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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sorry if our real life crept into our fab life, but our swinging life is part of our real life, which has been moulded by our negative and positive life experiences.
We would like to say that we don't judge anyone's preferences but we do have our own preferences.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally "
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess"
I know what you mean.
I couldn't believe the comment the OP made. I was shocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
I know what you mean.
I couldn't believe the comment the OP made. I was shocked."
I should have just bit my tongue. I just wanted to say that I didn't want anyone censored! Maybe fab isn't a place for real people with real lives |
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh
I was surprised you brought your private life into the conversation. It seemed to me that it was out of context.
I in no way mean to belittle it btw it's great that your son is thriving . Perhaps just missed the link? I think?
Granted the response was ott for sure!
Forum throws up all kinds OP
Anyway happy fabbing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh
I was surprised you brought your private life into the conversation. It seemed to me that it was out of context.
I in no way mean to belittle it btw it's great that your son is thriving . Perhaps just missed the link? I think?
Granted the response was ott for sure!
Forum throws up all kinds OP
Anyway happy fabbing x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess"
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X |
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"If i had a life i wouldn't be here"
What a very unusual thing to say.
I think maybe, this site is not for you, as you seem to be very confused.
We certainly have a life, but also enjoy the outlet that swinging gives us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X"
I shouldn't have commented, I got swept away too.
I shouldn't have mentioned the c word, people feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry for that.
Our lives are so much richer and fuller than before, and we love every second of it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X
I shouldn't have commented, I got swept away too.
I shouldn't have mentioned the c word, people feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry for that.
Our lives are so much richer and fuller than before, and we love every second of it
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People being uncomfortable with a word need to grow up! I have a friend who lost a child under different circumstances and she said the hardest part of her grief was when people would cross the street to avoid her because they were uncomfortable. I rang her weekly and it took month's before she could even have a conversation and yes it was uncomfortable at times as there is nothing I could do to make it easier for her but not as uncomfortable as loosing a child.
Again in my opinion don't apologise for what you have come through and for how it has made a difference in your life.
Just keep being you and if they are uncomfortable with the C word try using the other one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X
I shouldn't have commented, I got swept away too.
I shouldn't have mentioned the c word, people feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry for that.
Our lives are so much richer and fuller than before, and we love every second of it
People being uncomfortable with a word need to grow up! I have a friend who lost a child under different circumstances and she said the hardest part of her grief was when people would cross the street to avoid her because they were uncomfortable. I rang her weekly and it took month's before she could even have a conversation and yes it was uncomfortable at times as there is nothing I could do to make it easier for her but not as uncomfortable as loosing a child.
Again in my opinion don't apologise for what you have come through and for how it has made a difference in your life.
Just keep being you and if they are uncomfortable with the C word try using the other one"
Yes, I know many parents who have lost their children, we had a discussion once about the fact that losing a child is so horrific we don't even have a word, a child with no parents is an orphan, you have widows and widowers, but no word for a parent who's child has passed.
The other c word.... chocolate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seen the thread and fully understood what you meant...Sadly the OP is always nit picking so pass no remarks he loves threads that start heated debates and get peoples backs up .But you have no reason to say sorry at all Hope ur kid is fine now and kicking the worlds ass |
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X
I shouldn't have commented, I got swept away too.
I shouldn't have mentioned the c word, people feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry for that.
Our lives are so much richer and fuller than before, and we love every second of it
People being uncomfortable with a word need to grow up! I have a friend who lost a child under different circumstances and she said the hardest part of her grief was when people would cross the street to avoid her because they were uncomfortable. I rang her weekly and it took month's before she could even have a conversation and yes it was uncomfortable at times as there is nothing I could do to make it easier for her but not as uncomfortable as loosing a child.
Again in my opinion don't apologise for what you have come through and for how it has made a difference in your life.
Just keep being you and if they are uncomfortable with the C word try using the other one"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X
I shouldn't have commented, I got swept away too.
I shouldn't have mentioned the c word, people feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry for that.
Our lives are so much richer and fuller than before, and we love every second of it
People being uncomfortable with a word need to grow up! I have a friend who lost a child under different circumstances and she said the hardest part of her grief was when people would cross the street to avoid her because they were uncomfortable. I rang her weekly and it took month's before she could even have a conversation and yes it was uncomfortable at times as there is nothing I could do to make it easier for her but not as uncomfortable as loosing a child.
Again in my opinion don't apologise for what you have come through and for how it has made a difference in your life.
Just keep being you and if they are uncomfortable with the C word try using the other one
Yes, I know many parents who have lost their children, we had a discussion once about the fact that losing a child is so horrific we don't even have a word, a child with no parents is an orphan, you have widows and widowers, but no word for a parent who's child has passed.
The other c word.... chocolate "
It's not the big C
It's Cancer
An hats off to all that have kicked it's ass an are enjoying life to the full,
You only get 1 chance in life, you either take it by the balls and live or let it eat you up,
My choice was by the balls and swinging lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why apologise? Have you offended someone?
I think we got someone's thread removed because we brought our reality into the forum. Sorry
You didn't do it intentionally
Really didn't think that could happen,I hate censorship. I did not mean to censor anyone.
I am the daughter of a cancer survivor and the mother of a kid who kicked cancers butt, its moulded us, its made us really live I bring that with me. It makes me hate bullshit.
I only ever hope that our life experiences will help others never censor them.
Jess
Hi op, I missed the thread but have to comment on this.
First off everyone here is merely expressing an opinion and their opinions are moulded by their life experiences so do not apologise.
Secondly hat tip to the amount of positivity in your input here because of what life has lain at your feet, it is admirable.
Thirdly a lot of people posting get so swept up in it they are being reactive as opposed to thinking about what they are typing, I am not justifying what was said in any shape or form as I am unaware of what was said but merely pointing out that like in the real world some people don't think...they blurt! This is my observations of the forum's only. It's like getting caught in a downpour, you get inside and shake it off and warm up again.
Best of luck in your lives and enjoy every precious moment X
I shouldn't have commented, I got swept away too.
I shouldn't have mentioned the c word, people feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry for that.
Our lives are so much richer and fuller than before, and we love every second of it
People being uncomfortable with a word need to grow up! I have a friend who lost a child under different circumstances and she said the hardest part of her grief was when people would cross the street to avoid her because they were uncomfortable. I rang her weekly and it took month's before she could even have a conversation and yes it was uncomfortable at times as there is nothing I could do to make it easier for her but not as uncomfortable as loosing a child.
Again in my opinion don't apologise for what you have come through and for how it has made a difference in your life.
Just keep being you and if they are uncomfortable with the C word try using the other one
Dyslexia? "
Am free on Tuesday to discuss it with you M so see you then |
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