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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now that the obvious is out of the way, we might advise adding some depth to your photos. Get a pic of you in a suit, or a photo that other people (key word: other) think is attractive. Have a few more photos, something of a variety. Do you have tattoos? Show em off. A cool hairstyle? A pic of you playing a guitar, boxing, performing as a DJ at a big club?
The next step is your personality. The text of your profile. Try to be creative, but not weird. Stand out, but in a good way. This was mentioned before, but look at other guys' profiles (who have lots of veris) and see what they are doing differently. Spell check your profile too. For example, the "too" in your last sentence should be spelled "to". Illiteracy is not attractive to adults.
Finally, once you've got the pics and text squared away, get veris. Get to a party. Any party, even one you're not excited about. Talk to everyone, be friendly. Get everyone's fab name, and write a positive verification for them post-party. You'd be amazed at how many veris you'll get from one party if you are social and friendly. And that will get you into many more parties, as well as other meets.
Finally, just accept that as a single guy you are at the bottom of the totem pole. Single guys are everywhere. Girls don't even need fab to find you. They can go on tinder or just go to any bar or club. Unless you are rich, have insane style, abs, or all of the above, this is a rough market for you. There's a thousand of you for every single girl. Accept that is it's going to be difficult and manage your expectations. Your best bet is to go to meet and greets, network, get people to fall for your (hopefully) charming personality, and go from there.
Finally, please please please do not ever send dick pics unless they are specifically requested. All guys have dicks. Taking a pic of yours isn't going to blow any minds. "
This should be printed out as a manual  |
