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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does a 3sum ever "just happen" or must there be an arrangement in place?
I've often asked women who have had 3sums how the actual 3sum came about. As in... How do you and your partner end up in bed with another man / woman. More often then not the answer i get is that it just happened?
How the hell does it just happen 
What have your experiences been?
I always imagined a 3sum in most cases has to be planned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But ye gotta make it happen, no? I don't understand how anything "just happens"
Maybe i think too much  "
like any hook up..chemistry ..flirting etc ..yes i think u think to much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But ye gotta make it happen, no? I don't understand how anything "just happens"
Maybe i think too much
like any hook up..chemistry ..flirting etc ..yes i think u think to much "
Maybe iam thinking to technical. Like technically nothing just happens... There's a cause and an effect right?
Always confused me when ppl say "just happened"
I want a 3sum to just happen for me but it won't just happen lol |
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"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out."
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My first was at a Bar in Co Clare!
Wasn't sure if it was a wind-up or not...
(until closing time came.) |
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First threesome started out as two couples playing separately but same bedroom. Girl 2s partner fell asleep so a seond set of hands joined me and girl 1 then proceeded from there. So i think sometimes you have to be in the right place at the right time. |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
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First one I had was when I was being a perfect gentleman as a student, walking 2 girls back to their place to make sure they got home alright, and passing my place they asked if they could use the bathroom, sure no problem. Then oooo we are two tired to walk the rest of the way, can we stay here, being the gentleman I am I said yes I have a double bed ye take that and I will sleep on the couch, oooo no need for that they said and the rest is just a big smile on my face. Anyway I thought I would be quite about and not tell anybody as you never know might be a chance of it happening again. Anyway I went into the library on Monday morning and there was a big cheer, whoop and shouts of things like one woman is not enough and the kinky pair had told their friends that I was a bit of a beast in the bed, well let's just say I was glad of that double bed ha ha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"First one I had was when I was being a perfect gentleman as a student, walking 2 girls back to their place to make sure they got home alright, and passing my place they asked if they could use the bathroom, sure no problem. Then oooo we are two tired to walk the rest of the way, can we stay here, being the gentleman I am I said yes I have a double bed ye take that and I will sleep on the couch, oooo no need for that they said and the rest is just a big smile on my face. Anyway I thought I would be quite about and not tell anybody as you never know might be a chance of it happening again. Anyway I went into the library on Monday morning and there was a big cheer, whoop and shouts of things like one woman is not enough and the kinky pair had told their friends that I was a bit of a beast in the bed, well let's just say I was glad of that double bed ha ha. "
What a gentleman. I envy you though lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out."
Has worked for me on several occassions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out.
Has worked for me on several occassions"
Was dancing involved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The bar pick up does work but more often than not they chicken out but it can be a fun way to brighten up a dull night out.
Has worked for me on several occassions
Was dancing involved?"
A little  how well you know me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I've seen it "just happen" but I've also made it happen
It helps to not be a dick!
It also helps to have met the other 2 before and to make sure everyone is comfy with each other and with no alcohol involved it makes for a damn good night 
Now to just do it again and again and again |
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