my highest good.
17. Wonderful things unfold before me.
When you are angry:
18. I forgive myself for all the mistakes I have made.
19. I let go of my anger so I can see clearly.
20. I accept responsibility if my anger has hurt anyone.
21. I replace my anger with understanding and compassion.
22. I offer an apology to those affected by my anger.
When you feel hopeless and at the end of your rope:
23. I may not understand the good in this situation but it is there.
24. I muster up more hope and courage from deep inside me.
25. I choose to find hopeful and optimistic ways to look at this.
26. I kindly ask for help and guidance if I cannot see a better way.
27. I refuse to give up because I haven’t tried all possible ways.
When you feel conflicted about a decision:
28. I know my wisdom guides me to the right decision.
29. I trust myself to make the best decision for me.
30. I receive all feedback with kindness but make the final call myself.
31. I listen lovingly to this inner conflict and reflect on it until I get to peace around it.
32. I love my family even if they do not understand me completely.
33. I show my family how much I love them in all the verbal and non-verbal ways I can.
34. There is a good reason I was paired with this perfect family.
35. I choose to see my family as a gift.
36. I am a better person from the hardship that I’ve gone through with my family.
When you are among friends:
37. I choose friends who approve of me and love me.
38. I surround myself with people who treat me well.
39. I take the time to show my friends that I care about them.
40. My friends do not judge me, nor do they influence what I do with my life.
41. I take great pleasure in my friends, even if we disagree or live different lives.... |
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When you are around strangers:
42. I am beautiful and smart and that’s how everyone sees me.
43. I take comfort in the fact that I can always leave this situation.
44. I never know what amazing incredible person I will meet next.
45. The company of strangers teaches me more about my own likes and dislikes.
When you are at work:
46. I am doing work that I enjoy and find fulfilling.
47. I play a big role in my own career success.
48. I ask for and do meaningful, wonderful and rewarding work.
49. I engage in work that impacts this world positively.
50. I believe in my ability to change the world with the work that I do.
When you can’t sleep:
51. Peaceful sleep awaits me in dreamland.
52. I let go of all the false stories I make up in my head.
53. I release my mind of thought until the morning.
54. I embrace the peace and quiet of the night.
55. I sleep soundly and deeply and beautifully into this night.
When you don’t want to face the day:
56. This day brings me nothing but joy.
57. Today will be a gorgeous day to remember.
58. My thoughts are my reality so I think up a bright new day.
59. I fill my day with hope and face it with joy.
60. I choose to fully participate in my day.
When you worry about your future:
61. I let go of worries that drain my energy.
62. I make smart, calculated plans for my future.
63. I am a money magnet and attract wealth and abundance.
64. I am in complete charge of planning for my future.
65. I trust in my own ability to provide well for my family.
When you can’t get your loved ones to support your dreams:
66. I follow my dreams no matter what.
67. I show compassion in helping my loved ones understand my dreams.
68. I ask my loved ones to support my dreams.
69. I answer questions about my dreams without getting defensive.
70. My loved ones love me even without fully grappling with my dreams.
71. I accept everyone as they are and continue on with pursuing my dream.
When you come face to face with a problem:
72. I am safe and sound. All is well.
73. Everything works out for my highest good.
74. There is a great reason this is unfolding before me now.
75. I have the smarts and the ability to get through this.
76. All my problems have a solution.
When you want to do more with your life but feel stuck:
77. I attempt all – not some – possible ways to get unstuck.
78. I seek a new way of thinking about this situation.
79. The answer is right before me, even if I am not seeing it yet.
80. I believe in my ability to unlock the way and set myself free.
When you can’t stop comparing yourself to others:
81. I have no right to compare myself to anyone for I do not know their whole story.
82. I compare myself only to my highest self.
83. I choose to see the light that I am to this world.
84. I am happy in my own skin and in my own circumstances.
85. I see myself as a gift to my people and community and nation. |
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When you feel you are not good enough no matter how hard you try:
86. I am more than good enough and I get better every day.
87. I give up the habit to criticize myself.
88. I adopt the mindset to praise myself.
89. I see the perfection in all my flaws and all my genius.
90. I fully approve of who I am, even as I get better.
91. I am a good person at all times of day and night.
When you want to give up:
92. I cannot give up until I have tried every conceivable way.
93. Giving up is easy and always an option so let’s delay it for another day.
94. I press on because I believe in my path.
95. It is always too early to give up on my goals.
96. I must know what awaits me at the end of this rope so I do not give up.
When you recognize how powerful, gifted, talented and brilliant you really are:
97. The past has no power over me anymore
98. I embrace the rhythm and the flowing of my own heart.
99. All that I need comes to me at the right time and place in this life.
100. I am deeply fulfilled with who I am.
With love Classyfabulous xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great positive post Madame B, good call
Me, well I am a kinda glass half full girl. I am self assured, body positive, know my self worth, don't need validation from others to be happy, and so on...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm told I have lovely eyes. Apparently I also look innocent and that adds to the attraction  I'm a hoot too "
Innocent as in even if you're guilty of something you can hide it well?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm told I have lovely eyes. Apparently I also look innocent and that adds to the attraction I'm a hoot too
Innocent as in even if you're guilty of something you can hide it well? "
Butter wouldn't melt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm told I have lovely eyes. Apparently I also look innocent and that adds to the attraction I'm a hoot too
Innocent as in even if you're guilty of something you can hide it well?
Butter wouldn't melt "
Wish i was like you... if i do something wrong and try to hide it i look as guilty as sin haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Feeling good comes from different sources for different people if you live a healthy livestlye you will feel better than of your out partying all the time but every situation is life has its positive and negative points.i personal view on life is that life is a river and there are different routes one thing you need to remember is that the river keeping moving forward and so should you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love this forum post.
I'm on a journey to love myself and my body. I've had a lot of trouble with this after growing up and hearing my mam (who's anorexic) talk about her body in a negative way I found it difficult to like the way I look. I've drank laxative teas and starved myself until I realised that it's not the life I want for MY daughter and I needed to teach her to be body positive.
I'm proud of my body because I carried a baby and breastfed for over 2 years.
I like my eyes and the fact I still look quite pretty without makeup.
Morally I'm a good person and try not to intentionly hurt others and I love that about myself. |
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"I've a mad sense of humour people don't expect it of me. Apparently I appear pretty strait laced. Go figure lol"
It's one of the things that you bring to the Forums, where a sense of humour is essential |
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"I've a mad sense of humour people don't expect it of me. Apparently I appear pretty strait laced. Go figure lol
It's one of the things that you bring to the Forums, where a sense of humour is essential "
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High cheekbones, cheeky smile, broad shoulders with nice collar bones and shapely legs are the physical attributes most people comment favourably on ??
Personality wise I'm nice (), respectful and polite with a hatred of injustice, a weird sense of humour and an honesty that comes across as blunt. I prefer to build people up rather than knock them down but I don't suffer fools gladly and when I say No, I mean it. I also pride myself on being very fair, even when it's not in my own best interest. Is that positive or just descriptive?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Great positive post Madame B, good call
Me, well I am a kinda glass half full girl. I am self assured, body positive, know my self worth, don't need validation from others to be happy, and so on...
Beautiful dahling....and your cup spillith over.... especially in that Red dress lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is a great post but on reading I noticed so many people say what compliments other people have given them or what other people say is nice. "I've been told". What about what you think of yourself?? I think it's an Irish thing that people dnt want to sound cocky or lovE themselves.
I love my eyes. I consider myself a great friend. I'm honest. I'm great at listening and people find it easy to talk to me.
Happy Monday everybody. Let's have a positive week.  "
I love this reply...you nailed it. It's like telling the person that compliments your dress... it's from penny's! It is an Irish thing to downplay what is great about ourselves for fear of getting above our station.
So many great replies above and such raw honesty....thank you fabbers and well done to those that have overcome tough obstacles to get to a place where they feel good in their own skin. Our past shapes us but doesn't define us... I grew up under extreme negativity and unfairness and I am grateful for that as they are two of the thing's I have turned around in my life as a result.
Silver lining in all situations if you look hard enough. I have instilled a sense of fairness and a positive attitude in myself and my children as a direct result.
If my personality was an outfit then I say it's designer baby lol
I list my sense of fairness and positivity and my ability to find humour in any situation as my top traits after that everything else is a bonus. Have a happy Monday and fab week guy's and gal's X |
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